AS: Yes, we agree that it is 'rude'. As far as arrogant, I think there is no way to prove your belief as there is no way to know for sure what goes on in the mind of another in order to know if what I say is true. And since, I (and k) am describing the "aesthetic" in this instance as being the one having these "episodes" and you are not (as you have not admitted to such), I would be more likely to know what goes on in my own mind than you. So, if you really want to get down to it....it is you who are being arrogant thinking you know what goes on in my mind and/or other's minds and not necessarily the other way around. By the way, I think it is important to mention that this phenomenon is not limited to people. It can happen when there is no one around too.
A:I think ADD is an example of a society and culture that medicalizes problems due to a need for quick-fixes and a shifting of responsibility rather than dealing with the social, family and educational systems that cause such behaviour. That and it makes a load of work for the pyscho-babblers and medical insurance companies.
AS: You may be right as I was just attaching a label without really knowing anything about ADD. The truth is I have noticed this 'thing' in others as well as myself and was glad to know I was not alone...I would not say I know what goes on in their mind...only in mine and only that it was similar to K's aesthetic.
I do think it rude when I lose focus...but that I can't always help it. Do you think I don't hate the behavior....or do you think it would help if I punish myself a little more? I just have lived with it so long and I try to compensate by being kind in other ways. So rude, yes....arrogant, not so much. When I am arrogant I know exactly what a person is saying as I have a very strong opinion and intend to share it with or without being asked....sound familiar?
A:I can only judge by what they write and as such this is my judgement upon their words.
AS: I can understand this...I do the same. But could there be an instance that perhaps you do not have the experience to be an authority on the thoughts of others?