We find ourselves engaged with the world and with other people. In the world we use things. And isn't it so that no matter what worth a thing may have we can manipulate it - because it's only a thing - it can never be as valuable as life is. If I wear it out and can afford to buy a replacement for it I will junk it; and my conscience is clear.
This is not the case with a person, though. If I manipulate a person, and have a sensitive conscience, one that is awake and not sleeping, it will bother my conscience that I have used people. That's a common experience.
The person who knows his/her ethics will take responsibility, and knows that there is no limit to how responsible one may be: no matter how much responsibility one has assumed, or volunteered for, one can always do more.
A face-to-face personal encounter with another person is the best kind of interaction to have. It ought to be a mutual I-Thou experience, one of mutual respect ....wouldn't you agree?
Our inner life is shaped most by the experiences we have had, and especially by the personal interactions. Isn't that so?"
Can we agree that it is wrong to manipulate people; that mutual respect is important; that taking on some reponsibility you can handle is the mature thing to do; that being sensitive to the needs of others is good; and that as we go through life the ideal is to have a clear conscience?
If we can, that is the beginning of ethical insight. We share common ground: We don’t want to use and abuse people; they are not things. They are individuals. Let’s treat them with courtesy, with civility, for that’s the kind of person that we are. I want to be a decent human being, and so do you. Okay?
What’s the right way to regard a human being? Do we erase them, as we would a number? Do we use them, as we would a thing? Or do we treasure them as someone we might be able to learn something from; or enjoy the company of; or someone we could appreciate? Can we get along with the people of the world? Can we be friends? Whatever the question, love is the answer. Am I wrong?
Enemies, revenge, burning heretics, drowning witches, holding slaves, wars, buying people, exploitation, never having enough no matter how comfortable you are, being greedy, being corrupt, seeking a bribe …. Let’s be done with all that! What do you think?
So here are some questions for us to talk over:
1) What's right with the world? What should I do to build on and strengthen what's right?
2) According to http://www.census.gov, the world's population reached 7,000,000,000 in April 2012. What could be done so that every creature on the planet has access to sufficient amounts of fresh air, clean water, and nutritious food?
3) What do I really want and what I'm willing to do to get there?
4) What principles should every person in the world live by? Are there any virtues which everyone should practice?
5) What can I do to make the world better? What’s wrong in this world, and how can we fix it?
I wish for you a high-quality life ! And I will work to make it happen.