Gender Conflict And International Relationships
Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2025 12:01 am
Both sides in the gender conflict are wrong. It makes no sense to be either for or against either men or women. Men and women are beings capable of choice. Anything capable of choice can be good or bad. It makes sense to support men and women who make right choices and oppose men and women who make wrong ones.
Specifically, it makes sense to support men who are willing to be good to women and women who are willing to be good to men. And it makes sense to oppose men who are not willing to be good to women and women who are not willing to be good to men.
The gender conflict encourages the worst possible choices. Women are taught to be mean, paranoid and vicious, and men are taught to be brutal and corrupt. They both take it out on precisely the wrong people. The feminists take it out on men nearest the liberal centers of learning who are the least misogynistic men out there, and the other side takes it out on women in socially conservative communities who have done the least to cause feminism. In both cases it is taught that being a jerk pays.
In both cases we see unelected usurpers claiming leadership of 50% of humanity and using that claim to bludgeon the rest of their gender into being as bad the people as they are themselves.
The result: worse men, worse women, worse relationships and worse world.
I seek to correct this state of affairs. Specifically, I want to see it pay for men to be good to women and for women to be good to men. To that effect I propose a large cross-cultural flux for intermarriage, bringing together men who are willing to be good to women with women who are willing to be good to men. That way the people of goodwill will have better relationships than they stand to have at home, and there will be an incentive upon the offending gender in each society to improve their treatment of the other gender - or else see the other gender leave in large numbers to be with people who are willing to treat them right.
The American men who get mistreated by nasty feminism-influenced women need to know their worth. An employed, non-violent American man is a prized article all around the world. There are all sorts of good women who want to be with such a person. Give someone good from another country a chance at a better life. And give yourself a chance at a better life by being with such a woman.
Women in places such as Russia, Brazil and Iran need to know their worth as well. These women are beautiful, family-oriented and willing to treat men right. In their countries their men treat them like dirt. Come to America and marry an American man. Give yourself a chance at a better life - and give an American man a chance at a better life than he stands to have with an American woman.
A sizable influx of women from such cultures will show American men what they have been missing. It will also refute the feminists' claim that they own strength and intelligence, as many of these women are intelligent and strong-willed. As a result, American womanhood will improve; and with it, American culture.
A major concept from economics is that, when left to their own devices, people will select the outcome that works best, and that incentivizes good business practices. Here, we see incentivization of good behavior. People will be free to choose partners cross-culturally, resulting in incentivizing good behavior toward one’s partner. And that will result in more of this good behavior taking place.
I am tired of seeing good people - both men and women - being abused by bad people. I have seen plenty of good men and good women in such situations. This is wrong. Good men and women should get together and leave the bad ones to each other.
The real conflict is not between men and women. The real conflict is between abusers in the name of both genders and everyone else. A good man will want to be good to his woman. A good woman would want to be good to her man. A man who is not willing to be good to his woman is a bad man, and a woman who is not willing to be good to her man is a bad woman. Neither deserve to speak for their gender. The two parties in the gender conflict deserve each other. The rest of us deserve to be free of the both of them.
Have the courage to love whom you love, whatever you hear from the abusers in the name of either gender. And see your life vastly improve.
Specifically, it makes sense to support men who are willing to be good to women and women who are willing to be good to men. And it makes sense to oppose men who are not willing to be good to women and women who are not willing to be good to men.
The gender conflict encourages the worst possible choices. Women are taught to be mean, paranoid and vicious, and men are taught to be brutal and corrupt. They both take it out on precisely the wrong people. The feminists take it out on men nearest the liberal centers of learning who are the least misogynistic men out there, and the other side takes it out on women in socially conservative communities who have done the least to cause feminism. In both cases it is taught that being a jerk pays.
In both cases we see unelected usurpers claiming leadership of 50% of humanity and using that claim to bludgeon the rest of their gender into being as bad the people as they are themselves.
The result: worse men, worse women, worse relationships and worse world.
I seek to correct this state of affairs. Specifically, I want to see it pay for men to be good to women and for women to be good to men. To that effect I propose a large cross-cultural flux for intermarriage, bringing together men who are willing to be good to women with women who are willing to be good to men. That way the people of goodwill will have better relationships than they stand to have at home, and there will be an incentive upon the offending gender in each society to improve their treatment of the other gender - or else see the other gender leave in large numbers to be with people who are willing to treat them right.
The American men who get mistreated by nasty feminism-influenced women need to know their worth. An employed, non-violent American man is a prized article all around the world. There are all sorts of good women who want to be with such a person. Give someone good from another country a chance at a better life. And give yourself a chance at a better life by being with such a woman.
Women in places such as Russia, Brazil and Iran need to know their worth as well. These women are beautiful, family-oriented and willing to treat men right. In their countries their men treat them like dirt. Come to America and marry an American man. Give yourself a chance at a better life - and give an American man a chance at a better life than he stands to have with an American woman.
A sizable influx of women from such cultures will show American men what they have been missing. It will also refute the feminists' claim that they own strength and intelligence, as many of these women are intelligent and strong-willed. As a result, American womanhood will improve; and with it, American culture.
A major concept from economics is that, when left to their own devices, people will select the outcome that works best, and that incentivizes good business practices. Here, we see incentivization of good behavior. People will be free to choose partners cross-culturally, resulting in incentivizing good behavior toward one’s partner. And that will result in more of this good behavior taking place.
I am tired of seeing good people - both men and women - being abused by bad people. I have seen plenty of good men and good women in such situations. This is wrong. Good men and women should get together and leave the bad ones to each other.
The real conflict is not between men and women. The real conflict is between abusers in the name of both genders and everyone else. A good man will want to be good to his woman. A good woman would want to be good to her man. A man who is not willing to be good to his woman is a bad man, and a woman who is not willing to be good to her man is a bad woman. Neither deserve to speak for their gender. The two parties in the gender conflict deserve each other. The rest of us deserve to be free of the both of them.
Have the courage to love whom you love, whatever you hear from the abusers in the name of either gender. And see your life vastly improve.