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Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2025 10:23 am
by Fairy
I don’t think they have a hope in hell of ever making it work out successfully. Not like they did back in the olden more traditional days of when couple’s were more than happy and willing to tie the knot that would enslave them both to each other in marriage till death do they part.
Women of today will never commit themselves to being the traditional muzzled handmaid likened to a Stepford wife to a man.
Romantic relationships between men and women seem to be dead and buried and forever doomed to ever show up in the here and now, or in the future.
Do men really prefer the muzzled handmaid woman to be their life partners?
Do men and women secretly hate each other, but just use each other for sex anyway? Is modern marriage becoming likened to a kind of Stockholm syndrome for weak people afraid to be alone and so rather than be alone they’d just settle for the trade off game that they believe is love and marriage?
Do human beings secretly hate each other? Maybe there’s some truth in this distain between the two opposite sexes, because humans do not have to worry about being prey to a predator like most of the animal kingdom experience, except when the predator is another human being of course.
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2025 11:54 am
by Impenitent
like anything that's worth anything, it takes effort
que sera sera
-Imp
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2025 12:00 pm
by Fairy
Impenitent wrote: ↑Fri Jun 06, 2025 11:54 am
like anything that's worth anything, it takes effort
que sera sera
-Imp
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2025 3:06 am
by godelian
The problem will eventually solve itself.
Feminism is a failing experiment that has not succeeded in redefining biologically-innate intergender dynamics. It has merely succeeded in putting a halt to the reproduction of feminist populations.
Feminism is actually easy to defeat:
(1) refuse to believe in it; refuse to listen to their word salads.
(2) for the purpose of romantic connections, reject anybody who believes in it; learn to detect the red flags and act accordingly.
Whenever you see the subtle signs of feminist viral infection, reclassify the case immediately into the status "for recreational use only".
You just have to learn to out-stubborn lots of other people in naysaying. It is really not that hard. It is not difficult not to fall in love if you simply don't want to. Just say "no' and move on.
There are always other countries.
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2025 10:22 am
by Fairy
For the first time in my 67 years on this planet I’m choosing myself and it feels so good.
I finally chose me and it has changed everything. I’m finally healed, free, and in total peace with myself.
All my past relationships have only served to hold a mirror to my being, to reflect what was already inside me that I had not yet healed from or not yet learnt to unconditionally accept as my own being, the hurt and the hatred, the fear and the loathing, the fear of abandonment issues, the fear of not being good enough, the reactive nature, the revengeful feelings, the triggers that were so easily ignited, all these were just aspects of my own being. Nothing to do with the other person’s being.
But also, my relationships had reflected back to me a deep genuine innocent honesty, a caring, kind goodness and appreciation to willingly want to be with me in the first place, to hold that mirror up to reflect the pure beauty that is LOVE’s attraction, this too was also already inside me, my own being reflected back at me from another.
And is why I’m finally letting go of the need for someone else to validate and complete me. I’ve chosen to accept that some people were never meant to stay with me, they were only meant to be my mirror for just a short while, then leave.
I have no more tears to cry. I’m with peace now. I’m ready for judgement day, and will accept it graciously for it will be everything I have deserved as only I have attracted it into my life. I am always under construction.
Love is never having to say your sorry. I have only hurt myself. I forgive myself. Under his eye. God bless.
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2025 10:43 am
by Atla
Fairy wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 10:22 am
For the first time in my 67 years on this planet I’m choosing myself and it feels so good.
I finally chose me and it has changed everything. I’m finally healed, free, and in total peace with myself.
All my past relationships have only served to hold a mirror to my being, to reflect what was already inside me that I had not yet healed from or not yet learnt to unconditionally accept as my own being, the hurt and the hatred, the fear and the loathing, the fear of abandonment issues, the fear of not being good enough, the reactive nature, the revengeful feelings, the triggers that were so easily ignited, all these were just aspects of my own being. Nothing to do with the other person’s being.
But also, my relationships had reflected back to me a deep genuine innocent honesty, a caring, kind goodness and appreciation to willingly want to be with me in the first place, to hold that mirror up to reflect the pure beauty that is LOVE’s attraction, this too was also already inside me, my own being reflected back at me from another.
And is why I’m finally letting go of the need for someone else to validate and complete me. I’ve chosen to accept that some people were never meant to stay with me, they were only meant to be my mirror for just a short while, then leave.
I have no more tears to cry. I’m with peace now. I’m ready for judgement day, and will accept it graciously for it will be everything I have deserved as only I have attracted it into my life. I am always under construction.
Love is never having to say your sorry. I have only hurt myself. I forgive myself. Under his eye. God bless.
Or maybe there is nothing new under the sun, you were always "choosing" yourself without realizing. Unevolved Leos just aren't relationship material, they need to overcome their birth defect of not processing anything and anyone outside of themselves.
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2025 11:36 am
by Fairy
Atla wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 10:43 am
Fairy wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 10:22 am
For the first time in my 67 years on this planet I’m choosing myself and it feels so good.
I finally chose me and it has changed everything. I’m finally healed, free, and in total peace with myself.
All my past relationships have only served to hold a mirror to my being, to reflect what was already inside me that I had not yet healed from or not yet learnt to unconditionally accept as my own being, the hurt and the hatred, the fear and the loathing, the fear of abandonment issues, the fear of not being good enough, the reactive nature, the revengeful feelings, the triggers that were so easily ignited, all these were just aspects of my own being. Nothing to do with the other person’s being.
But also, my relationships had reflected back to me a deep genuine innocent honesty, a caring, kind goodness and appreciation to willingly want to be with me in the first place, to hold that mirror up to reflect the pure beauty that is LOVE’s attraction, this too was also already inside me, my own being reflected back at me from another.
And is why I’m finally letting go of the need for someone else to validate and complete me. I’ve chosen to accept that some people were never meant to stay with me, they were only meant to be my mirror for just a short while, then leave.
I have no more tears to cry. I’m with peace now. I’m ready for judgement day, and will accept it graciously for it will be everything I have deserved as only I have attracted it into my life. I am always under construction.
Love is never having to say your sorry. I have only hurt myself. I forgive myself. Under his eye. God bless.
Or maybe there is nothing new under the sun, you were always "choosing" yourself without realizing. Unevolved Leos just aren't relationship material, they need to overcome their birth defect of not processing anything and anyone outside of themselves.
Maybe you’re right, maybe you’re wrong.
The proof is in the pudding, in the actual action, and not in mere meaningless words.
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2025 11:39 am
by Atla
Fairy wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 11:36 am
Atla wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 10:43 am
Fairy wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 10:22 am
For the first time in my 67 years on this planet I’m choosing myself and it feels so good.
I finally chose me and it has changed everything. I’m finally healed, free, and in total peace with myself.
All my past relationships have only served to hold a mirror to my being, to reflect what was already inside me that I had not yet healed from or not yet learnt to unconditionally accept as my own being, the hurt and the hatred, the fear and the loathing, the fear of abandonment issues, the fear of not being good enough, the reactive nature, the revengeful feelings, the triggers that were so easily ignited, all these were just aspects of my own being. Nothing to do with the other person’s being.
But also, my relationships had reflected back to me a deep genuine innocent honesty, a caring, kind goodness and appreciation to willingly want to be with me in the first place, to hold that mirror up to reflect the pure beauty that is LOVE’s attraction, this too was also already inside me, my own being reflected back at me from another.
And is why I’m finally letting go of the need for someone else to validate and complete me. I’ve chosen to accept that some people were never meant to stay with me, they were only meant to be my mirror for just a short while, then leave.
I have no more tears to cry. I’m with peace now. I’m ready for judgement day, and will accept it graciously for it will be everything I have deserved as only I have attracted it into my life. I am always under construction.
Love is never having to say your sorry. I have only hurt myself. I forgive myself. Under his eye. God bless.
Or maybe there is nothing new under the sun, you were always "choosing" yourself without realizing. Unevolved Leos just aren't relationship material, they need to overcome their birth defect of not processing anything and anyone outside of themselves.
Maybe you’re right, maybe you’re wrong.
The proof is in the pudding, in the actual action, and not in mere meaningless words.
Pride won't help you here.
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:10 pm
by Fairy
Atla wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 11:39 am
Fairy wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 11:36 am
Atla wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 10:43 am
Or maybe there is nothing new under the sun, you were always "choosing" yourself without realizing. Unevolved Leos just aren't relationship material, they need to overcome their birth defect of not processing anything and anyone outside of themselves.
Maybe you’re right, maybe you’re wrong.
The proof is in the pudding, in the actual action, and not in mere meaningless words.
Pride won't help you here.
Meaningless irrelevant people don’t concern or exist in my world.
I care only for one person right now and that’s Harbal.
I love him. And I don’t care if he doesn’t love me. I just love loving him, and the memory of him is what I get to hold tenderly in my heart forever, the memories are fully locked inside my heart, until the day I die. I’m leaving this world in bliss remembering the nirvana he made me feel when we both shared that brief unforgettable time together. Always in my heart now, and I’m never letting that delightful memory fade away.
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:28 pm
by Atla
Fairy wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:10 pm
Atla wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 11:39 am
Fairy wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 11:36 am
Maybe you’re right, maybe you’re wrong.
The proof is in the pudding, in the actual action, and not in mere meaningless words.
Pride won't help you here.
Meaningless irrelevant people don’t concern or exist in my world.
I care only for one person right now and that’s Harbal.
I love him. And I don’t care if he doesn’t love me. I just love loving him, and the memory of him is what I get to hold tenderly in my heart forever, the memories are fully locked inside my heart, until the day I die. I’m leaving this world in bliss remembering the nirvana he made me feel when we both shared that brief unforgettable time together. Always in my heart now, and I’m never letting that delightful memory fade away.
Yeah yeah
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:40 pm
by Fairy
Atla wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:28 pm
Fairy wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:10 pm
Atla wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 11:39 am
Pride won't help you here.
Meaningless irrelevant people don’t concern or exist in my world.
I care only for one person right now and that’s Harbal.
I love him. And I don’t care if he doesn’t love me. I just love loving him, and the memory of him is what I get to hold tenderly in my heart forever, the memories are fully locked inside my heart, until the day I die. I’m leaving this world in bliss remembering the nirvana he made me feel when we both shared that brief unforgettable time together. Always in my heart now, and I’m never letting that delightful memory fade away.
Yeah yeah
Bit cynical aren’t you, have you ever loved someone? I mean really love someone who you only have to look at them to feel an orgasmic rush sweep over your entire body. That’s how Harbal used to make me feel. He literally took my breath away. I’ve never experienced such a deep burning love for someone until I met him.
So don’t judge it until you know it yourself. Until it’s become your experience.
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:43 pm
by Atla
Fairy wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:40 pm
Atla wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:28 pm
Fairy wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:10 pm
Meaningless irrelevant people don’t concern or exist in my world.
I care only for one person right now and that’s Harbal.
I love him. And I don’t care if he doesn’t love me. I just love loving him, and the memory of him is what I get to hold tenderly in my heart forever, the memories are fully locked inside my heart, until the day I die. I’m leaving this world in bliss remembering the nirvana he made me feel when we both shared that brief unforgettable time together. Always in my heart now, and I’m never letting that delightful memory fade away.
Yeah yeah
Bit cynical aren’t you, have you ever loved someone? I mean really love someone who you only have to look at them to feel an orgasm rush sweep over your entire body. That’s how Harbal used to make me feel. He literally took my breath away. I’ve never experienced such a deep burning love for someone until I met him.
So don’t judge it until you know it yourself. Until it’s become your experience.
Your love is still shallow and dysfunctional. I've experienced better.
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:50 pm
by Fairy
Atla wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:43 pm
Fairy wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:40 pm
Atla wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:28 pm
Yeah yeah
Bit cynical aren’t you, have you ever loved someone? I mean really love someone who you only have to look at them to feel an orgasm rush sweep over your entire body. That’s how Harbal used to make me feel. He literally took my breath away. I’ve never experienced such a deep burning love for someone until I met him.
So don’t judge it until you know it yourself. Until it’s become your experience.
Your love is still shallow and dysfunctional. I've experienced better.
I’m glad you’ve experienced better. I’m genuinely happy for you, as that’s how Harbal made me feel when I was with him, he was the best.
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:56 pm
by Fairy
The thing is whenever a person dares to be completely open with no pretentious filters, just being honest and vulnerable with others. People will still judge you negatively and harshly and critically, and even hate you for just being yourself, but who cares, just let them. No one really knows you, but yourself.
Everything else is just reflected projection.
Re: Today’s Modern Men and Women Relationships
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2025 1:02 pm
by Atla
Fairy wrote: ↑Sat Jun 07, 2025 12:56 pm
The thing is whenever a person dares to be completely open with no pretentious filters, just being honest and vulnerable with others. People will still judge you negatively and harshly and critically, and even hate you for just being yourself, but who cares, just let them. No one really knows you, but yourself.
Everything else is just reflected projection.
Get used to it.
You're the one who insisted on going this fake solipsistic pseudo-nondualist-crap route, instead of maturing. (Mature Leos can be pretty cool.) Maybe you'd be better off not showing your true self (or lack thereof).
