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accelafine wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 6:47 am I would suggest that you don't make judgements about what women choose. It's none of your fucking business. If they don't choose you then you are unattractive. End of story.

godelian wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 6:54 am

accelafine wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 6:47 am I would suggest that you don't make judgements about what women choose. It's none of your fucking business. If they don't choose you then you are unattractive. End of story.

Did you watch the video? No? Then watch it first before opening that big mouth of yours. By the way, there is a smell of snake venom in the air. Did you brush your teeth this morning? That is actually another good reason for you to shut your mouth.

accelafine wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 6:58 am I saw AI 'women' and words coming out of their mouths that were not their words. It was quite bizarre actually.

accelafine wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 6:58 am You don't speak for women and unfortunately for you you just have to accept their rejection. They don't owe you a thing.

godelian wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 7:18 am

accelafine wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 6:58 am I saw AI 'women' and words coming out of their mouths that were not their words. It was quite bizarre actually.

They use lots of filters in Tiktok videos.

accelafine wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 6:58 am You don't speak for women and unfortunately for you you just have to accept their rejection. They don't owe you a thing.

I live in SE Asia. I have never had dealings with Chinese women. China is another part of Asia altogether. However, I am what these Chinese videos call "a man with good conditions". Therefore, I guess that lots of Chinese women would also be interested. Seriously, you do not seem to understand the dating market particularly well. Everywhere in the world, beautiful young women vastly outnumber men "with good conditions", at least ten to one. Therefore, it is men "with good conditions" that do most of the rejecting.

By the way, from the fact that you often turn your comment into a personal attack, I know that no man can stand you. Since you are objectively such a detestable individual, how can you hope to ever keep a man? You are clearly what in software we call "abandonware". There is no way in which you can compensate for being insufferable. That is why you cannot possibly keep a man. You will remain single forever.

accelafine wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 7:21 am You are so weird.

accelafine wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 7:21 am You don't even seem to live in the real world.

accelafine wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 7:21 am Try staying off porn for a bit and go out and meet real women.

godelian wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 6:44 am The video:

Why Chinese Beautiful Women Ignore Good Men and Are Attracted to the 'Wrong' Ones?

Traditionally, a young Chinese woman would get her family to vet and approve any man interested in her. She would not make this kind of choices alone. Nowadays, a modern Chinese woman makes the choices by herself without family input. Consequently, she typically racks up lots of damaging experiences with a string of "bad boys".

When a modern Chinese woman finally tires of the "bad boys", she often resorts to paying a match maker to find a husband for her. In the video, they interview one of these match makers. The match maker says that the biggest problem she has, is that her typical client finds the "honest men" that she introduces, to be boring. Her client misses the excitement of the "bad boys". She confuses love with emotional chaos. She understands that she should not try to marry a "bad boy". She actually knows that she "needs" an honest man for marriage but in fact she does not "want" one.

Modern Chinese women seem to have many of the same problems as modern western women.

godelian wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 6:44 am The video:

Why Chinese Beautiful Women Ignore Good Men and Are Attracted to the 'Wrong' Ones?

Traditionally, a young Chinese woman would get her family to vet and approve any man interested in her. She would not make this kind of choices alone. Nowadays, a modern Chinese woman makes the choices by herself without family input. Consequently, she typically racks up lots of damaging experiences with a string of "bad boys".

When a modern Chinese woman finally tires of the "bad boys", she often resorts to paying a match maker to find a husband for her. In the video, they interview one of these match makers. The match maker says that the biggest problem she has, is that her typical client finds the "honest men" that she introduces, to be boring. Her client misses the excitement of the "bad boys". She confuses love with emotional chaos. She understands that she should not try to marry a "bad boy". She actually knows that she "needs" an honest man for marriage but in fact she does not "want" one.

Modern Chinese women seem to have many of the same problems as modern western women.

Eodnhoj7 wrote: ↑Thu Feb 20, 2025 12:58 am

godelian wrote: ↑Mon Feb 03, 2025 6:44 am The video:

Why Chinese Beautiful Women Ignore Good Men and Are Attracted to the 'Wrong' Ones?

Traditionally, a young Chinese woman would get her family to vet and approve any man interested in her. She would not make this kind of choices alone. Nowadays, a modern Chinese woman makes the choices by herself without family input. Consequently, she typically racks up lots of damaging experiences with a string of "bad boys".

When a modern Chinese woman finally tires of the "bad boys", she often resorts to paying a match maker to find a husband for her. In the video, they interview one of these match makers. The match maker says that the biggest problem she has, is that her typical client finds the "honest men" that she introduces, to be boring. Her client misses the excitement of the "bad boys". She confuses love with emotional chaos. She understands that she should not try to marry a "bad boy". She actually knows that she "needs" an honest man for marriage but in fact she does not "want" one.

Modern Chinese women seem to have many of the same problems as modern western women.

I saw the title and thought "this looks interesting, I have heard people say this before".

My thoughts on the matter, and these are subject to change like all things in life:


The truth is women just want to have fun...they are not that complicated. If you can make them laugh and are interesting in conversation while knowing what to do physically you have 99 percent of it down.

In all the successes and failures I have had in personal relationships with women and what I seen as well in the relationships of others, ranging in the various sorts of relationships types of friends, family and romance, I have had the conclusion, which I will admit is quite subject to change, that women do not realize that the majority of the time they overvalue themselves and are more often than not dramatic burdens that offer little of anything but short term gratification.


To me, I feel bad and pity the majority of them...and I pity the men weak enough to put up with the drama and pity the narcissists for living barren lives.

The video is right in pointing out the deficiencies of honest and dishonest men and I really don't think women are in a good position in regards to the availability of men for them...if both sides of the coin are to be looked at.

Women are f"""ed because honest men are weak and strong men are exploitative.

Men are f"""ed because women are just draining and do not offer much other than a good night out for a short period of time and then become boring because of a repeated predictable need for drama.

Noone wins the game but rather everyone runs a treadmill until the point of collapse. Then time burns everyone away.

From a guy's perspective and lowering the bar to the absolute minimum of just basic interaction with women as a standard, not including friends/family/romance, I have run only into a literal handful of women in my life that where not some form of nightmare.

The first thought that comes to mind when I attract a woman is "what misery am I in for now". I walk into a gym, do some advanced yoga poses, five minutes later women are coming up to me showering me with compliments, I say "thanks" and just ignore them and continue doing what I am doing.


Maybe I am an a""hole...cool than I am an a""hole.

After all the relative successes and relative failures with women I have had over the years I have learned not to take them too seriously like an adult doesn't take the ramblings of a toddler to seriously. Just walk your own path with as little falsity as you can and let the consequences be damned. Whatever happens, happens.

People in general, and this obviously includes women, are a waste of time after a certain point of interaction.

Now this is the part where I get trolled or roasted for whatever...but I don't really care.

Atla wrote: ↑Thu Feb 20, 2025 1:16 am Looks like you're running out of options, what's left for you is to buy a nice "traditional" woman in a country with Sharia law, or four if you can afford it.

godelian wrote: ↑Thu Feb 20, 2025 1:27 am

Atla wrote: ↑Thu Feb 20, 2025 1:16 am Looks like you're running out of options, what's left for you is to buy a nice "traditional" woman in a country with Sharia law, or four if you can afford it.

By turning any arbitrary conversation with a man into a personal attack, you demonstrate why exactly you cannot keep a man. Every man ends up leaving you. That is inevitable. If you wonder why you are stuck in that dreaded "pump and dump" dating pattern, which is the bane of the modern woman, then don't look any further. You are unpleasant company. That is why you are alone and why will stay alone.

Atla wrote: ↑Thu Feb 20, 2025 1:30 am

godelian wrote: ↑Thu Feb 20, 2025 1:27 am

Atla wrote: ↑Thu Feb 20, 2025 1:16 am Looks like you're running out of options, what's left for you is to buy a nice "traditional" woman in a country with Sharia law, or four if you can afford it.

By turning any arbitrary conversation with a man into a personal attack, you demonstrate why exactly you cannot keep a man. Every man ends up leaving you. That is inevitable. If you wonder why you are stuck in that dreaded "pump and dump" dating pattern, which is the bane of the modern woman, then don't look any further. You are unpleasant company. That is why you are alone and why will stay alone.