the lure of passions...
Posted: Sat Aug 13, 2022 7:30 pm
David Hume once wrote:
"Reason is an ought to be the slave of the passions"
I ask, why is that? It seems to me that given the nature of passions,
we should learn to contain, control our passions.. and one method
to control/contain our passions is through the effort of reason...
I have suffered from the "pangs" of passion.. more than once, my passions
lead me to go out of control... to be unable to control my speech, to control
my actions... I was lead by my passions to be unable control who I was...
from the loss of control leads to violence, mayhem, murder, instability
chaos and even insanity... when I was out of control from my passions, I
was unstable, even perhaps insane... the trick to having passions is to
be able to contain, control those passions.. to have reason be in charge,
not the passions... I have learned this from my own experience....
no matter how deep my passions go, I still have them in control...
I am in charge, not my passions..
but for many, many people they lead from their passions... they don't
act or react from being in control... they are out of control if they
allow their passions to be in control.... Look in the United States from
the threats that are coming from the legally executed search warrant on IQ45..
the far right has threatened the FBI, the agents on site at Mar-a-Largo,
the property of the federal government and the FBI...threats on
the head of the Justice Department, Marrick Garland...for example,
MTG, Marjorie Taylor Greens has filed articles of impeachment against
Garland... yes, she is dumber than dirt, but she has allowed her emotions
to threaten the AG... This impeachment threat is nothing more than Kabuki
theatre, I will grant you, but still, it gives the idea of
of the threat of those who follow passions instead of reason....
now the beauty of reason over passion is several.. but one of the main one
is that passion can wax and wan.. it isn't stable or remain constant...
I have had great passion for some women, and yet years later I couldn't even
tell you, their names.. Or what they looked like passion rises and fades..
quite often quickly and with no rhyme or reason...
the strength of reason is that within reason, there is no wild up and downs
stemming from reason.. reason remains the same, day in and day out,
24/7/365.... my reason remains the same, now my understanding of
a topic might change.. as I grow older and by using experience, I
can understand things better than I did when I was younger... in addition
to my reason, I can add experience to an understanding of a topic...
I grant you, that my use of experience to explain things, may be tainted
by emotions and passions, but given enough time, I can view topics with
reason...at one time, I was madly in love with a women... and I was wildly
out of control, my passions carried me way beyond logic or reason...
but today, I can view that event, one filled with passion and emotions,
with a degree of detachment or dispassionate understanding that I didn't
have about that person for years....we can, given time, understand
passionate, emotional events, people and places with reason and
detachment.... for many, not all, but many can now see 9/11 without
being emotional, or passionate.. at the time, I was sick and furious about
9/11.. but today, I can see that event without becoming passionate or
emotional...in my mind today, 9/11 is no different than Perl Harbor as events go,
and Perl Harbor was 17 years before I was born...but for many, they are still
lost, living in the events of 9/11.. which was 21 years ago...
passion, emotion has a place in our lives, make no mistake,
but we cannot allow passion, emotion to lead our lives...
passion/emotions are too unstable, to disruptive, to insecure and far
to irrational to allow our lives to be dictated by passions/emotions...
and certain times, events, people need, in fact must have this passion/emotions...
for example, falling in love... is all about the passion and emotions... falling in
love isn't about reason, logic, being bound by logic or reason....
falling in love is chaotic, turbulent, disorganized, deranged...
there is no logic or reasoning or even controlling falling in love...
and that is not a bad thing.. at times, I wish I could fall madly in love
with someone to reengage that feeling.... but I am in love, just not
the falling in love, deranged and chaotic love that is new love...
I have the love of being with someone for 30 years love and there is
nothing wrong with that.. but that love, as deep as it is, isn't the energetic,
deranged, chaotic love of new love... and at times, I miss it...
but today, I have not the energy or desire to engage in that
''Love out of control" type of love...and it is doubtful I will ever
have the chance to reengage in that type of love.. and I am ok with that...
and that is the voice of logic, reason, experience...
any new love can never match the love of 30 years and counting...
I no longer burn and that is a good thing.. for being that wildly in love
is one being in danger of being burned... and I no longer have any interest
in toying with being burned...and that is logic, reason, and experience at work...
Kropotkin
"Reason is an ought to be the slave of the passions"
I ask, why is that? It seems to me that given the nature of passions,
we should learn to contain, control our passions.. and one method
to control/contain our passions is through the effort of reason...
I have suffered from the "pangs" of passion.. more than once, my passions
lead me to go out of control... to be unable to control my speech, to control
my actions... I was lead by my passions to be unable control who I was...
from the loss of control leads to violence, mayhem, murder, instability
chaos and even insanity... when I was out of control from my passions, I
was unstable, even perhaps insane... the trick to having passions is to
be able to contain, control those passions.. to have reason be in charge,
not the passions... I have learned this from my own experience....
no matter how deep my passions go, I still have them in control...
I am in charge, not my passions..
but for many, many people they lead from their passions... they don't
act or react from being in control... they are out of control if they
allow their passions to be in control.... Look in the United States from
the threats that are coming from the legally executed search warrant on IQ45..
the far right has threatened the FBI, the agents on site at Mar-a-Largo,
the property of the federal government and the FBI...threats on
the head of the Justice Department, Marrick Garland...for example,
MTG, Marjorie Taylor Greens has filed articles of impeachment against
Garland... yes, she is dumber than dirt, but she has allowed her emotions
to threaten the AG... This impeachment threat is nothing more than Kabuki
theatre, I will grant you, but still, it gives the idea of
of the threat of those who follow passions instead of reason....
now the beauty of reason over passion is several.. but one of the main one
is that passion can wax and wan.. it isn't stable or remain constant...
I have had great passion for some women, and yet years later I couldn't even
tell you, their names.. Or what they looked like passion rises and fades..
quite often quickly and with no rhyme or reason...
the strength of reason is that within reason, there is no wild up and downs
stemming from reason.. reason remains the same, day in and day out,
24/7/365.... my reason remains the same, now my understanding of
a topic might change.. as I grow older and by using experience, I
can understand things better than I did when I was younger... in addition
to my reason, I can add experience to an understanding of a topic...
I grant you, that my use of experience to explain things, may be tainted
by emotions and passions, but given enough time, I can view topics with
reason...at one time, I was madly in love with a women... and I was wildly
out of control, my passions carried me way beyond logic or reason...
but today, I can view that event, one filled with passion and emotions,
with a degree of detachment or dispassionate understanding that I didn't
have about that person for years....we can, given time, understand
passionate, emotional events, people and places with reason and
detachment.... for many, not all, but many can now see 9/11 without
being emotional, or passionate.. at the time, I was sick and furious about
9/11.. but today, I can see that event without becoming passionate or
emotional...in my mind today, 9/11 is no different than Perl Harbor as events go,
and Perl Harbor was 17 years before I was born...but for many, they are still
lost, living in the events of 9/11.. which was 21 years ago...
passion, emotion has a place in our lives, make no mistake,
but we cannot allow passion, emotion to lead our lives...
passion/emotions are too unstable, to disruptive, to insecure and far
to irrational to allow our lives to be dictated by passions/emotions...
and certain times, events, people need, in fact must have this passion/emotions...
for example, falling in love... is all about the passion and emotions... falling in
love isn't about reason, logic, being bound by logic or reason....
falling in love is chaotic, turbulent, disorganized, deranged...
there is no logic or reasoning or even controlling falling in love...
and that is not a bad thing.. at times, I wish I could fall madly in love
with someone to reengage that feeling.... but I am in love, just not
the falling in love, deranged and chaotic love that is new love...
I have the love of being with someone for 30 years love and there is
nothing wrong with that.. but that love, as deep as it is, isn't the energetic,
deranged, chaotic love of new love... and at times, I miss it...
but today, I have not the energy or desire to engage in that
''Love out of control" type of love...and it is doubtful I will ever
have the chance to reengage in that type of love.. and I am ok with that...
and that is the voice of logic, reason, experience...
any new love can never match the love of 30 years and counting...
I no longer burn and that is a good thing.. for being that wildly in love
is one being in danger of being burned... and I no longer have any interest
in toying with being burned...and that is logic, reason, and experience at work...
Kropotkin