Judge Not?
Posted: Thu Jul 08, 2021 5:28 am
I know the Christian tradition says "judge not, lest ye be judged" but I see a lot of people posting on the Internet judging others harshly for crimes and things like that. I do it sometimes too.
For example, I saw a video on Nextdoor.com of a kid (must have been in his early teens, if even that) who lit some kind of firework on someone's doorstep. It looked like it could have caught the house on fire, but luckily it didn't. The guy who posted the video was the inhabitant of the house and he was pretty pissed about it (for obvious and understandable reasons).
Part of me wants to condemn the kid and the other part looks at that kid and thinks what a tragedy it is that the kid will probably never find happiness and will probably just end up in prison or the morgue.
I wonder how it must feel to live like that kid. Apparently, according to the person whose house it was, the kid's parents both had multiple felonies too. I wonder if the kid even knows where he's headed or if he's just blinded by anger and resentment? I mean, he didn't choose to have parents like that.
At the same time, I wonder how it is to be the person whose house could have potentially been burned down. He must feel violated and threatened. I want to side with him alone but in a sense, both seem to be victims. The kid seems to be a victim of having been born to people who probably should never have had children. Heck, perhaps the kid's parents were in the same position when they were young.
I guess the really strange thing to me is that I find myself getting angry at criminals and just wanting to punish them in the worst way, even though I'm not the one who had his house possibly almost burned down.
My question is, is it wrong for me to feel that way? Is it wrong for me to be angry toward another person's tormentor like that? I feel like I want to throw stones at the kid or something but I realize it's not very Christian of me to feel that way.
What are your thoughts on the matter?
For example, I saw a video on Nextdoor.com of a kid (must have been in his early teens, if even that) who lit some kind of firework on someone's doorstep. It looked like it could have caught the house on fire, but luckily it didn't. The guy who posted the video was the inhabitant of the house and he was pretty pissed about it (for obvious and understandable reasons).
Part of me wants to condemn the kid and the other part looks at that kid and thinks what a tragedy it is that the kid will probably never find happiness and will probably just end up in prison or the morgue.
I wonder how it must feel to live like that kid. Apparently, according to the person whose house it was, the kid's parents both had multiple felonies too. I wonder if the kid even knows where he's headed or if he's just blinded by anger and resentment? I mean, he didn't choose to have parents like that.
At the same time, I wonder how it is to be the person whose house could have potentially been burned down. He must feel violated and threatened. I want to side with him alone but in a sense, both seem to be victims. The kid seems to be a victim of having been born to people who probably should never have had children. Heck, perhaps the kid's parents were in the same position when they were young.
I guess the really strange thing to me is that I find myself getting angry at criminals and just wanting to punish them in the worst way, even though I'm not the one who had his house possibly almost burned down.
My question is, is it wrong for me to feel that way? Is it wrong for me to be angry toward another person's tormentor like that? I feel like I want to throw stones at the kid or something but I realize it's not very Christian of me to feel that way.
What are your thoughts on the matter?