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[quote="Scott Mayers" post_id=485659 time=1608480017 user_id=11118]
Maybe '[b]satisfaction[/b]' might be a better foundation of '[b]success[/b]' that you mean? To be 'satisfied' about something is to appreciate your present conditions in light of intending to be where you are at now as a PRIOR goal. So "[b][u]success[/u][/b]" might be defined as "[b]the satisfaction one feels when reaching an intended goal one sets out to have.[/b]"? [working definition proposal for you, if you like]
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My formulation: success = having a bespoke life[/quote]
"Bespoke" is an odd and unconventional term that needs defining.
I see it as [quote=Wikipedia "Bespoke"]The word bespoke has evolved from a verb meaning 'to speak for something' to its contemporary usage as an adjective that has changed [u]from describing first tailor-made suits and shoes[/u], and later, anything ...[
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bespoke]
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It is still odd to use and very archaic. I see that you may mean, "ordered, commissioned, arranged for...life." using the definition given at the above link. But this lacks depth and meaning. It could be mistaken for meaning,
[b]"Success == [u]predestination[/u]"[/b] :?:
[b]Edit:[/b] or "[b]Success = tailored for..[/b]" but leaves it dangling. It certainly cannot DEFINE the term though. It could only mean that you think [b]"success is individually tailored by the person who uses the word"[/b] but doesn't [b]define[/b] it; it only expresses that people can create their own definition of the term, which would be misleading to your intent. It also applies to any word and one's chosen association, like "Let me define the word, [b]car[/b] to mean [u]boat[/u]."
[b]Edit 2: [/b]Example of your meaning might be as a 'metaphor', such as, "Life is like a box of chocolates". Then you are referring to the religious or emotive 'value' of life, for instance.
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Custom. For some it's wealth, for others it's simplicity, love, family, and so forth. The meaning of life is that everyone must choose the answer to that question for themselves.