SOB: What you seem to forget, is that the thread starter indicated that, blacks show a predisposition for violent crime. Then you chime in, with respect to his argument, saying that you believe blacks are differentiated by their genes, which is blaming the problem on their very essence, such that it's virtually impossible for them to fix, except through interracial breeding. In other words that their color is flawed on a very fundamental level.
AS: Ohhhhhhhh...okay...now I see where you are coming from. Oh yes...I see how it it certainly does seem like I am a racist to you. And I can see why now. Thanks. Well...can I plead epistemology then?
God...it's been such a long time since I have these same thought that you are having that I totally forgot what it is like to 'feel' harm. I am sooo sorry....truly I am. Let me try to explain...still.... I don't think you will understand... not that you are stupid or I am...but it would be impossible for you to walk in my shoes and visa versa...understand?...and so I totally will understand that you think I am a racist and that's ok. I won't hold it against you. Because you can't possibly understand what goes on inside me...my whole total thought process combined...just as I cannot know yours.
You see, I am not one to get offended very easily. I used to be....but then something changed in my life and I discovered I had been wrong about people and that I was doing myself a great disservice by underestimating people if you will...and labeling them before I knew their total being. Not that that is always possible...but you know what I mean...the difference between superficial skin color and what is in their hearts.
I won't go into the details...because you weren't there or inside me in order to make the same distinctions. See, when I was young I had a girlfriend who was just like me...we were soul sisters...still are. We look alike, we think alike....it's like we are twins. So when we first met she told her dad she met the nicest person....and she told him my name...which is hispanic. She did not know what race it was....she never heard the name before and neither did she think in those terms of hateful bigotry. She just knew she liked me as a person. So her dad said..."Oh, she's a beaner." This is what she told me the next day...because she didn't really know what it meant....I laughed....because I liked her too...and I just figured her dad was a racist. No biggie.
So...after that...we became the best of friends...that was 25+ years ago. We were inseparable. Of course I met her dad....and ya know what? Turned out that was one of the most kind individuals I have ever met. He joked...he said off color remarks...but his actions spoke a different story. He loved me as a daughter and that was the first man (other than my grandfather) that was ever kind to me. Before him, I didn't respect men very much because it was all I was raised around...abusive ones. I didn't know there were nice ones. Seriously.
So anyway...he became my father too. And he was kind a generous to everyone. Would give the shirt off his back no matter what race you were. He simply liked to speak vinegar....kinda like Chaz.
Now that may sound strange to you. And you may think to yourself that I was/am naive. But you could not know that because you weren't there. You can't know what I know. It's impossible.
So, as to Tom's thread. I have known Tom for a while...and what I have gathered is he is a kind man. Yes...a little sexist and possibly racist....but that could be remnants from his generation. And plus I can't know what he knows. I am pretty certain though...he doesn't kill or abuse people in his spare time though...just a hunch...lol. I could be wrong. And if I am then yes...he is a racist. But I will not become one of these people who just because their boss asks them on a date screams "sexists!" and gets him fired....or one of these people who puts their daughter's boyfriend of 2 years behind bars for sexual molestation just because he turned 18 today and she is 17 until next month. Or someone who calls for the head of a coach because he happen to call someone a slut. These are superficial nothingness in most circumstances and feeling "harm" to the point of absurdity is ridicules. In my mind.
But that's just the way I think. Again...let's look at the definition of racism:
"Racism is the belief that inherent different traits in human racial groups justify discrimination."
My reading/interpretation of this lies mostly in the phrase "justify discrimination." It doesn't lie in "different traits in human racial groups." Obviously there are different superficial trait like skin color. But that doesn't mean to say so means you will necessarily discriminate. So the title of this thread is definitely controversial...but is it racist? Does it call to arms for something to be done or does it merely mention the superficial?
Let suppose this thread said, "Men and crime." It would be controversial...but would it be sexist knowing what we know about testosterone? I suppose some would say yes, the ones who felt harm from free speech...and some would say no...the ones who felt that it takes more than merely mentioning something in order to fight back...it take actual "harm" as in wanting to kill, or enslave or not allow equality or other such things that prevent people from living in the manner that they prefer. I believe that the former instance...the one where we keep people from having free speech about superficial things is akin to a preemptive strike. Because most of those people who believe speech should be limited...only believe it should be limited to those words they find harmful...but not the words that others may find harmful. For example....A person who is against another person making a correlation between blacks and crime but then make a similar statement by making a correlation between religious people and crime.
SOB: I think you should explore, why it is, that you think you are "hot blooded" as compared to your "lily white friends," as it may be due to something other than your, genes. Unless of course you prefer to 'blame' your genes to somehow negate your responsibility as to your aggression. Maybe you sense racism in the way they talk to you. Only you can answer these questions, for yourself.
AS: I am not in argument it may be something other than genes.... environment is to blame too in all honesty...but so is passion... impatience... and a whole other host of temperaments. If it was all environmental...that would mean we were all the same and would have no other choice than to be like whatever environment we were from. But then we don't see that happening do we...we don't see all poverty stricken people turn to crime. We don't see all "kind" rich people. We see thieves in the rich and poor alike. But I think what you are missing here is the daring to speak the forbidden in order to get to truth. What truth I don't know...we don't have all the facts. But even you admitted testosterone is to blame for men being more aggressive than women. Does that mean you are sexist? No. It would be absurd to think you were sexist over such a fact...right? It is only sexist if you use your power to keep women down or to harm them? Right? Same with being racist. And it is not racist to say so...it's just an inquiry.
As for Tom. Tom, is entitled to fear whom he pleases....he is NOT, however, entitled to harm them or make them less than.
Getting back to Nietzsche...when he said:
"
Strength which prefers questions for which no one today is sufficiently daring; courage for the forbidden"
The reading I got from this quote is that "strength" is to question that we dare not think. To me that doesn't mean that we go along with the "trend" of what society says is righteous or what we think is righteous...because to do so is not daring.It is However, daring if you can think a thing that would make you a certain outcast in society...and even something that you hate to admit or hear yourself say...then that is the courage to think the "forbidden". It takes "strength to think thoughts that are not considered "righteous". Anyone can think a thought that make them feel as if they are making the world a better place.
This is not to say I think I am right and you are wrong. You may be completely correct that I am a racist...at least in your understanding of the word. But does your opinion necessarily mean that I am? it could be that I am not...but you could never know until you walk in my shoes.