artisticsolution wrote:The problem is, with all of your strict 'rules' about life, you are unable to relax and enjoy.
As the topic, supposedly! is right and wrong by Christian standards, it is interesting to examine what we mean when we say 'to relax and enjoy'. One does not at all sense, if one considers the mission of Jesus, that it has much at all to do with relaxation and enjoyment. To say this is fairly obvious, of course. The story of Jesus and his descent to the earth is one of
ultramission. It has to do with ultimate rectification of a tragic problem. Philosophically, religiously, cosmologically, and no matter how one thinks of Christianity - one can take it all solely as a Grand Story - all the aspects of the narrative point only to seriousness, extreme seriousness, where 'relaxation and enjoyment' are not part of it.
In Eastern religions - Buddhism and the Vedic religious forms - the essential philosophical and ethical message is one that takes account of the alluring dangers of sensuality, hedonism, and there is a quite sophisticated appreciation of a psychology that understands man as a creature driven to seek pleasure 'on the outer surfaces of the body', as it is explained, and in tremendous detail. The science of yoga is an internalization of focus on
inner levels of consciousness. And in these philosophies it is precisely 'intelligence' that gains the understanding that it is pleasure and pleasure-seeking that is a source of suffering. The same is true in Medieval philosophy, which has much in common with the antique metaphysical schools of the East. They are diagrammatical explanations of cosmological understanding.
One thing quite interesting about our Present is the degree in which there has been carried out a drastic and dramatic shift from, shall we say, 'duty' and self-negation, to that of a new definition of life itself and its value as a venue for pleasure-seeking. This represents a giant shift from one ethical pole to another ethical pole. We hardly think in terms of self-negation now, we think in terms of how to get the most pleasure possible, and all systems in society gear up to provide and purvey pleasure of that order.
Ideas have consequences, naturally. A return to 'life in the body' from, say, a life in mind or 'life in the spirit', results in a whole landscape of difference in culture, in cultural products (art, music, literature, and certainly how love and affection are defined and how their possibilities are understood, etc.) and a quite radical redefinition of society and the aims of civilization.
Like it or not, Christian life, and most of the religious-ethical practices, offer an incentive, as it were, or a moral challenge, to negate mere physical/sensual activity so to focus on 'higher' activity. The destruction of the Christian ethic as an operative one in our societies, the undermining of the 'cosmological metaphysics' that supports it, and the linking-up of our very existence here with pleasure-seeking and all that is attached to that (forms of materialism as it is generally called), is a major element in our present, and a major event in occidental civilisation. Obviously, there are enormous polemics as to what this means, where it tends, what the end will be ...
Too, the notion of 'relaxation and enjoyment' is important to consider because the definition of it has so many levels. There are indeed higher levels of pleasure - much higher - in a rigorously defined and rigorously lived life. As we destroy a set of metaphysical definitions we seem - I mean 'many people' or 'people in general' - to lose out: we get stuck and trapped at a sensual level because the culture, generally, cannot any longer appreciate (define) pleasure of a higher, moral order. The whole societal order - mercantile, entertainment industry, the 'culture industry' to refer to a left critique - comes to focus and to value lower orders of pleasure, the visceral and the tactile.