chaz wyman wrote:The Voice of Time wrote:SpheresOfBalance wrote:Now as to you, TVoT, I still see that there is great probability that at it's core, sex and thus procreation existed, if even for an instant. Question, why wasn't it a male? Why the distinction of it being a female, that you are referring to.
Feeling of naturalness I guess. The closest I've ever felt attracted to a guy was a drunk Australian in Munich who I for some weird reason just wanted to kiss for fun. I'm sure I'm bisexual at bottom, but in general I like women and prefer their company over men and like their bodies as a display of an idea that is strictly recognized in women. Like motherhood and the way their bodies are built smooth and boobee instead of muscular and hairy. It all got to do with associations.
I watched lesbian porn movies since I was something like 10-11 years, as a cause I have problems seeing the logic in fucking. I prefer being one of the girls (that is, playing the role of licking) or watching two girls. Simple cause and effect to me. Nothing to do with *nature* as such.
You are right about fucking - it does not make the best sex.
Trouble is that SoB thinks sex is for reproduction.
Fucking is about the most boring thing you can do - all that grunting and exercise.
It's must better to enjoy all the senses - including talk, smell, taste, touching, snuzzling ...ad infinitem...
You got me all wrong, I prefer the complete bonding of two people, heart and soul, One time me and my first wife had an extremely satisfying bonding, we had plenty of soft and sweet foreplay, of the caressing, of skin. One of my specialties is that of adjusting the ambient temperature such that during the movement of foreplay, no perspiration is generated, such that my hands would lightly glide across the entirety of her silken flesh, as if a slight tickle. Additionally, light cool soft blowing at various locations across erogenous zones are added. In finally going down on her, while using all parts of my body to stimulate as many of her erogenous zones as possible, the object was to ever so lightly caress the clitoris, indirectly, ever increasing in intensity, just until I could sense that her muscles started to tighten, at which time I would stop, while still caressing all the other parts of her body, once she relaxed I again proceeded, this I used to do several times, until I felt the time was right, by sensing her every breath, twitch and movement. On this particular occasion after I employed the preceding, we orgasmed at exactly the same time, I then collapsed into her arms, and we both fell asleep in a tangled knot of appendages. In the morning we awoke at exactly the same time, in exactly the same tangled web of appendages, we had not moved throughout the night, completely comfortable in our union, our oneness, and we smiled at each other, got up, and began the day. It has never happened again! It was the most magical moment of love play and bonding that I had ever experienced. It was animal, and it was pure and beautiful.
There is something else that i have to share at this time to show you what I'm talking about as to this physical as well as mental oneness. This happened before what I've mentioned above. Before we had ever had sex we had talked of how we thought of certain things related to relationships and having a family. We had found during this talking that we both agreed, that we wanted to have two kids, a boy first, and a girl second. At one time or another we had also discussed some science report that mentioned that some women, can actually tell when they ovulate, they can actually feel the ovary emitting the ovum. Since we had also learned, in sex education class, in high school, that the sperm that carried the y chromosome, much like that of an adult male, swam strong and fast, but died early, and that it would potentially reach the ovum first, and that the sperm that carried the x chromosome, much like that of an adult female, swam patiently slow, and had a much longer life span, thus would potentially reach the ovum after all the y sperm were long dead. Such that when you combined these two facts you could potentially determine when you would have, and the sex of, a child. Because, we figured, that if one could feel the ovary emitting the ovum, in this cyclic female lunar cycle, then surely one could sense the rhythm of when it was just about to happen, so then all one needed to know was the life span of both the x and y sperm and there you have it, birth by design of the parents. We decided that it was possible, and pretty much forgot about it. As it just so happened we never used any contraception, except the rhythm method. After one of our love making encounters where we orgasmed at the same time, my wife proclaimed, I think I just got pregnant, i said it's too soon, not considering our much earlier talks and taking them further. Sure enough, 10 months later, we had our son. Now this is the strange part, later, on anther such occasion, where we had simultaneous orgasms, (this is the weird part,) "I" said, I think you just got pregnant, and she said no way! Sure enough, 10 months later we had our daughter. We divorced and later my wife told both my son and daughter that they were in fact Love Children, and I believe, rightfully so. You can scream coincidence if you'd like, but she and I see it as much more than that.
