Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 12:28 pm
Age wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 2:30 am
Harbal wrote: ↑Wed Jan 04, 2023 1:24 pm
I'm more than happy to be of help, Age, but every time I think I understand what you mean or what you want I seem to get it wrong.
REALLY, EVERY time?
I can use this as an example of something you might want to consider. Had we been discussing a scientific experiment it would have been important to specify whether something happened every time, most of the time, or just sometimes, but, for the purpose of what we were talking about, the frequency of the referred to occurrance wasn't really important.
But how do you KNOW that this is NOT a scientific experiment in and of itself?
Also, if it was NOT REALLY IMPORTANT, then it would NOT matter that I INFORM or SHOW what thee ACTUAL, IRREFUTABLE Truth IS, EXACTLY, instead, correct?
And, if it does NOT REALLY MATTER, then I can INFORM or SHOW in ways that I like to?
Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 12:28 pm
It doesn't affect the principle that I was trying to explain.
If 'you' think or BELIEVE that Falsehood do NOT affect the principle that you were trying to explain HERE, then so be it.
But, to me, Truths AND Falsehoods REALLY ARE IMPORTANT and REALLY DO AFFECT 'things' HERE.
Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 12:28 pm
The point I am making here is that it is better not to waste time and effort on things that aren't necessary.
Then that is ALL 'you' HAD TO SAY.
Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 12:28 pm
A discussion can become tedious and people tend to lose interest quickly. Just stick to what is relevant.
The title of this thread is; 'What is LIFE?'
Now, let us take a LOOK BACK and SEE how many, and WHO, ACTUALLY STUCK to what is REALLY RELEVANT here. Which, to me, would be just ANSWERING the ACTUAL ONLY QUESTION posed and asked.
Also, all I did with your above quote is just ask 'you', 'REALLY, EVERY time?'
So, if 'you' REALLY WANTED to STICK with what is RELEVANT here, then just say either, Yes; or, No.
Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 12:28 pm
I suggest if ANY one thinks or sees absolutely ANY 'misunderstanding' in my part, from the VERY FIRST OUTSET of 'it', then they just CHECK to SEE whether I have ACTUALLY have ANY 'misunderstanding' or NOT, instead of just letting 'it' spread out like to said, and see here.
Misunderstandings work both ways, and I agree that all involved should do as you suggest, but some people -quite a lot, actually- tend to jump to a conclusion without choosing a suitable landing place first. You can usually tell whether you have been understood by the response you get. If it doesn't seem quite appropriate, it's best to clarify things before carrying on.
That is a GOOD suggestion.
What do you propose is the BEST WAY to CLARIFY 'things', before carrying on?
Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 12:28 pm
You might say that it is the responsibility of your interlocutor to make himself clear and unambiguous, but if he seems to be neglecting that responsibility, and you want to make progress, your only choice is to take on that responsibility yourself, which means that you are going to have to put more thought into what he is writing than he is. I know it's a pain in the arse, but that's just the way it is, I'm afraid.
Okay, but I do get accused, and maybe quite often, of putting TOO MUCH 'thought' into what I WRITE and SAY here, and/or of wasting to much time and energy on things that are NOT necessary.
See, one person's 'more thought' is another 'person's' 'waste of time and energy on what is NOT important or NOT necessary'.
Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 12:28 pm
If you would like to bring ANY examples from previous times when you have seen A 'misunderstanding' spreading out like a ripple in, or on, a pond, then I, for one, would LOVE to have a LOOK AT 'it' also and SEE if 'it' was ACTUALLY A 'misunderstanding' or mine or NOT.
No, I don't keep a record of such occurrences.
Okay, so there is absolutely NOTHING for 'us' to LOOK AT now, but maybe in the future AS SOON as 'you' SEE a perceived MISUNDERSTANDING on my part, then 'you' WILL provide 'it', hopefully.
Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 12:28 pm
If you would like me to bring it to your attention when I perceive it to be happening on some future occassion, I will do that, but only if you ask me to.
YES PLEASE. I would LOVE 'you' to do that "harbal". So, if 'you' EVER see or perceive absolutely ANY MISUNDERSTANDING from 'me' will 'you' PLEASE 'it' to 'our' attention here?
Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 12:28 pm
This kind of situation, where misunderstandings go unnoticed by those involved, but seem obvious to anyone else following the conversation, are not unusual. I think we all suffer from it to some extent.
I would SAY that 'this' has HAPPENED to ALL of 'us' here, and FAR MORE OFTEN than 'we' would REALLY like to KNOW.
I KNOW things going UNNOTICED happen FAR MORE OFTEN that I EVER want 'it' to happen.
Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 12:28 pm
But, considering what 'philosophical discussions' were ONCE MEANT TO BE ABOUT, applying 'this precision' here, in this forum, I do NOT seeing as being inappropriate AT ALL.
I agree with you again. I often think that not enough attention is being paid to precision of language. You can only work with what you are presented with, though. If people won't play to your rules, but you want to participate in the game, you just have to put up with it, and make allowances for it.
There is NOTHING that I just 'have to put up with', as I SAY, I am just here to LEARN HOW to communicate BETTER.
Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 12:28 pm
Oh I have been accommodating 'it' for a long while now, and as I say I am in NO rush as I am still just in the process of learning HOW to communicate BETTER (with 'you', human beings).
By the way, the last part bracketed becomes CRYSTAL CLEAR when 'I' have been FULLY UNDERSTOOD here.
Until it does become crystal clear, would it be detrimental to your long term plan to dispense with the type of comment in the brackets?
It could be. But we would NEVER KNOW if 'it' was dispensed, completely.
The more I think about what you said and wrote here, the more I think it would be detrimental to my long term plan to dispense with the type of comment in the brackets.
Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 12:28 pm
I feel it neither encourages a receptive, nor a cooperative attitude towards you.
But WHY in relation to 'me'? I thought 'philosophical discussions' were about LOOKING AT the WORDS, ALONE, and NOT LOOKING AT nor FOCUSING on the 'one' DELIVERING the WORDS.
Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Jan 05, 2023 12:28 pm
Also, through and from 'your' completely Honest views, like above, 'you' do NOT YET REALIZE just how Truly HELPFUL 'you' REALLY ARE BEING here.
I'm delighted to think I'm being of help.
That IS GREAT.
ALL completely Honest views are WELCOME, and REFRESHING.