Lacewing wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 7:41 pm
Walker wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 6:31 pm
Lacewing wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 6:03 pm
He apparently lacks the courage to offer much of his own thinking. Instead, he attempts to question everyone else based on his misunderstandings and projections so it becomes a garbled mess to wade through.
Age says some astute things. He gets frustrated.
We all do. That's what makes this forum interesting.
But nobody cares to read or respond to someone else's thousands of questions unless it's to 'play' with them.
The BEST WAY to UNDERSTAND "another" is to just ask Truly OPEN CLARIFYING QUESTIONS, and then WAIT for Truly OPEN and Honest replies to THOSE QUESTIONS.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 7:41 pm
Age hides behind questioning others.
What do 'you' think or IMAGINE 'I' could possibly be HIDING behind ASKING QUESTIONS "lacewing"? REMEMBER, if I am NOT be QUESTIONED and CHALLENGED, then I have NOTHING to HIDE.
Also, has it REALLY NEVER even occurred to 'you' that I ASK QUESTIONS to just GAIN CLARITY and A BETTER UNDERSTANDING?
Or, do 'you' REALLY think or BELIEVE that EVERY one has to behave in the WAY that 'you' do here?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 7:41 pm
Walker wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 6:31 pm
Absolute truth and relative truth is a good contemplation start.
Personally, I don't believe in absolute truth.
WHY NOT?
Do you have ANY ACTUAL PROOF for YOUR BELIEF here?
Actually, do you have ANY ACTUAL REASON for YOUR BELIEF here?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 7:41 pm
Walker wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 6:31 pmSri Nisargadatta Maharaj said that all any person can know for sure is, I Am. All else is inference.
Sounds good, but I think even 'I Am' is inference. Who is 'I', and what is 'Am'?
The 'AM' refers to the BEING, (in the) HERE-NOW.
The 'I' refers to thee One and ONLY Being, which IS thee One and ONLY Universe, Itself. SEEN, with the visible eyes as the physical matter, AND, SEEN, KNOWN and UNDERSTOOD by thee invisible Mind''s Eye.
There IS, by the way, ANOTHER 'thing', besides the 'I AM', which is KNOWN, for sure.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 7:41 pm
Do we really know?
YES.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 7:41 pm
Walker wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 6:31 pm
I’ve contemplated this in many situations involving many elements, with attention upon the primal elements that we all experience, and realize it is truth, and it does not change. That makes it absolute.
I think that just makes it 'agreed upon' by those who experience through similar means.
AND, what is 'it', if NOT 'absolute', when 'it' IS AGREED UPON by EVERY one?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 7:41 pm
Walker wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 6:31 pm
This is just a contemplation I just had inspired by this thread*, and of course it is true because I am worthy of knowing it, for empirical reasons … so see ‘ya later. There’s work to be done in a man’s world.
I'm glad you feel inspiration! I often do too! My boyfriend never knows what inspiration I'll come up with next. I'm very grateful he appreciates me!
Will 'you' SHARE ANY of 'your' INSPIRATION with 'us' here in this forum?
If no, then WHY NOT?
Lacewing wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 7:41 pm
I think whatever meaning we find in life is part of the artwork of our own experience. One person's meaning is not another's, and that's okay! We don't have to agree. What really matters is what we do with it. And that's the tricky part because people do very different things with the 'meaning' they see. Since it's surely impossible that infinite perspectives are going to see everything the same way,
Is this one of these NOT One Truths? Or, is this True or is it NOT?
Seems like 'you' are ALLOWED to EXPRESS what 'you' CLAIM to be ABSOLUTE Truths, although 'you' BELIEVE absolutely NONE exist.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 7:41 pm
perhaps the best we can hope for is continually aiming for BALANCE.
BUT, there IS A WAY WHERE EVERY one, or ALL, do SEE Everything the SAME WAY, and which, by the way, is WHERE BALANCE EXISTS ALSO.
HOWEVER, WHEN people like "yourself", "lacewing", who have and HOLD ONTO VERY STRONG BELIEFS, then 'you' become completely BLINDED and CLOSED to LEARNING and SEEING NEW 'things'. Like, for example, DIFFERENT WAYS of LOOKING AT and SEEING 'things'. BECAUSE of 'your' BELIEFS 'you' are, literally, STUCK in the PERSPECTIVE that 'you' OBVIOUSLY HAVE and are HOLDING ONTO, right now.
Lacewing wrote: ↑Mon Nov 28, 2022 7:41 pm
That's not a dirty word/concept. It's reasonable for varying perspectives sharing space. What can we agree on in common... and then the rest becomes an exercise of give and take, yes?
NO.