Encolpio wrote:David Benatar in “Better never to have been” says that every life is not worth starting, because human lives are so ridden with harm, even the best ones, that is preferable not to be over coming into existence in a world of suffering.
He then maintains that it is preferable not to procreate anyone, and, if a woman happens to get pregnant, we should take on a “pro-death” stance, which means that we should defend the right not to abort, abortion (or means that prevent conception) being the preferable, “normal” case. This somehow reverses the view of pro-choice activists, who in the end support life while advocating women’s right not to carry a child to term.
He says that after he (in my view successfully) demonstrated that even the happiest lives are in fact very bad, and life is full of suffering. However, what strikes me as contradictory is that he says that coming to existence is also very bad because you cannot avoid death and one cannot live as long as one desires.
Now, since human life – and the conscious lives of any other animals for that matter – is equalled to a harm, how could it be that death qualifies as a harm, as it can be defined as the (irreversible) cessation of a harm? I cannot see how the two stances hold together: either life is an unmitigated harm or death is. If death occurs to end something which is defined as a harm, now that’s a good.
Death and suicide are bad things, that’s for sure, but in my view that is true not because they shorten life – which I believe is a harm, as Benatar maintains –, but because they cause pain to our surviving loved ones. They’re not bad in themselves, then, but only relative to their consequences for the people (friends, spouse/partner, relatives, etc.) that have to go through the experience our demise.
Death is not harm, it is the natural conclusion of life. Of course death is in fact feared by everyone, whether they fear admitting it or not.
Murder is another thing entirely, it is harm! Unless of course one wants to be murdered, in that they tell you as much.
Abortion is a sticky subject. First I was flat out against it, I was an antiabortionist! Later I thought about one being told they had no rights to their own bodies, considering how much detrimental change occurs to a female during the process of carrying and birthing, that may even include death in some cases. Such that now, I'm an antiabortionist/pro choice advocate.
To anyone that believes life is worthless, I say blow your brains out! (Not that I really mean that one should actually do so.) It's just a very effective argument, such that my opponent does my work for me.
Life is what one makes it, my friends. One makes it with the free will that is contained in their knowledge and the physics that the universe allows, battling determinism as much as it actually can be changed.
Happiness and miserableness is up to each individual. In our universe, from the human perspective, there is dichotomy everywhere. For one to be happy, one has to know misery. For one to be miserable, one has to know happy. They can only live together, they both define the other, without one the other could not exist. Therefore with any dichotomy, the distance between the two gives each their relative strengths. The harder one works, the more one relaxes. The more misery one has experienced, the greater their happiness can be. The yin and the yang, opposites that balance one another.
It's all up to you, it's contained in your knowledge, which can always be increased, and your perspective, which can always be changed.
What's smarter, to take what is given, and find it lacking, or make the best out of it?
Free will, the new determinism!
