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Re:

Posted: Thu Oct 29, 2015 3:14 pm
by Dalek Prime
henry quirk wrote:Dalek,

You shouldn't ignore the shit anymore than you should ignore the roses.
For sanity and the sake of my happiness, I concentrate on the roses, never forgetting the shit that fertilized it. :wink:

Posted: Thu Oct 29, 2015 3:21 pm
by henry quirk
I work hard to see and appreciate both. What good is the rose, if I slip in slick shit, fall, and break my stupid neck?

Balance (and hip boots).

Re:

Posted: Thu Oct 29, 2015 9:18 pm
by Dalek Prime
henry quirk wrote:I work hard to see and appreciate both. What good is the rose, if I slip in slick shit, fall, and break my stupid neck?

Balance (and hip boots).
Reminds me, I need a good pair of Welly's.

Re: Is death a harm?

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2015 2:09 pm
by tbieter
"Since the essence of existence is insatiable striving, and insatiable striving is suffering, Schopenhauer concludes that nonexistence is preferable to existence. However, suicide is not the answer. One cannot resolve the problem of existence through suicide, for since all existence is suffering, death does not end one’s suffering but only terminates the form that one’s suffering takes. The proper response to recognizing that all existence is suffering is to turn away from or renounce one’s own desiring. In this respect, Schopenhauer’s thought finds confirmation in the Eastern texts he read and admired: the goal of human life is to turn away from desire. Salvation can only be found in resignation." http://www.iep.utm.edu/schopenh/
I don't understand the emphasized phrase. How can a state of non-existence (nothing) suffer?

Re: Is death a harm?

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2015 2:21 pm
by alpha
tbieter wrote:"Since the essence of existence is insatiable striving, and insatiable striving is suffering, Schopenhauer concludes that nonexistence is preferable to existence. However, suicide is not the answer. One cannot resolve the problem of existence through suicide, for since all existence is suffering, death does not end one’s suffering but only terminates the form that one’s suffering takes. The proper response to recognizing that all existence is suffering is to turn away from or renounce one’s own desiring. In this respect, Schopenhauer’s thought finds confirmation in the Eastern texts he read and admired: the goal of human life is to turn away from desire. Salvation can only be found in resignation." http://www.iep.utm.edu/schopenh/
I don't understand the emphasized phrase. How can a state of non-existence (nothing) suffer?
it seems that he doesn't see death as non-existence. he could be right. i'm uncertain of whether there's anything after death, myself.

either way, "turning away from desire" or "resignation" is a ridiculous goal for human life, not to mention an extremely difficult & impractical one. the bottom line is: there is no salvation in this life.

Re: Is death a harm?

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2015 9:10 pm
by alpha
as henry would say "'nuff said". :D

Re: Is death a harm?

Posted: Sat Oct 31, 2015 11:01 pm
by SpheresOfBalance
Encolpio wrote:David Benatar in “Better never to have been” says that every life is not worth starting, because human lives are so ridden with harm, even the best ones, that is preferable not to be over coming into existence in a world of suffering.

He then maintains that it is preferable not to procreate anyone, and, if a woman happens to get pregnant, we should take on a “pro-death” stance, which means that we should defend the right not to abort, abortion (or means that prevent conception) being the preferable, “normal” case. This somehow reverses the view of pro-choice activists, who in the end support life while advocating women’s right not to carry a child to term.

He says that after he (in my view successfully) demonstrated that even the happiest lives are in fact very bad, and life is full of suffering. However, what strikes me as contradictory is that he says that coming to existence is also very bad because you cannot avoid death and one cannot live as long as one desires.

Now, since human life – and the conscious lives of any other animals for that matter – is equalled to a harm, how could it be that death qualifies as a harm, as it can be defined as the (irreversible) cessation of a harm? I cannot see how the two stances hold together: either life is an unmitigated harm or death is. If death occurs to end something which is defined as a harm, now that’s a good.

Death and suicide are bad things, that’s for sure, but in my view that is true not because they shorten life – which I believe is a harm, as Benatar maintains –, but because they cause pain to our surviving loved ones. They’re not bad in themselves, then, but only relative to their consequences for the people (friends, spouse/partner, relatives, etc.) that have to go through the experience our demise.
Death is not harm, it is the natural conclusion of life. Of course death is in fact feared by everyone, whether they fear admitting it or not.

Murder is another thing entirely, it is harm! Unless of course one wants to be murdered, in that they tell you as much.

Abortion is a sticky subject. First I was flat out against it, I was an antiabortionist! Later I thought about one being told they had no rights to their own bodies, considering how much detrimental change occurs to a female during the process of carrying and birthing, that may even include death in some cases. Such that now, I'm an antiabortionist/pro choice advocate.

To anyone that believes life is worthless, I say blow your brains out! (Not that I really mean that one should actually do so.) It's just a very effective argument, such that my opponent does my work for me. ;)

Life is what one makes it, my friends. One makes it with the free will that is contained in their knowledge and the physics that the universe allows, battling determinism as much as it actually can be changed.

Happiness and miserableness is up to each individual. In our universe, from the human perspective, there is dichotomy everywhere. For one to be happy, one has to know misery. For one to be miserable, one has to know happy. They can only live together, they both define the other, without one the other could not exist. Therefore with any dichotomy, the distance between the two gives each their relative strengths. The harder one works, the more one relaxes. The more misery one has experienced, the greater their happiness can be. The yin and the yang, opposites that balance one another.

It's all up to you, it's contained in your knowledge, which can always be increased, and your perspective, which can always be changed.

What's smarter, to take what is given, and find it lacking, or make the best out of it?

Free will, the new determinism! ;)

Re: Is death a harm?

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2015 5:15 pm
by Lacewing
A few things...

Why does there need to be a point for humans ANY MORE than there needs to be a point for anything else on this planet? People who think there needs to be a point or a purpose in order for there to be any VALUE in an experience are, perhaps, excessively controlling and judging and limiting what they are able to experience. Our judgments about what makes this good or bad do not reflect a higher reality. It just feels good or bad in this moment to us... and that's part of the experience!

IF there is any grander cosmic scheme/purpose... it seems logical to suspect that it's BEYOND the limited and contrived notions of human thoughts/ideas/fears/reasoning/understanding. In which case, we STILL don't know/have a greater "point/purpose" so it's as if there isn't one for US, and we're STILL just here for the experience. So what? Why not see what we can do with it, and with our limited selves, and with everything that's thrown at us? Why must we think we're part of some unique divine role/purpose greater than this, and that the GOAL is BEYOND this? Why are we so disrespectful of "this" just as it is?

People who see no value in being here because it doesn't conform to their idea of being enjoyable or worthwhile, may be missing an opportunity to experience expansion in the face of whatever is thrown at them. There's nothing quite like transforming a totally crappy experience into something glorious. Yes, sometimes life feels too hard and miserable to transform. Fine, then don't. Roll around in pain for awhile as part of the experience. If you get to a point where you can eventually drop whatever thoughts are associated with that, then perhaps you'll discover other aspects (or whole new realms) to be experienced.

Lastly, determining that there is no overall purpose/point (that we can be aware of) can be VERY FREEING and empowering! It releases us from our fears and judgments and limiting fabrications. (Only the ego/identity thinks that's dreadful/unthinkable and clings to itself.) When we stop being so completely intoxicated by all the stuff we make up from moment to moment... and start seeing value in ALL AS IT IS without needing to assign a point/purpose (because all of that is made up too)... we can get our own creations/thoughts OUT OF THE WAY of a larger NATURAL flow, and experience this experience from a whole new dynamic. Simply, WE ARE IN OUR OWN WAY!

Re: Is death a harm?

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2015 8:37 pm
by alpha
@ lacewing;

your philosophy is basically that we should just deal with it, preferably through ignorance. it's a great philosophy for those who can pull it off. unfortunately, not all of us have that ability.

Re: Is death a harm?

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2015 8:38 pm
by alpha
@ since; enough with this crap, already.

Re: Is death a harm?

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2015 10:13 pm
by Lacewing
alpha wrote:@ lacewing;
your philosophy is basically that we should just deal with it, preferably through ignorance.
Deal with WHAT IS?? What other choice do you think we have? And why do you think it's ignorance to ACCEPT and/or "deal" with it? What if it's actually the WISEST thing to do... whereas struggling and trying to control and concocting limited human definitions/rules may actually be our greatest ignorance?

Re: Is death a harm?

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2015 10:24 pm
by alpha
Lacewing wrote:
alpha wrote:@ lacewing;
your philosophy is basically that we should just deal with it, preferably through ignorance.
Deal with WHAT IS?? What other choice do you think we have? And why do you think it's ignorance to ACCEPT and/or "deal" with it?
accepting what one doesn't understand, is ignorance.

What if it's actually the WISEST thing to do... whereas struggling and trying to control and concocting limited human definitions/rules may actually be our greatest ignorance?
it's not about control per se, it's more about understanding what the hell is going on. why create people who don't wanna exist (just the ones who don't)?

Re: Is death a harm?

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2015 10:37 pm
by alpha
Lacewing wrote:Just curious... are people on this website smart enough to figure out the quote feature instead of using a variety of colors? How the hell are other people supposed to follow along with this and know who is saying what? With a few keystrokes you can easily identify each poster. And if you don't care if other people can follow along, then why not use PM for your conversations? Yes?? :)
you try responding to a hundred different points using your technique.

Re: Is death a harm?

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2015 10:51 pm
by Lacewing
alpha wrote:your philosophy is basically that we should just deal with it, preferably through ignorance.
Lacewing wrote:Deal with WHAT IS?? What other choice do you think we have? And why do you think it's ignorance to ACCEPT and/or "deal" with it?
alpha wrote:accepting what one doesn't understand, is ignorance.
I guess you and I have a different idea of what "acceptance" means, Alpha. I do not see it as "settling"... which I'm guessing is how you are seeing it? For me, acceptance means having respect and some inner peace for something while I work with/through it. There may be things I'm not seeing below the surface... and I feel I am much more clear and effective if I approach it that way -- rather than bombarding it with my ideas of how it should be, which blocks out any other awareness I might gain.
Lacewing wrote:What if it's actually the WISEST thing to do... whereas struggling and trying to control and concocting limited human definitions/rules may actually be our greatest ignorance?
alpha wrote:it's not about control per se, it's more about understanding what the hell is going on.
Well, we do our best... based on all of our limitations. I am not suggesting we don't try. I'm suggesting we take a step back from thinking we already know so damn much. 8) I think we're clogging up the works with what we think we know (i.e. our ignorance).
alpha wrote:why create people who don't wanna exist (just the ones who don't)?
I'm sorry, I don't know what this means.

Re: Is death a harm?

Posted: Sun Nov 01, 2015 11:29 pm
by alpha
Lacewing wrote:
alpha wrote:your philosophy is basically that we should just deal with it, preferably through ignorance.
Deal with WHAT IS?? What other choice do you think we have? And why do you think it's ignorance to ACCEPT and/or "deal" with it?
alpha wrote:accepting what one doesn't understand, is ignorance.
I guess you and I have a different idea of what "acceptance" means, Alpha. I do not see it as "settling"... which I'm guessing is how you are seeing it? For me, acceptance means having respect and some inner peace for something while I work with/through it. There may be things I'm not seeing below the surface... and I feel I am much more clear and effective if I approach it that way -- rather than bombarding it with my ideas of how it should be, which blocks out any other awareness I might gain.
some of us can't just "have inner peace" about a nonsensical world.
Lacewing wrote:
alpha wrote:why create people who don't wanna exist (just the ones who don't)?
I'm sorry, I don't know what this means.
i meant, why would the universe/god create people who don't wanna be here? why not just create the happy go lucky bunch?