Wyman wrote:I personally, due to emotional content, (surely not intellectual, as intellectually I know that no one is really to blame, 100%, in and of themselves), would torture someone if, and only if, there was no doubt, whatsoever, that they killed one of my family members, someone I loved, not because of my loss, but rather that loss that the one I loved understood, in their final moments, knowing completely of the ways in which they were innocent, and as such, could imagine how they felt in their end.
Ever hear the joke about the man who asks a woman if she'll sleep with him for a million bucks? Punchline: You already established you're a prostitute, now we're haggling over the price.
Yet one of the biggest falsehoods is the so called paradox contained in the question of, "which came first, the chicken or the egg?"
In your case, was it the whoring of the man seeking a prostitute for companionship, (or maybe just release), or the whoring of the prostitute, seeking subsistence (or maybe companionship)?
In my case, was it the initial killer, or the initial torturer of a killer?
Did one come first, or did they simultaneously come to exist.
Does one beg the other?
Does one lead by example?
Does one give license to another, to do to them, what they did to another?
Should they expect no less, or much more?
Can you or anyone, for any sustained amount of time, simply turn the other cheek, so it too can be punched, whipped, flogged, sliced, again and again, simply turning to the fresher ever deteriorating side?
How many times before one finally blocks?
How many blocks before they become strikes?
How many strikes until, you're striking back harder than your opponent?
How many strikes before one of your die?
How many must die before the killer should die?
What's worse, to have your pain over quickly, or prolonged over much time?
What's more evil, to induce ones suffering with a quick end, or over much time?
What's more maddening for a loving couple, to die first, or to be the one left?
Do you wish to die first, or do you wish for your mate to die first?
Same question but your child first, or you?
Do you assume that it would be the easiest thing for me to do, or the hardest?
Do you believe that one could possibly know now, with certainty, how they might react to a given situation, in the future?
Psychologically, do you believe that one that would torture someone, under the circumstances which I have mentioned, would do so for a plethora of other reasons, well beyond the act of the one that they were "teaching a lesson?" A means to purge pent up baggage?
If so, then killers beware! This is advanced notice! To do so now, means you agree to the terms of the contract!
Again, EMOTIONALLY = Yes, INTELLECTUALLY = No. You could call it temporary insanity. Wait, Temporary????