You can't make proper steak tartar unless you taste it.
Many are not so eager to embrace limitations.
Otherwise would be a surprise from AlexW.Lacewing wrote: ↑Wed Jul 21, 2021 2:33 amNicely said!AlexW to Walker wrote: ↑Wed Jul 21, 2021 12:40 am to be aware of the thoughts that cross your mind and not follow each and every one into the darkness it might conjure up... life becomes much more beautiful once thought has "calmed down" to a level where the simplicity of here/now can actually be recognised.
attofishpi, how dare you presume to assume the depths of DAM.Dontaskme wrote: ↑Mon Jul 19, 2021 8:23 pm For atto ..the wannabe omniscient one
Who likes to think he knows my private life.
I know you would love nothing more than to be a super hero, but please…. They’re just fables, a bit like your God.Please make an attempt to live...have a hobby, a passion, it must be in all of us, somewhere.![]()

Nobody is lucky enough not to be born.
So you hate physical abuse but enjoy verbal abuse?Dontaskme wrote: ↑Wed Jul 21, 2021 10:45 am Just so you know, this one here hates physical abuse, I personally, would never kill or physically strike another living sentient thing intentionally.. except in self defence, but even that's not for me to know until I'm actually in that situation. I really do not know how I will react in the moment. . so keep your blubbering emotional tripe out of my way. Eat your own shit, and do not follow my thoughts into your own phobia of the darkness. I've heard your nonsense all before, my little shiny shoe shine idiot.
I hate physical pain and the suffering that arises with that pain. Words, never hurt me, I can take verbal abuse, I've had plenty of it on this forum, it's like water off a ducks back, simply because I am able to separate myself from conceptual meaning. However, as much as I would love to be able to separate myself from the physical pain in my body, I know this to be impossible. And that makes me want to swear my fucking head off, is that ok with you?AlexW wrote: ↑Wed Jul 21, 2021 12:31 pmSo you hate physical abuse but enjoy verbal abuse?Dontaskme wrote: ↑Wed Jul 21, 2021 10:45 am Just so you know, this one here hates physical abuse, I personally, would never kill or physically strike another living sentient thing intentionally.. except in self defence, but even that's not for me to know until I'm actually in that situation. I really do not know how I will react in the moment. . so keep your blubbering emotional tripe out of my way. Eat your own shit, and do not follow my thoughts into your own phobia of the darkness. I've heard your nonsense all before, my little shiny shoe shine idiot.
It is a good point you make but it is not so much individual words that make what is said aggressive, it's the meaning intended.AlexW wrote: ↑Tue Jul 20, 2021 11:43 pmI think it matters what "lexicon you use".
If using the lexicon leads to strife and violence, if using it hurts other people then it doesn't really matter if the violence has been performed in all honesty - it's still violence, and even it may be authentic, there is nothing good about it.
What I find especially strange (about DAM), is for someone to revert to violent language while at the same time advocating non-violent physical behaviour... it simply doesn't add up.
Non violence is not restricted to the physical realm - it has to be holistic, not an isolated approach (what do you think happens to children who are victim to consistently violent language? do you think they grow up to be non-violent, loving adults?)