Hello, Felasco,
Felasco wrote:We are journeying from the superficial level, intellectual abstractions, to a deeper level, personal psychology. The idea that forums such as this are about the intellectual abstractions is the cover story, while our personal situations and motivations etc are the real story. We are journeying past the press releases of our public relations department, to a look at the real people behind the curtain.
Well, I would say that it is true *both* that (these) forums are about "intellectual abstractions" and that they are about "personal psychology", but I would not call "intellectual abstractions" superficial. In any case, I doubt that there are any of us posting here who are focussed exclusively on either one or the other. I am pretty sure that both elements play their part in the motivations of most if not all posters to this forum - and even if they don't initially, they will, due to human (social) nature, do so at some point; we can't help but notice personal things about one another when we engage consistently, even if only in writing online.
One reason I was (am) able to talk about "the real person [Gustav] behind the curtain", and why he is capable of doing the same about me, is that we have formed a "real" relationship outside of this forum. Nevertheless, had we not formed that relationship, we would have continued to develop our "intellectual abstractions", independently of "personal psychology", and that is a good thing. We all have our conceptual focusses, they are generally (sure, not always) useful to us, and we all develop them regardless of social influence. Certainly, you do, with your belief in the divisiveness of thought. Is this (the "divisiveness" of thought) such a bad thing though? You seem to think that it is. I don't agree.
I think that your notion of the "divisiveness" of thought is in itself "divisive", if I might put it like that. It divides us into those who accept rationality (divisive thought), and those who do not - those who believe entirely in mystical/thoughtless experience. But what about when decisions need to be made? There is no way to make a decision without "dividing" thought - into that which is desirable as an outcome and that which is undesirable. What are you to do here? Abstain from a decision at all? But abstinence is in itself a decision. I get that you are not arguing explicitly that *all* thought be avoided, but, well, sometimes it seems that you argue as much implicitly. You criticise thought so much that it almost seems as if you *do* want to be rid of it altogether. This seems to me to be a problem with your line of ... well, thinking!
And, yes, we do experience a distinction between public and private, and I have certainly defended my privacy. You suggest that this distinction is "really not personal, but has more to do with the nature of human beings". This, I would suggest, is not quite true - sure, the distinction itself is not personal, but the contents of the distinction (on the private side at least) - its referents, and where the line is drawn - very much are.
Gustav,
Gustav wrote:Esteemed Harry. I am not quite sure that you understand 'friendship'. Certainly we are friends, to the degree that friendship in possible through the Internet medium. Yet no matter how it is conceived I think it might help you to understand that, according to my sense of duty, I am 'acting like a friend'. True, it is not to your liking and this is understandable. But the bottom line for me is that unless you yourself 'self-reveal' and put it all out on the table, I cannot myself do that. But without that done I have no means to speak with you. And because I cannot speak to you I cannot really tell you what I think. And believe me, if you are upset with a few ironical and 'insulting' comments which are benign really, you would be decimated if you were to allow me to really tell you what I think. I do indeed believe that that IS the route you should take. In relation to me and in all your friendships. It is the harder road.
As I wrote in that post you asked me to delete: you're not being at all fair. I *do* "self-reveal" to my friends privately, and have done so very much to you. I don't see how you could argue otherwise, since you know exactly what you are asking me to reveal publicly, but this is the point: you are asking me to air my private problems publicly, and that's not at all an appropriate or reasonable suggestion, and certainly not one that I am going to take up. And re my being "decimated" by you speaking your mind honestly: have I *ever* expressed a desire for you to hide the truth from me? Again, you're not being fair: I *expect* honesty from my friends, just not in the form of mockery, as I've also expressed to you.
Gustav wrote:Just so you know: I asked you to remove a post because (I am somewhat embarrassed to say this) I had the impression you wrote it when drunk.
I am very sure that the only reason you had that "impression" is because I stated as much explicitly at the end of my post. I very much doubt you would have picked up on it otherwise, because it was a perfectly reasonable post, as confirmed (as I mentioned in my previous post) by a mutual friend (Eliz).
I hardly think that alcohol is leading me down a path of madness and imprisonment. Caffeine, maybe (sleeplessness and chemically-induced anxiety are not good for the psycho-spiritually unstable such as myself), but not alcohol. As for death, I suppose that damage to my liver is a potential problem, sure. I certainly have the genes for alcoholism, but I'm not so far down that path that I would classify myself as one. These days, I never drink so much that I lose my senses, memory, or ability to communicate coherently. Typical alcoholics drink so much that they experience blackouts, and destroy their relationships. If anything, alcohol improves my ability to relate to people - in the amounts I drink, of course: much more and I start talking nonsense.
But just to be clear: I totally respect your desire to restrict personal contact with me whilst I am drinking; it seems to me to be a principled and well-intentioned move. Of course I am saddened to lose that contact, and don't think it's really necessary (I really don't lose control when I drink in the amounts I do these days, and I doubt that you or anyone else on this forum would have even known I'd been drinking unless I'd revealed it), but yes, I certainly respect your right to make that decision, and the legitimacy (from your perspective) of it.
Gustav wrote:I must also confess that at some level, perhaps it should be defined as 'an abstract level', I agree with the Aristotelean notion of the 'natural slave'.
That figures. It's the "conservative" in you, the part that sees hierarchies as both inevitable and desirable a la Richard Weaver. I have a much more socialist outlook. I suppose my views are driven by the notion of free will and freedom in general. Even if one person is less gifted than another, I don't think that the former ought to be forced into subservience. I think people generally recognise when others have such greater gifts that they deserve leadership positions, and, if they don't recognise as much, then it probably means that the potential leader is not qualified to lead anyway - I don't think one can legitimately lead without the will and consent of those being led.
Gustav wrote:I cannot at this time reveal to you, because I am in a process of defining it, what exactly I value and devalue. As I say my ideas are constantly in processes of evolution. I do understand the Greek Modality as being uniquely powerful and 'good', and I also do understand that 'Christianity' (or Greco-Christianity) is uniquely powerful in the world of definitions, and that Western Culture has uncovered unique and distinct avenues that have enabled everything that we see around us to come into existence.
Without your knowing why you have this understanding (as you seem to be admitting here is the case), that understanding is something like, as our friends on "the other forum" would say, a "henid". It is a vague and somewhat undeveloped sense that you have, and, lacking any substantiation for it, you cannot really be sure that your sense is accurate. This is a pretty big problem with your whole approach in this thread: to throw out a whole bunch of opinion without any real backing. It is possibly why several others have chosen to stop participating: because you refuse to justify your opinions in any evidential way.
Gustav wrote:In the so-called Traditionalist School we are descending into an Age of Darkness and Obscurity. They do not see technological progress as 'good' but rather the tools by which enslavement will take shape. Sure looks to be what is happening from where I sit.
Synchronously, I re-watched "The Matrix" last night. It certainly bears repeat watches. There are some problems with the coherence of some of the ideas in it, but it's generally a pretty brilliant movie, and certainly speaks to this issue of "enslavement by technology", and even of "traitors to the fight for freedom from technology". In any case, it's interesting to see you write of technological progress as not being good, if only by referring to it as someone else's idea, because I had understood that part of the value you placed on Western culture was due to its technological prowess.
Masculine self-definition, you reckon, eh? And yet you can't even define *why* you value what you value...