Harbal wrote: ↑Thu Feb 16, 2023 10:25 am
Thanks for that. I suppose we all try to make sense of existence somehow, and while I couldn't really describe my way of doing it, I can say there is nothing "spiritual" about it; I'm not that sort of person. Even so, I can respect what you and seeds have to say because you both seem to have figured things out for yourselves, rather than adopting an off-the-shelf set of beliefs.
I have never experienced anything in my life that has led to my considering the possibility of the existence of anything that could be called a soul; other than metaphorically, of course. Nothing has ever happened to me to make me wonder if there might actually be a spiritual realm of any kind. Maybe souls really do exist, and I just don't happen to have one.
That last comment doesn't quite fit with any of my models of reality.
Otherwise, I hear you. If you were curious there might be things you could do to increase your chances of having those experiences, but I understand this may not be the case...and I've gotten the impression it isn't.
So, there we are, each moving forward as best we can.
One topic I've thought of bringing up to try to bridge the gap in such situations is
heuristics vs. things in relation to epistemology.
Here we have the topic of 'soul'. It could be God or transpersons or ghosts or microaggressions or love or the self, in the sense that these are all nouns.
Many people think of beliefs in terms of nouns. Is X real? The epistemology gets put on table. Demonstrate X exists or X is real. Fair enough. And certainly with the history of some nouns and the role they've played in all sorts of nastiness...well, fair enough.
But often people who expect a great deal of rigor about nouns may not notice how their have less rigor about their own heuristics (or their own nouns, for that matter). I am not thinking of you since you react very gently to most nouns and people, if skeptically.
What do I mean by heuristics here? Well, really it could be anything but it could be in ideas about parenting, choosing the right candidate to vote for, how to get along with others, how to approach the opposite sex, how to be a good worker, how to decide who to challenge and who not to, when to gossip, all sorts of moral applications.
Rules (conscious or unconscious or mixes of both) that guide is in life.
I think people often don't expect (from themselves) as much rigor as they expect others to have around nouns existing as they do around their own heuristics working or being good.
But these heuristics have all sorts of local and non-local effects on the lives of people and ourselves.
Obviously, even if I am correct, none of this demonstrates souls (or communities) exist. Nor is it an argument saying...yeah, so don't criticize my nouns.
It's more like Hey, wait, we're all doing stuff based on best guesses and intuition. And our rigor as far as important stuff, related to how we act and think, may be as intuition-based as that other person who believes in X.
And I think what we're concerned about with nouns is not so much does person B believe X [noun] exists, but what does this lead to in their actions and attitudes.
Then further, yes, it may relate to having very different experiences.