Rabbi Wolpe wrote:1. Atheists genuinely resent the evil that religion has done.
I am not an atheist but the rabbi is correct. This accounts for most of the problem that the non religious have with the religious, especially when there is still widespread disbelief of church abuses.
Rabbi Wolpe wrote:2. They are convinced that religion is a fairy tale made up of whole cloth that impedes science/progress/rational thought.
Correct. This accounts for more or less the rest of the objections. Many theists believe an extraordinary amount of obvious utter nonsense, eg. Noah's ark.
To theists who don't hold crazy beliefs - those who harm you most are not atheists but extreme types who make you look like deluded idiots.
Rabbi Wolpe wrote:3. Here is where I make my bid for more obloquy to be visited on my head. There is an arrogant unwillingness to engage with religion’s serious thinkers.
I have tried and did encounter a theist who was a truly challenging, serious thinker. Totally devout but also extremely nice and responsive to reason - I was most impressed. A couple more were pretty shaky in their logic but had some interesting ideas. Most, though, are far from serious thinkers, just theist warriors.
Rabbi Wolpe wrote:4. Finally, I will go so far as to say that there is sometimes in the atheist a want of wonder.
This is exactly what the non religious think of the religious. Many non religious are in awe of nature and are surprised at most theists' obvious lack of curiosity in what is the bedrock of our being.
Philosophers make the same mistake, considering humanity to be the totality of what matters, a shallow notion that ignores the journey of nature that resulted in abstract intelligence and is thus intrinsically shallow.
As Douglas Adams noted:
Isn't it enough to see that a garden is beautiful without having to believe that there are fairies at the bottom of it too?
These atheists are bigoted against religion in the same way that some are prejudiced against blacks.
Do you mean the kind of bigotry that might lead leads a fanatical theist to start long threads to vent hatred against a group - let's just say the theist really, really hates "secularists" and "atheists"?
The kind of prejudice where a bigot might level every possible accusation of mental, emotional and philosophical dysfunction at secularists? Perhaps the kind of bigotry that results in every secular member attempting to engage being treated with utter contempt?
Do you mean
that kind of bigotry?
Or is it the kind of bigotry where theists are banned from forums for calling moderators "liars" (amongst other things) and then blame their banning on their theism rather than arrogant rudeness?