Gary Childress wrote: ↑Mon May 25, 2026 9:05 pm
Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Mon May 25, 2026 8:11 pm
Gary Childress wrote: ↑Mon May 25, 2026 7:57 pm
What about someone who is agnostic?
"Agnostic" means "not knowing." That leaves him in a very poor position relative to knowing anything about morality, too.
We need a supreme being to specifically tell us to feel empathy or compassion?
No, apparently He built it into us. But since we, as agnostics, don't know whether or not God exists, we're at a loss to know whether we have any obligation to respond to such feelings or not. Maybe they're just misguided; or maybe they're signalling something real. But we have no way of knowing, because we don't know anything about it.
It seems like common sense that if I want others to feel empathy and compassion for me (which I need in order to flourish), then I need to feel that way about them.
Well, there's lots of problems with that. One is that empathy does not mean "feeling others' pains and pleasures," but rather "feeling my own, and imagining that they have something similar going on." So it's inherently a fake: nobody has ever genuinely felt what another person is feeling. And we all know this. That's what makes it so frustrating when somebody else tells us, "I know exactly how you feel." No, no, they don't. They're imagining themselves in our shoes, not what's happening to us.
A second is that empathy is so often misguided. Jeffrey Dahmer used to fake injury or need of help to lure women into his clutches. And this leads to a third: sociopaths and psychopaths do not feel empathy in the way we do, but the do know how to use their "radar" for it to exploit the weak. So far from being some kind of universal virtue, empathy is actually dangerous unless it is guided by higher-level cognition. And if somebody doesn't feel empathy, but helps others out of a sense of duty, he's probably a much more socially useful person than somebody who has all sorts of empathetic feelings, but does nothing to help others.
The biggest problem, though, is this: a
feeling is not a
moral imperative. We have no obligation to act on our feelings, whatever they may be. A feeling is just a sensation, unless it corresponds to something in reality, and that reality requires of us some duty. And to what do our moral feelings correspond, in a world with no God?
I don't need to be a Christian to turn the other cheek.
Perhaps not. But you do have to be a Christian to know the reason why you ought to turn the other cheek. Atheism does not tell us that's a thing we ought to do. Nor do other religions, actually.
I'm going to be treated in ways I don't want to be treated.
Really? Then life hasn't been completely fair to you, as you see it? But why should a secularist, if such you were, suppose that life owes us any particular outcome? And why should we think that life was ever "unfair" for doing so?
Morality becomes ingrained in us when we know WHY we behave that way.
That's too much to suppose. We may know why we ought to do X or Y, and still not do it. Nothing gets "ingrained" that way. But the bigger problem is what I've been saying all along: that Atheism has no "why," and agnosticism doesn't either. An Atheist or agnostic might choose, arbitrarily to do conventionally good things; or he might choose to do conventionally bad things. But he can't know
why he is morally obligated to do one, and not the other.
Bullies learn that if they take their behavior too far, then they will face undesirable consequences from the group, and they will be ostracized.
Actually, I have observed that this rarely is the case. Maybe if the bully in question is unlikeable and inept, that happens; but if he comes across as at all competent, or fearsome, or intimidating, or superior in any way, what usually happens is that the crowd falls into line behind him -- if for no other reason, to make sure they don't end up becoming the focus of his bullying.
You don't find any reason in a secular worldview why things ought to be different from that. Secularism tells you that they are what they are, because they couldn't have been any other way. And that's not immoral, nor is it moral; it's amoral. It does not even allow a place for morality to exist as a real thing.