alpha wrote:SpheresOfBalance wrote:Don't be insulted, this really is just fun and games, to keep one sharp, on their toes. I used to get mad, but usually only when one called me names. As long as one doesn't call me names, I'm good! You know, like idiot, moron, brain dead, etc. Pretty much I'm immune these days unless I'm not feeling so good.
But I resent being told what to do, usually doing quite the opposite.

alpha wrote:well, things like "screw you". and "stick it where the sun doesn't shine" are insults.
SpheresOfBalance wrote:So is "...just because some random person somewhere in the mountains might believe it is so." Which is what came first, shall we continue to traverse what was said from end to beginning? The way in which we descended into anarchy, the tit for tat escalation. Of course, you'll obviously take no blame, it's an ego thing, and seems to be apparent at this point. What say you? Worthless or worthwhile?
i take it that you thought that by "some random person somewhere in the mountains" i meant you. i didn't mean you. i meant "some random person somewhere in the mountains". you insulted me based on your misinterpretation of my statement.
Incorrect, you were talking of my argument and I quote:
alpha wrote:since you mentioned honesty, let me be honest with you; truth can't be found through relativising (and broadening the meaning of) everything, but by narrowing things down. no truth can be reached by validating everything, just because some random person somewhere in the mountains might believe it is so.
I was the one you were talking to, I was the one that had been relativising, as you called it. Contextually you could only have been referring to me. That you now try and sidestep the issue is understandable, but you can't really expect to take me for a fool, can you, really? Insult to injury. Plus you misunderstood me, as i said:
SpheresOfBalance wrote:Yet you would tell everyone that life sucks, that there should be none. I say, "screw you, as you're some freak that lives in the mountains somewhere!" Not a lot of things that are human made are absolute, my friend, deal with it!
I get the impression that you've suffered a great blow, at the hands of a drunk driver, a war, or some other such bad luck, that has limited your freedom, i.e., "...it won't change anything." If so, you have the "RELATIVE" power to use 'knowledge' and 'science' to make your life in the confines of the absolute universal physics, that actually are the case. In such a case of misfortune, absolutism tends to strangle one, while relativism lends to their freedom, but absolutism is a good way to maintain the status quo of being pissed off, that's for sure!
The bit above in red is in reference to this quote of yours below, and was clearly an "if/then" statement. CLEARLY!
alpha wrote:i think that whether death is harm or not, it's still better than this "life", regardless.
You said "life," you did not clarify that you meant "your life" so you bundled us all in that statement. Are you a terrorist? Can I expect you to blow us all up because we don't meet with your approval? So if that be the case I said screw you, clearly an if then statement. If it doesn't apply, then you have nothing to worry about, feeling guilty?
The bit in blue above, after I issued the If/then, I'm trying to help you, trying to let you know that if in fact you are disappointed in life because you've suffered some sort of major blow, absolutism shall kill your soul, your will, that relativity is your only savior. I'm saying screw that you're not absolutely like all the rest, that relatively you're still just as vital, take Stephen Hawking for instance. In absolutest terms hes lacking what others have, but in relative terms, he's heads above the rest. Crap the fact that he's beaten ALS, such that he has, is a grand testament indeed in the power of positive thinking. Which is surely that which is keeping him alive. And how much better off are we for his fight to stay alive?
I believe you ignored my caring for you, paying attention only to my If/Then statement, as then you had the moral high ground, because you were clearly losing the on topic argument.
I'm an acquired taste in all my coarseness! But if one pays close attention, very close attention, they'll find that I care for everyone, that I only try and see this venue as a way to exercise the mind. And I do so need it!
So I guess I should apologize for your misinterpretation. Are we both subject to misinterpretation?
When I was a kid me and my friends used to wrestle, as long as things were relatively equal, it remained a game, just for play, but often when one started to best the other, the loser made a last ditch effort and made it real, by breaking all the gentlemanly rules, hitting below the belt. I guess we're not very far removed from those days, huh? Boys will be boys! Isn't that right HC?