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Re: Is marriage a selfish relationship?
Posted: Mon Mar 28, 2016 6:06 pm
by Skip
duszek - - Helping someone is always a good investment, it seems.
If a person cannot help you in return then perhaps at least he will not be a wretch who freaks out and starts shooting at people. Which is also some kind of a reward, far-fetched perhaps, but still a reward.
The reason altruism was invented in the first place (by evolution) is that it makes a better society, and a better society benefits all of its members: of course altruism is always a good investment.
Now, how do we convince the American right?
Re: Is marriage a selfish relationship?
Posted: Thu Mar 31, 2016 5:51 pm
by Jaded Sage
I can be. In fact, I believe it usually is. But that doesn't mean it always is.
Re: Is marriage a selfish relationship?
Posted: Thu Mar 31, 2016 8:17 pm
by Skip
The best decision you can make is not guaranteed to be the best possible decision in the world. Neither is any other decision by any other person. So? You still have to make some decision, so why not the best one you're capable of, by your own lights? No amount of what-iffing, calculating and second-guessing will improve on it.
Re: Is marriage a selfish relationship?
Posted: Sun Apr 03, 2016 7:35 pm
by Jaded Sage
It could also ne there for simplicity.