Can atheism explain love?

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HexHammer wrote:
Yuujin wrote:
HexHammer wrote:Yuujin
Have you been shelterd as a kid? ..or bumped your head? ..or just born this way?
Ah, none of the above. I used be an agnostic. But thank god! (and my parents), I wasn't rude, at least.
Considering the nature of OP, logic demands my questions. If you had made sound reasoning I wouldn't ask these rude questions.
Okay, if you are only polite to the people who you think are smart or think alike, and be rude to the people who you think are dumb, you're not a very nice person, are you? :mrgreen:

Whatever your excuses are, the fact remains that your post was solely about insult. You didn't have to post anything, if you thought my OP was stupid, but no, you had to post just to ridicule me.

Speaking from my experience, truly intelligent people possess sophisticated communication skills and they can make a point without being offensive.

Well, I don't expect you to agree with me, so why don't we stay away from each other, I have no desire to have conversations with those who'd resort to ad hominem.

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Blaggard wrote:This is a question for philosophy as science has no hard and fast answers. That said neither does philosophy. Love is like an illness, love is making yourself a slave and a master. Can anyone really explain it is a more interesting question, than can atheism explain love. If it's basic needs, we have not the understanding in psychology to explain it, ie not the understanding of enough species, or the understanding of the mind. If it's just can atheists understand it no, but then neither can theists, they certainly if history is any indication don't understand love, even when it is laid out in pain staking terms by someone, who says what it is, they cannot grasp it. So long story short no one can understand love.
I'm only saying that atheists and theists both have their own, different ways of understanding love. The former is scientific and the latter is spiritual. And I most definitely choose the latter every time.
Blaggard wrote: Let me sum up by asking, have you ever really truly and sincerely loved? In which way would you define it and what sort of love was it, eros, caritas or other?
I think I've experienced Eros, Caritas, Storge, Philia, but what I consider "true love" is Agape.
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Define it in terms all might understand then. Is unconditional really a thing, or is it you had conditions, but you consciously thought you had none. It's simply not that easy, it involves so much of the mind, that a pleb like we are is woefully unable to even define it.

What is this Earth love, what does it mean in any remotely objective way and why should anyone love it?

Solve the hard problem, when you have get back to me. :P

What I consider true love is egoism, why would I do that? Is the only true love yourself and your needs, I don't know but answers on a postcard. ;)
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It's my understanding that true love is unconditional love, expecting nothing in return, you just want to safeguard the well-being of that person(s), and you cherish them more than your own life itself (you could give your life if necessary), their happiness becomes your happiness.

I'm not a full-fledged Christian, but this verse works for me.

Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.

Sorry, Blaggard, but I can only solve it for me. We all have to find the answer for ourselves, someone else's concept of love wouldn't always work on a different person. Just like I cannot make everyone who reads the above verse be moved by it. Some (like me) are, and some aren't. That's just the way it is. :wink:
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Yuujin wrote:Okay, if you are only polite to the people who you think are smart or think alike, and be rude to the people who you think are dumb, you're not a very nice person, are you? :mrgreen:

Whatever your excuses are, the fact remains that your post was solely about insult. You didn't have to post anything, if you thought my OP was stupid, but no, you had to post just to ridicule me.

Speaking from my experience, truly intelligent people possess sophisticated communication skills and they can make a point without being offensive.

Well, I don't expect you to agree with me, so why don't we stay away from each other, I have no desire to have conversations with those who'd resort to ad hominem.
Medical science started out as an abominal act of dessicating gods creations, but ended up as a respectable and essential thing to society.

You may not like the ways of my inquissitive nature, but I try to figure out what causes these highly irrational questions.
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HexHammer wrote:Medical science started out as an abominal act of dessicating gods creations, but ended up as a respectable and essential thing to society.
You may not like the ways of my inquissitive nature, but I try to figure out what causes these highly irrational questions.
I don't call that inquisitive, that was pure ridicule to me. I'm sorry but I think you won't be successful in figuring it out if you continue this way. If we can't talk in a civil manner, we're not gonna have a fruitful conversation. No one enjoys talking to someone who shows disdain toward him, in case you didn't know. (BTW, I have nothing against medical science, I'd donate my body if I can.)

Well, farewell brother, have a nice life.
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"why would anyone sacrifice one's life for others?"

An example...

My nephew is eight years old. I find him to be the most marvelous person in the world.

If need be: I'd take a bullet to save him.

Why? Cuz I love him.

I need no other reason.

Is my reason sound?

Probably not...don't care...I believe the world is a better place with him in it...I know my life is better with him in it...I value him beyond all others and things...I want him to live, to grow, to find his place, to be happy.

So: because I value him, I believe it to be in my best interest to preserve and cultivate him, even if I have to sacrifice myself to do it.

Even if I'm not around to see it, knowing (in my last moments) that he continues, serves 'me'.

There's nuthin' noble about it.

It is what it is.
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Yuujin wrote:I wasn't aware of that (though I knew animals can mourn). Isn't it simply because those animals don't realize that their babies are not alive? Could you give me some actual examples, articles from a legitimate source?
I googled 'animals mourning', there were "About 7,260,000 results (0.41 seconds)" take your pick. I don't know of any academic studies, it's not my field, but I can imagine there would be a reluctance to attribute an emotion to animals.
Yuujin wrote:But even if so, those cases are rather rare, no? Isn't it more normal for animals to give up the defective (the majority of them would)?
I don't know, but I certainly wouldn't try to make a philosophical case on conjecture.
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uwot wrote:God of the gaps again.
I get a tickle every time I hear this phrase. Because many atheists don't realize they're doing the same thing. In their case, it's " Scientism of the gaps". Whenever they don't have an answer, they'll say "Oh, science will find the answer in the future..." Isn't that a blind faith in science? To me, it's "the pot calling the kettle black". :D
There is no way of telling what science will find answers to; the only certainty is that if you satisfy yourself with attributing everything to god, you will never find out.
Yuujin wrote:... I realized how the things that I embrace as valuable, such as love, selflessness, morality, heroism, altruism, quickly become meaningless if I employed a purely naturalistic worldview, and I decided I don't want to live that way.
Why are those things more meaningful in a universe with a god, than one without?
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"There have been people who had thrown themselves on others in a shooting rampage, trying to protect his/her friend. In your eyes, such acts of heroism is a crazy notion, getting a satisfaction for submitting oneself to self-torture?"

First: every one (including me) is loony.

Second: as I say in my post above, it ain't noble (ain't heroism).

Third: if you could dissect the 'hero's' psyche, I'm bettin' his or her motivation is not much different than what I describe in my post above.
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Yuujin wrote: (Skip - And you expect the full explanation from faith in some invisible entity or rejection of that faith?)
Just because it's invisible, it doesn't mean it's not there, does it?
That's beside the point, and so is your notion of god.
My point was that neither belief nor unbelief explain love. Scientists study the brain and its functions, but have not yet finished their explorations, so all explanations to date are incomplete. But they've made some remarkable medicine possible to save and improve a lot of lives.
Science can't explain many things, and I'm not waiting for it to give me answers to my most important inquiries, for I'll probably die before, and it'll be too late then
As science isn't finished, nobody knows what it can explain or whether it has limits. In any case, you will never know all - or even a tiny fraction of - that science has already explored. No individual can.
(Skip - .... no organism is motivated by preservation of the species. Biologically, organisms are driven to 1. preserve their own life and 2. perpetuate their own genes, in competition ...)

So, in essence, you're saying the question is too complicated for science to answer ...
No. (Reading is hard.) I'm saying that scientists

Let us make this clear: scientists, not Science. Science is a discipline, and approach to problem solving, a method, a human endeavour encompassing many fields of study in which millions of people participate over thousands of years, each adding their little bit of theory, observation, experimentation, explanation, and yet more questions. Science is not a conscious entity: it doesn't say anything, do anything or want anything. People do.

are in the process of investigating thousands of complicated questions. I don't know all the answers they've arrived at so far, but I know a damn sight more of them than you seem to.
And it's a personal choice if one wants to believe that the answer is somewhere in the scientific field (like you do), or it's in a totally different dimension (like I do). Either way, both are a belief. It's entirely an individual's decision as to what each one of us wants to believe.
Of course it is. I choose to believe what makes sense, agrees with the world as I perceive and experience it and is demonstrated to work. I have no interest in trying to disillusion you.
(Skip - Plus, complexity is prone to malfunction: rarely is any single biological requirement being serviced in the most effective and efficient manner.)

This is why I became a theist. The atheistic view would see a most beautiful human behavior "unconditional love" as a biological malfunction.
Where did you get that? (Reading is hard!) I said complexity is prone to malfunction, which simply means that the most evolved animals don't work as efficiently as fungi or nematodes, which makes the motivation of complex organisms difficult to judge from the outcome of their actions.

Incidentally, where is it demonstrated that unconditional love exists or is beautiful? Human societies are hardly proof of this.
If that's the case, we shouldn't admire parents who pour their love onto a child with severe disabilities or terminal illness, because they're misfiring their love for something that's negative biologically. I don't want to live with a worldview like that.
Who asked you to?
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"logic demands my questions"

No, Hex, you're just a dick.

And: that's okay.

What's not okay is pretendin' to be sumthin' other than 'dick'.

At least be honest (with us, with yourself) about what motivates you.

You're a dick...you like being dickish...embrace it.
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NOpe! ..I've always been very honest, sure it may appear as being utterly rude, but it's a callous inquisitive nature.

We all know that you lack basic cognitive abilities so don't be so quick to judge things that you don't comprehend.
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Civility costs you nuthin' and can gain you a lot.

*shrug*

'nuff said.
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HexHammer wrote:NOpe! ..I've always been very honest, sure it may appear as being utterly rude, but it's a callous inquisitive nature.

We all know that you lack basic cognitive abilities so don't be so quick to judge things that you don't comprehend.
No we don't. It is dishonest of you to claim otherwise, Mr Hammer.
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henry quirk wrote:Civility costs you nuthin' and can gain you a lot.
True, very true.
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