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accelafine wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:07 pm When creepy Harry gets horny I'm sure he will give you a drunken 2am phone call...

accelafine, you’ve got him all wrong, you don’t know him like me. He wouldn’t do that, that I know, he’s got more self control more than you’ll ever know. More than me in fact. He is an exemplary model for showing emotional self control when the going gets tough. That was one of the things I admired about him the most.

He’s much more refined and self controlled than to bother me at 2am…and I’ve never once seen him drunk, so I don’t know why you would think he’s capable of being drunk at 2am of all ridiculous times.

Once he makes up his mind about something. He doesn’t look back. I could be wrong, I don’t know, I can’t even guess as to what he is capable of doing. That’s not for me to speculate.

But of course you maybe just joking around with me, or you might be serious…how the heck would I know, unless I just presumed.

Oh my god. I can't take any more of this. I'm off to X and my intelligent, man-hating terfy friends. What a breath of fresh air they are

accelafine wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:27 pm

Atla wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:22 pm

accelafine wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:18 pm

Ad hominem. Calling yourself attractive doesn't count. Men never think they are unattractive which is why they hate women. They blame the women for not being attracted to them instead of actually looking at themselves and at least trying to not be such a misogynistic, embittered freak. You certainly come across on here as deeply unattractive without even a hint of a personality.

Why the hell would I bring my actual personality to a philosophy forum

I wonder what makes you so bitter anyway?

If I was going to be 'bitter' it certainly wouldn't be over men. Ad hominem again.
Believe me, you have come across loud and clear. Are you saying you have created another persona especially for this site, one that hates women and is seriously lacking in charm and interpersonal skills?

I know this will be difficult for you to understand, but my focus on philosophy sites is on impersonal philosophizing and philosophical entertainment/trolling, not on online dating and social media stuff. Also, I still don't hate women.

So again, what or who made you so bitter anyway?

accelafine wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:06 pm Come to think of it I did have a bi-polar friend. She used to go on phone-up chat rooms and invite some new creep to her place every night. When she complained that they 'use her for sex' I suggested she not have sex with them, to which she replied that it was 'bad manners' to have a man come to your house and not give him at least a blow job. For fuck sake. What a pathetic cow. Perhaps it's part of being bi-polar. Frankly I don't care. I'm not a big fan of insane people.

I’ve personally never pursued a man since my divorce 29 years ago. They’ve always pursued me. I never closed myself off from men, I’m open, and single and ready to mingle with the right guy. Maybe Harry wasn’t the right guy for me in the end. Who knows.

I’m glad Harry pursued me. I am not sad it’s over, I’m just happy it happened at all. Yes, times were sometimes rough difficult and awful that I just wanted to run for the hills, but that was just my emotions taking over and me giving them too much attention that they grew to the size of a monster.

Harry was an amazing experience for me. But we were never meant to be that’s all. We both have over sensitive energies. And we both know how to live on our own. To know when to back off completely and not look back. We both realised our relationship together was painfully too much for our sensitive natures. We are both natural loners. But not closed off that we are not willing to risk love with another. We are not afraid of being vulnerable or of being rejected.

Yes, there was a lot of tantrums from me when he closed the door on me, but that’s just my nature. I wanted to lash out the only way I knew how. I hated him that night because I loved him so much.

accelafine wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:35 pm Oh my god. I can't take any more of this. I'm off to X and my intelligent, man-hating terfy friends. What a breath of fresh air they are

accelafine, you seem to like coming here to read these tragic love stories though. Do you read Mills and Boon books by any chance? Or what about Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë?

Don’t you just love a good Kathy and Heathcliff experience?

accelafine wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:21 pm

Fairy wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:17 pm

accelafine wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:01 pm

For fuck sake. What is wrong with you? When I called you a pathetic handmaiden that was the understatement of the year. Do you want this creep wanking off to your pornographic drivel?

You’d have to ask the creep if that’s what you believe could possibly be happening. Only the creep can verify if the creep is actually wanking off while reading my posts. How the hell would I know. You do project some strange ideas onto me. I’m not gonna lie.

Are you really as thick as you seem to be, or do you think being a 'dizzy ditsy whackadoodle' is the 'proper' way to be around men?

I don’t know, I’ve only been physically around Harry in over 29 years of being on my own. And that only happened because he PMd me his email address and then we got talking, and then the next minute he asked me if I’d like to couple up with him and I hesitated at first then I just said hell, why not. I said yes, because I liked him on the forum before I’d even met him in person. I liked the way he expressed himself on the forum. Then he posted a picture of his face here on the forum. It’s was a face that sent goosebumps all over my body. I was thrilled to bits seeing what he looked like after I’d already liked him before I’d seen his face.

The last time before Harry that I was physically with a man was with my husband of 18 years. That was just before we got divorced after he chose to leave me, saying it wasn’t my fault and that I’d been the perfect wife and mother. But he met someone else in Slovenia who he was instantly attracted to and just had to act on his feelings and be with her instead which incidentally ended up being a failed relationship, I heard that they had split up, and gone their separate ways, I heard that by my X husbands mother.

I’ve had a few male friends but nothing physical with them. Always platonic. I’ve only got one faithful ever lasting platonic friend now who lives in America. He’s a nondualist so we have something very strong and binding in common. He’s the most dependable person I have ever had the good fortune to meet. But who knows what the future will hold, I’ve no idea.

Fairy wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 9:00 pm

accelafine wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:35 pm Oh my god. I can't take any more of this. I'm off to X and my intelligent, man-hating terfy friends. What a breath of fresh air they are

accelafine, you seem to like coming here to read these tragic love stories though. Do you read Mills and Boon books by any chance? Or what about Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë?

Don’t you just love a good Kathy and Heathcliff experience?

That's pretty funny. I've just started Sean Carroll's 'The biggest ideas in the universe--quanta and fields' but his American 'English' has alienated me from the start.

Fairy wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:50 pm

accelafine wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:06 pm Come to think of it I did have a bi-polar friend. She used to go on phone-up chat rooms and invite some new creep to her place every night. When she complained that they 'use her for sex' I suggested she not have sex with them, to which she replied that it was 'bad manners' to have a man come to your house and not give him at least a blow job. For fuck sake. What a pathetic cow. Perhaps it's part of being bi-polar. Frankly I don't care. I'm not a big fan of insane people.

I’ve personally never pursued a man since my divorce 29 years ago. They’ve always pursued me. I never closed myself off from men, I’m open, and single and ready to mingle with the right guy. Maybe Harry wasn’t the right guy for me in the end. Who knows.

I’m glad Harry pursued me. I am not sad it’s over, I’m just happy it happened at all. Yes, times were sometimes rough difficult and awful that I just wanted to run for the hills, but that was just my emotions taking over and me giving them too much attention that they grew to the size of a monster.

Harry was an amazing experience for me. But we were never meant to be that’s all. We both have over sensitive energies. And we both know how to live on our own. To know when to back off completely and not look back. We both realised our relationship together was painfully too much for our sensitive natures. We are both natural loners. But not closed off that we are not willing to risk love with another. We are not afraid of being vulnerable or of being rejected.

Yes, there was a lot of tantrums from me when he closed the door on me, but that’s just my nature. I wanted to lash out the only way I knew how. I hated him that night because I loved him so much.

You are all over the place. One minute he's not funny at all in the 'real world', a nasty little woman-bashing slut, the next he's the funniest person ever and someone you adore and are thankful for their very presence in your life, however fleeting. Do you not see how pathetic that is? I had him sussed in 5 minutes. He's weak and clueless.

Fairy wrote: ↑Tue Sep 17, 2024 6:17 pm What does…. “thou shalt not have other gods” mean?

That means, as you well know, there is only One, and One only.

Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Wed Sep 18, 2024 5:55 pm

Walker wrote: ↑Wed Sep 18, 2024 2:24 pm

Fairy wrote: ↑Wed Sep 18, 2024 6:03 am

I’d like to take just a second and make this about me.

Walker, your experience is your being - and your being simply cannot possibly precede you.

“Before me,” references dualistic worship rather than the worship of, and clinging to, conceptual oneness.

Okay, let's get a definitive take on this, before your interlocutor's speculations become too unanchored.

"Before" is the Hebrew pronoun עַל־ , which, depending on context, can be translated in the following ways: above, over, upon, against (Strong's)

To "have a god" means to have some object, entity or value that is prioritized first in one's life -- the thing one most worships, and to which one's life is oriented. Thus, the commandment implies, "You shall not rank anything else in your valuing as higher than God," or "Nothing but God Himself is fit to become the orientation point of one's life, projects and values."

It can be paraphrased, then, in various ways; but the principle is very clear. God first. Only the true God.

LOL "Himself".

accelafine wrote: ↑Mon Sep 23, 2024 12:50 am

Fairy wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:50 pm

accelafine wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:06 pm Come to think of it I did have a bi-polar friend. She used to go on phone-up chat rooms and invite some new creep to her place every night. When she complained that they 'use her for sex' I suggested she not have sex with them, to which she replied that it was 'bad manners' to have a man come to your house and not give him at least a blow job. For fuck sake. What a pathetic cow. Perhaps it's part of being bi-polar. Frankly I don't care. I'm not a big fan of insane people.

I’ve personally never pursued a man since my divorce 29 years ago. They’ve always pursued me. I never closed myself off from men, I’m open, and single and ready to mingle with the right guy. Maybe Harry wasn’t the right guy for me in the end. Who knows.

I’m glad Harry pursued me. I am not sad it’s over, I’m just happy it happened at all. Yes, times were sometimes rough difficult and awful that I just wanted to run for the hills, but that was just my emotions taking over and me giving them too much attention that they grew to the size of a monster.

Harry was an amazing experience for me. But we were never meant to be that’s all. We both have over sensitive energies. And we both know how to live on our own. To know when to back off completely and not look back. We both realised our relationship together was painfully too much for our sensitive natures. We are both natural loners. But not closed off that we are not willing to risk love with another. We are not afraid of being vulnerable or of being rejected.

Yes, there was a lot of tantrums from me when he closed the door on me, but that’s just my nature. I wanted to lash out the only way I knew how. I hated him that night because I loved him so much.

You are all over the place. One minute he's not funny at all in the 'real world', a nasty little woman-bashing slut, the next he's the funniest person ever and someone you adore and are thankful for their very presence in your life, however fleeting. Do you not see how pathetic that is? I had him sussed in 5 minutes. He's weak and clueless.

Well I ams what I ams and that’s not something I can change. Can we help who we fall in love with. Doesn’t look like it.

Love is a filthy word, it implies two.

Here there is only the beloved.

The rest is history…and we all love a good story. We’ve all got a tale to tell.

Fairy wrote: ↑Mon Sep 23, 2024 4:54 am

accelafine wrote: ↑Mon Sep 23, 2024 12:50 am

Fairy wrote: ↑Sun Sep 22, 2024 8:50 pm

I’ve personally never pursued a man since my divorce 29 years ago. They’ve always pursued me. I never closed myself off from men, I’m open, and single and ready to mingle with the right guy. Maybe Harry wasn’t the right guy for me in the end. Who knows.

I’m glad Harry pursued me. I am not sad it’s over, I’m just happy it happened at all. Yes, times were sometimes rough difficult and awful that I just wanted to run for the hills, but that was just my emotions taking over and me giving them too much attention that they grew to the size of a monster.

Harry was an amazing experience for me. But we were never meant to be that’s all. We both have over sensitive energies. And we both know how to live on our own. To know when to back off completely and not look back. We both realised our relationship together was painfully too much for our sensitive natures. We are both natural loners. But not closed off that we are not willing to risk love with another. We are not afraid of being vulnerable or of being rejected.

Yes, there was a lot of tantrums from me when he closed the door on me, but that’s just my nature. I wanted to lash out the only way I knew how. I hated him that night because I loved him so much.

You are all over the place. One minute he's not funny at all in the 'real world', a nasty little woman-bashing slut, the next he's the funniest person ever and someone you adore and are thankful for their very presence in your life, however fleeting. Do you not see how pathetic that is? I had him sussed in 5 minutes. He's weak and clueless.

Well I ams what I ams and that’s not something I can change. Can we help who we fall in love with. Doesn’t look like it.

Love is a filthy word, it implies two.

Here there is only the beloved.

The rest is history…and we all love a good story. We’ve all got a tale to tell.

So why did you delete all those posts? Are you ashamed of them? Lucky for you that no one 'quoted' them, the way you always quote mine in the 5 seconds between my posting and then editing or deleting them, and then attack me for deleting/editing them

accelafine wrote: ↑Mon Sep 23, 2024 5:17 am

Fairy wrote: ↑Mon Sep 23, 2024 4:54 am

accelafine wrote: ↑Mon Sep 23, 2024 12:50 am

You are all over the place. One minute he's not funny at all in the 'real world', a nasty little woman-bashing slut, the next he's the funniest person ever and someone you adore and are thankful for their very presence in your life, however fleeting. Do you not see how pathetic that is? I had him sussed in 5 minutes. He's weak and clueless.

Well I ams what I ams and that’s not something I can change. Can we help who we fall in love with. Doesn’t look like it.

Love is a filthy word, it implies two.

Here there is only the beloved.

The rest is history…and we all love a good story. We’ve all got a tale to tell.

So why did you delete all those posts? Are you ashamed of them? Lucky for you that no one 'quoted' them, the way you always quote mine in the 5 seconds between my posting and then editing or deleting them, and then attack me for deleting/editing them

Yes there was shame. I deleted because of shame and regret. I’m a wretched wreck of a being. The pain I cause to myself is immobilising. And yet I’m still managing to function as I relax into the feelings allowing them to be there.

Yes I’m a hypocrite I attack you for doing what I also do.

But do you know what?

NO ONE CARES

Age wrote: ↑Mon Sep 23, 2024 4:26 am

Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Wed Sep 18, 2024 5:55 pm

Walker wrote: ↑Wed Sep 18, 2024 2:24 pm
“Before me,” references dualistic worship rather than the worship of, and clinging to, conceptual oneness.

Okay, let's get a definitive take on this, before your interlocutor's speculations become too unanchored.

"Before" is the Hebrew pronoun עַל־ , which, depending on context, can be translated in the following ways: above, over, upon, against (Strong's)

To "have a god" means to have some object, entity or value that is prioritized first in one's life -- the thing one most worships, and to which one's life is oriented. Thus, the commandment implies, "You shall not rank anything else in your valuing as higher than God," or "Nothing but God Himself is fit to become the orientation point of one's life, projects and values."

It can be paraphrased, then, in various ways; but the principle is very clear. God first. Only the true God.

LOL "Himself".

Father sky.

Father space.

Father Christ.

Space and Mass..the same one thing appearing different that’s all folks.

Without space there is no mass. And without mass there is no space.

Everyone knows this, meaning no one knows this.

Age wrote: ↑Mon Sep 23, 2024 1:33 am

Fairy wrote: ↑Tue Sep 17, 2024 6:17 pm What does…. “thou shalt not have other gods” mean?

That means, as you well know, there is only One, and One only.

Yes there is only one.

That’s why this one is absent from the world because there is no other one than one only.

No you knows this.