We cannot expect God to love us back. Petitionary prayers are either self expressive or superstitious.Alexis Jacobi wrote: ↑Wed Feb 02, 2022 9:33 pmThen I’m an inbetweener of another sort. My attention to my own spiritual life is constant, in its way, that I can say, but fluttery and wavering.
The next section (for what it is worth) in the definition of prayer (Catholic Encyclopedia) is:
The words used to express it in Scripture are: to call up (Genesis 4:26); to intercede (Job 22:10); to mediate (Isaiah 53:10); to consult (1 Samuel 28:6); to beseech (Exodus 32:11); and, very commonly, to cry out to. The Fathers speak of it as the elevation of the mind to God with a view to asking proper things from Him (St. John Damascene, On the Orthodox Faith III.24); communing and conversing with God (St. Gregory of Nyssa, "De oratione dom.", in P.G., XLIV, 1125); talking with God (St. John Chrysostom, "Hom. xxx in Gen.", n. 5, in P.G., LIII, 280). It is therefore the expression of our desires to God whether for ourselves or others. This expression is not intended to instruct or direct God what to do, but to appeal to His goodness for the things we need; and the appeal is necessary, not because He is ignorant of our needs or sentiments, but to give definite form to our desires, to concentrate our whole attention on what we have to recommend to Him, to help us appreciate our close personal relation with Him. The expression need not be external or vocal; internal or mental is sufficient.
To give definite form to our desires is a step in the right direction . The next step would be to examine our desires and detect any irrational desires. God or nature gave you reason in order to detect what is rational and what irrational.