Belinda wrote: ↑Thu Mar 08, 2018 10:28 am
Even you Dam must surely want to alleviate the misery of oppressed women?
Yes, and that's why I choose to write about nonduality...to help free up the blockage that is mis-identification.
The one identified with the thought ..''there are miserable oppressed women''...is the one manifesting that belief into existence through the belief the thought is real...when it isn't...is a new born baby born an oppressed baby? ..no of course not, these beliefs are imposed upon them by those who came before them who also held onto such beliefs themselves.
You are not your thoughts..you are that which is aware of thought...awareness doesn't have any beliefs about itself, it's neutral ...it is that in which all beliefs arise and fall...allowed and permitted...or not.
You create your own misery self...no one else is responsible for what you are creating with your identified belief in the thought arising in you...awareness allows the belief to be there in you...if there was no awareness behind the mind of thought that knows every thought in the instant they arise...you wouldn't know what belief was...beliefs come and go....but awareness never comes and goes..it's always here constantly unchanging.
In other words..no one can oppress another one...this is only ever oneness oppressing itself...and if it can oppress itself, then it can undo that oppression...all unwanted beliefs are returned to sender - to equilibrium in the end ..because it's equilibrium that allows for them to be in the first place...without that ground of all being...nothing would be happening, showing up. It's the screen on which the movie is playing, no belief, no movie...but the screen remains even when the movie is absent, for it has to be there all the time, else no belief could ever manifest into actuality. No screen, no movie to show.
YOU are the watcher of thought not the thought...identity with the thought is the misery self...while the real SELF looks on in detachment...it's all allowing.
You choose what role you want to play..., do you want to be miserable and oppressed? no of course not...who told you you were miserable and oppressed? ..or was that just a belief?
Your real Self was never touched or harmed by any event that ever happened in the making of this movie because you are the only one making it?
You don't have to be in the movie...you can kill yourself right now...the movie can be well worth the price of admission when you know the truth of yourself, and it really is up to you to make a good movie or not...your the creator, director, and the character in the movie all at once...while your real self looks on in detachment.
We're all the same AWARENESS watching the movie called life....the roles played by the characters are all unique, but as a conscious creator, you ultimately get to choose your own reality, dream story by becoming lucid in your own dream that only you are creating. You have overall control of how you want to be in the world...no other has ever got control over you...unless you give your own power away to them, like so many often do...I've done it myself, I did this repeatedly until one day I awakened to the dream of separation and in that moment I vanished as a separate identity.
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