Harry wrote:I have little idea how you arrive at the idea of life as a "con game" - presumably this is more "realism". No, I don't see life as a con game, and I have no intention of living it as though it were.
Sorry to take advantage of the rhetorical opening offered, though such taking advantage is commensurate with an admitted 'aggressive' attitude and valuation, yet your sentimental approach, a naive and untested sentimentality I would add, smacks of 'con game' from top to bottom. Not only are you running a con but you have
conned yourself: "Con artists in a duplicitous world, tricked by the world itself, involved in Con Trips and conning themselves about the Real Facts of their
complicity." What I also find is that, because of your mental laziness, you don't have a means to really examine ideas through. Yet I propose that it is possible, with a certain amount of concentrated and continued effort, to actually look into some of the ideas presented (for example in my posts) as opposed to superficially skimming over them and effectively diminishing the content or thrust through unfamiliarity and lack of interest, and also seeming to resort, in the end, to stark sentimentalism.
This, I think, ties in with your "conservative" views: whilst your views are in some ways "conservative" in a non-standard sense, I sense that with your notion of "realism", you are in some ways as opposed to progress as is the standard conservative: your "realism" says, "This is just the way the world is, we cannot change it, we must simply 'accept reality'".
In some sense at least, though I do not have it worked out by any means and in truth your views are just as valid as mine or anyone's in the context of conversation, 'conservatism' as I would define it is a recapitulation of one's self and one's attitudes (and actions) in this world. It is a retreat away from 'unrealism' which might only mean too much emphasis on speculation, idealistic speculation perhaps, and a return to a more grounded attitude. This does indeed hinge into the topic of this thread at least in how I conceive it. The Question seems to become
What really is Progress? What does it mean for a society to 'progress'? What does it mean for a person to progress in their allotted time in life? I find that in answering those questions, more often than not, one answers through forms of 'conservatism'. There is a definite tension between 'conservative' values in the sense of 'tried-and-true' and also 'universal values, and a sort of restless expansiveness and resistance to the present. It is also true, generally speaking, that in most cases one 'becomes more conservative' in outlook the longer that one has lived, and that 'youthful idealism', having been tested, returns, perhaps 'conservatively', to the practicable. I am of the opinion at this moment that 'progress' is not outward-looking but inward-focussed. The things that need attention are immediate and close to hand. The people around one, their care and nourishment, etc. At least as I have discovered it, there is no new territory here, and I also suggest there will never be.
So the intention in starting a thread of this sort is to suggest that we might not know what Progress actually is, and that in breaking the link with our own past and all the knowledge-traditions that have been stored up there, we may be making a big mistake. I am restating this in an attempt to place our present conversations within the over-all context.
I find a few things interesting. One of them is how to relate to malefactors. It is a terribly problematic area because it obviously has to do with someone making a judgment about another. Or a group making a judgment about another group. This responsibility should not be avoided. It cannot be avoided in fact. You must keep in mind as you read my thoughts that I live in a radically different place than you. I allude to this often. In short, here, people cannot decide, and they will not decide, what is malefaction and what is not. There is a great deal of 'delinquency' as it is called here. The police and judicial systems are weak, there is a hodgepodge legal system that is unclear, and a great deal of misplaced empathy for those who wind up breaking the law.
But I am speaking mostly about violent crime, and riffing off of your rape-vision. For example, about a year ago my GF's brother got shot in a robbery. Shot in the head in fact. Luckily for him the bullet did not penetrate into his brain but went into the bone. He is now deaf in one ear. This sort of thing happens all the time. Not only do they rob you but they also might shoot you. And why? To me no excuse, no explanation, no sophistry or con-artistry applies here, one has to see the straight facts:
- If you pick up a gun (I might also include knives) and point it at someone, for any reason and at any time, you have forfeited your privilege of living. In that case 'you' should immediately be shot. Without a second thought. No remorse, no excuse.
Clearly, this all came to me after I was myself robbed at gunpoint. True, I 'sort of forgave' and made efforts to visualize their circumstances, the difficulties of their lives, blah blah blah, but then I came to see that this is the root of permissiveness. In a sense I am not allowed to be permissive when it has to do with someone else's life. Then, a friend of a friend's 16 year old daughter was shot and killed in a robbery of exactly the same sort. I thought about this for a month. Then, and because I could see the logic of cutting through 'permissiveness' to the stark underpinning of the questions, my attitude shifted: One cannot be allowed to threaten another person with a mortal instrument because in so many cases it results in mortality, or wounding, or brain damage, and inexpressible pain and difficulty, and that this has to be the line that one cannot cross. I would not want to do it myself, this is true, but were some of these malefactors to die, to simply be eliminated, I would not cry. Strange, isn't it? I am just trying to be honest. This is 'seeing things in real terms' in my book.
What I find interesting is to return, at least conceptually, to some of the 'older models' of human organization, to have a point of comparison. One then has something to work with. In the so-called Vedic system, at least in the philosophy of the Bhagavad-Gita, it is *understood* that we are less our outward form and more 'spirit-souls'. If a man perishes physically, in this view, he is not really lost. So, Arjuna was counseled to see his opponents on the great battlefield of Kurukshetra as 'performers' in a certain sense. The notion is far-reaching but not unproblematic by any means. But at the core it does have to do with 'malefaction' since, at the core, Kurukshetra is a metaphor for the struggles in this life, and there are Values proposed that require defense. In the system established or visualized, there exists righteousness and unrighteousness. It is part of a Natural Order and society, supposedly, must mirror this natural order. This idea runs through all systems of government invented so far to date. And it also runs through all of our ideas about righteousness, justice, social organization, family life, and almost everything else. So, by seeing the scope of the issue, the overall conversation takes place within a tangible and sensible territory.
I do think that in many cases it is appropriate to separate people from society because of the danger they pose to it, but I don't think that this should be about "punishment", it should be about safety, and they should be given opportunities to live fulfilling lives as much as possible, and, hopefully, if possible, be rehabilitated so that they might return to society.
I suggest this is evidence, outright, of a kind of 'self-conning'. I might suggest, without being totally certain, that there are some people who simply do not desire to behave, nor to 'be good', and that it is a con-trip to project onto them some notion of 'fulfillment' as a goal of their living. I am speaking here of the really bad ones. The ones that cross lines and can never, ever be trusted again, even by their own admission. I also have a very strong feeling that by choosing not to understand punishment quite precisely as what it in fact is, that one is running another con-trip, on oneself first off, and then on others. I mean you no personal offense in saying this I hope you understand. The idea is common and in this sense not yours. It is almost absurd that 'punishment', which is applied harm and even torture, is transformed into
rehabilitation vacation. I certainly would not say that it is not possible for a man, after committing crimes, is not capable of conversion or of realization. But when that happens, how does it happen? Usually, it is by coming to understand a 'higher metaphysic' that negates the specificity of selfish action and privileges a more abstract view. But if that shift is not forthcoming, what then? Your African story is valid but only insofar as the 'crimes' are likely extremely petty. Yet it doesn't surprise me that, with near complete lack of experience in the 'real world', that you would imagine that such methods would work. It is a self-established con-trip (I suggest) so to not to have to look at and actually see 'reality' here as it is. Yes, there is a cure: contact with that reality.
This is a common theme with you, though, with your affinity for "Trickster". So, I guess you see what I value as puritanical and naive, and I see what you value as ... I don't know, perhaps "devious and perverse". Why ought we not to strive for openness, directness, transparency and integrity in our dealings with others?
I am fairly certain that you don't understand the implications of my notions about man, about 'reality', about realism, certainly about 'God' and spirituality, not theology nor dogmatics. In the most basic terms I propose that we cannot divide God away from the world. For example as you do. You propose an absolutely good God, unstained in any sense by real contact with the world. And you naturally have to explain all the terrible contradictions of life through a 'divisive' man oeuvre in which all that you understand as Evil is focussed toward an opposite pole. And you are there, in the middle. There is more that could be said but who desires to be picked apart on an Internet forum? [Only Gustav, the truly heroic one, summits himself to it---invites it!] I understand this as a possibility.
I understand that it is done (dividing), but I question it. Now, 'trickster' is not my invention. Trickster is actually an idea that has pretty profound metaphysical roots. You might interpret that idea superficially to mean 'deviousness' or 'perversion' but this is not exactly how I mean it. We need in some sense a revision of 'God' in order to have an effective way of acting in this world. It is a quite literal fact that Jesus Christ does not have a male member. This is not a joke. It is not a jab at Christians or Christianity. There is a deep meaning here, really. Put it this way: I do not trust a God who has no penis. I do not trust a man who honors a God with no penis. And I don't trust a man who does not himself have a 'penis' and all this connotes. If a man is not really and fundamentally connected to his world, and if he is in denial of what exactly connects him, how can he realistically make proposals about how we should live? That man cannot know! The men who know are those men who exist and live and build in the real world. The sexual aspect is
not symbolic. Sex, power, property, definition of values, structure, organization, use of force, punishment, all these things, are the real things of this world.
How weak of us it would be to follow in the paths of the *least* honourable, to debase ourselves to the level of the lowest common denominator. That, really, is how I view your "realism": as a succumbing.
More con-artistry. But I really don't wish to 'offend' you, personally. In my view you would have to *earn* your idealism by actually having a tangible relationship with the 'real world'. I know (I sense) that you speak from impractical, unpracticed perspectives. For you it seems to be mostly theoretical. It is in this sense that I speak, so brutally and directly, about running con-trips on ourselves. Fooling ourselves and fooling others. In no sense does it negate the possibility of being good or doing good, or being noble or generous or committed to value. I suppose it is more to organizing such things within 'realistic perspectives'.