Re: a defense of drag show/drag queens..
Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2023 7:58 am
I wanted nothing more than to hear what you actually thought were the valid concerns of accepting homosexuality! I certainly wasn't deliberately dishonest in any of my interpretations of what you said. If I got it wrong, well, that's what happens when you make "substantial allusions" to what your concerns are, instead of just saying your concerns.Alexis Jacobi wrote: ↑Wed Mar 29, 2023 12:14 am
Surely you are not off-base when you describe the base from which you operate. Dishonest? No, that’s not the right term. Your position is far more closed than you are aware of. I would not say you are dishonest but rather recalcitrant. You do not wish to hear (entertain) any ideas that seem unethically counter to those you’re invested in.
My view is that when people operate in closed mental spaces there is no way they will hear what another is actually saying. Is it dishonest to twist statements others make and essentially to rewrite them? I prefer the term underhanded.
When you call for declarations of “explicit positions” what you seem to ask for is for such statements as you make when you reformulate what I have said into what wish me to have said. I have a range of ideas that I entertain and work with intellectually. But I do not have a social program to be installed.
Most of “you” however (an unfortunate generalization) are activists more than philosophers.
I can point to quotes of yours to justify my interpretations. Reasonable people who aren't you could read my interpretations, and read your quotes, and say "yeah I can see why you thought that's what he's saying".
Again, you're spending more time complaining about the mistreatment of your ideas instead of clarifying your ideas. If you aren't concerned about lowering birth rates, and you aren't concerned about less committed heterosexual relationships, you know you could just be clarifying what you ARE concerned with.
But if it's more important to you to be a victim than to be specific, I can see why you're focusing on the things you are