Re: What are the Benefits of Theism?
Posted: Sat Feb 06, 2021 1:53 pm
I didn't bring him up. I brought your post up.tillingborn wrote: ↑Sat Feb 06, 2021 1:49 pm It was you that brought him up. It is true that he believes some things that I strongly disagree with and that I have tried to change. The irony is that since I am convinced that people hold beliefs for aesthetic reasons, according to my own belief i am wasting my time. We can discuss what that says about my ego, if you wish, but it will be difficult for you to crush my ego, not because I am particularly resilient, but I simply don't care enough what you think.
Your post just happened to mention him.
If you require some editorial help to get the point, then I shall oblige...
I don't particularly give a shit if you care about what I think - In fact, I hope you don't. Least of all because I am a dick.tillingborn wrote: ↑Thu Feb 04, 2021 12:02 pm This is called gaslighting. I'm sure everyone knows someone who cannot admit that they are wrong. The most common reason for this is low self esteem, which creates a moral dilemma: should we laugh or feel pity? I suppose the answer depends on our own self esteem. The really funny/tragic cases are so terrified of admitting their weaknesses or mistakes that they will question the perception and memory of the people who challenge them. In conversation this can lead to confusion, self-doubt and anger for the victim. When the discourse is written down, it is a simple matter of going back and checking.
But I do hope that you care enough to not lie to yourself about yourself when you hold others to account to the very standards you can't live up to.