godelian wrote: ↑Fri Jul 01, 2022 6:52 am
Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Fri Jul 01, 2022 3:13 am
forced "marriages,"
Arranged marriages are the norm in Asia. They are rarely "forced".
In the days when this is being written, do you REALLY BELIEVE that 'arranged marriages' is the so-called 'norm' throughout ALL of "asia"?
For example, if 'you' are married, was 'you' and 'your partner's' marriage arranged?
And, either way, how many "other" marriages, in say the current period, do you know of, were arranged compared to were NOT arranged?
godelian wrote: ↑Fri Jul 01, 2022 6:52 am
If the family has found a good husband for their daughter, she should be grateful to her family for taking care of her interests. The ingratitude of women is often astonishing:
“I was shown hell. I saw that most of its inhabitants were ungrateful women… The Prophet was asked: ‘Were they ungrateful to Allāh?’ He replied: ‘They were ungrateful to their husbands and for the favors and the good done to them. If you show benevolence to one of them and then she sees something in you not to her liking, she will say: ‘I have never seen any good in you.’”
It is not a surprise that these women are ungrateful to their husbands. Before that, they were already ungrateful to their own families!
To me, this just speaks of what is known as, 'black or white thinking'. That is; instead of LOOKING AT and SPEAKING thee ACTUAL Truth of things, adults, some of the time or generally, will USE obviously extreme and thus ABSURD terms like; "you NEVER do ANY good", sometimes just on the bases of SEEING some thing once, ALONE.
Now, that it was a 'male' MAKING OUT that 'females' do this, is just a SIGN of time. Which was most likely BECAUSE it was 'men' who used to usually write the books, back in those times, and it was 'men' who thought "themselves" SUPERIOR to 'females'. Which, REALLY, NOT much HAD CHANGED, back in the days when this was being written.
As can be CLEARLY SEEN here within the writings, within this thread, and by what this thread is ACTUALLY about. Which is just more or less 'males' STILL thinking and/or BELIEVING that they had the 'right' to TELL 'females' what they could or could NOT do with 'their' bodies, and thinking or BELIEVING that 'they' (the males" STILL had the 'right' to ENFORCE their VIEWS and BELIEFS onto "others", and to ENFORCE the 'rules' that they ACTUALLY made up.
godelian wrote: ↑Fri Jul 01, 2022 6:52 am
In the West, the daughter choosing by herself, without family supervision, has turned out to be a complete disaster.
Here is ANOTHER of what is sometimes referred to and called 'black or white thinking'.
Are you SURE that this 'female' CHOOSING the 'partner' that she WANTS for, and by, herself is a COMPLETE disaster?
1. Does this COMPLETE disaster apply to EVERY female? And,
2. Does this COMPLETE disaster apply to the WHOLE of human existence, forever more?
godelian wrote: ↑Fri Jul 01, 2022 6:52 am
It degenerates into a situation where girls run up a triple-digit body count by having sex with bad boys and other Chads.
WHY EXACT REASON does the number of sexual partners a MALE or FEMALE have, MATTER TO, or even CONCERN, you?
godelian wrote: ↑Fri Jul 01, 2022 6:52 am
Is the hookup culture really a viable alternative to arranged marriage?
Is it an alternative?
What is the word 'viable' here in relation to, EXACTLY?
godelian wrote: ↑Fri Jul 01, 2022 6:52 am
With all these modern women complaining on Tiktok that they got pumped, dumped, and ghosted by the next guy on the joystick carousel, what do you propose instead of arranged marriage?
Guiding children BETTER than what 'you', adult human beings, HAVE BEEN DOING.
And, REMEMBER 'actions, or behaviors, speak LOUDER than words'.
godelian wrote: ↑Fri Jul 01, 2022 6:52 am
Furthermore, women complaining about customs, tradition, and religion are also not particularly smart.
LOL
Some of the 'comments' that come out the mouths of 'males' REALLY DO make one LAUGH. Especially when those 'comments' are in relation to 'females'.
It could also be SAID and ARGUED that 'complaining males' are NOT 'particularly smart' AT ALL, either.
And, what can be CLEARLY SEEN in this thread, and forum, is a LOT of COMPLAINING from BOTH the 'females' and the 'males', EQUALLY.
'you', adult human beings, REALLY are some 'thing' to OBSERVE, and BEHOLD.
godelian wrote: ↑Fri Jul 01, 2022 6:52 am
At best, it will cause them to lose the benefits they get from that, without gaining anything in exchange.
ONCE AGAIN, as can be CLEARLY SEEN and PROVEN, AGAIN, 'money' and/or 'monetary goods' were FAR MORE IMPORTANT that absolutely ANY 'thing', back in those OLDEN DAYS when this was being written. In fact, 'money' and/or 'monetary goods' WAS MORE IMPORTANT than just FINDING the 'right' one, and settleing down and CREATING a Truly LOVING and CARING family, in PEACE and in Harmony.
godelian wrote: ↑Fri Jul 01, 2022 6:52 am
Modern women must fend for themselves because men are sick and tired of them. This was to be expected, because their own families were already sick and tired of them.
Did I mention above the Truly STUPID and ABSURD 'comments' some people REALLY made, back in those days when this was being written?
If I did NOT, then here is ANOTHER GREAT EXAMPLE of one of those MANY Truly ABSURD and STUPID comments.
godelian wrote: ↑Fri Jul 01, 2022 6:52 am
So, yes, I believe in the increasingly popular mantra: "Islam is correct about women".
What does "islam" SAY about 'women', EXACTLY?
AND, WHO is the ONE who SPEAKS for "islam"?