popeye1945 wrote: ↑Mon Sep 29, 2025 9:09 am
Eodnhoj7 wrote: ↑Sat Sep 27, 2025 2:57 am
popeye1945 wrote: ↑Sun Sep 21, 2025 1:35 am
Men are naturally whores to the pleasing of women, and indeed, today it is politically incorrect not to please them. The illegal immigrants voting, it does happen, but stating the question as if it's a reasonable question is a sign of intellectual decay. Perhaps I, as a Canadian, should be able to vote in American elections; you do see the absurdity of it all. There is a generational lag in a human systematic process where it is not easy to see how what is today came about, and think tanks with an agenda count upon it. In the media, however, if you pay attention to the absurd questions posed as something reasonable to ask, it is just frightening; the DUH factor owns us. My generation played a huge part in fucking things up with the destruction of traditional values, with no understanding of what to replace them with; it just grew from there, and it seems there is no way home.
This has been long in the making, this feminization of the West; much of the world is in tears of laughter, saying What, do you identify as? There is an awakening in the male population today in realizing that with today's values and slanted laws, for men, marriage is a losing proposition, and it is more than probable that if you stick to the script in your later years, you will end up living in a one-bedroom apartment. She has the house and the kids for her comfort. All she has to say after years of building a life together is that she is unhappy, she's outgrown you, she needs to find herself, and you, my friend, are totally screwed over from every which way the wind blows. The laws support this. You see a little more in the way of discussions about males needing an entirely different mental framework in dealing with this new reality, still politically incorrect, but men are starting to wise up. What the future holds, I don't know, but males need much more foresight than they used to. Males need to give up the romantic programming first and foremost; it is all very practical indeed!
You nailed it...it is politically incorrect not to please women.
The other points are correct...but how you worded the first portion I have never heard in that way before. 100% True.
Women will accuse men of misogyny if a man does not go out of his way to please their every little whim.
I am surprised there is not much more material on this site about the alienation of males and being turned off chasing women. They see what has happened to older men. The odds of a relationship working out are really poor, even if it does for a few years. A great many young guys now feel the deck is stacked against them. The West in general has turned into an irrational shit hole, and much of the world is laughing at us.
Political correctness....as you said very accurately. Part of being political correct is a tribal mentality, to be politically correct is to fit in. People fear exclusion from the tribe due to needs for safety, security and identity at the expense of awareness not knowing that if they just "sucked up" the inconvenience of being true, for a short time, they would be more at peace.
My experience of relationships withwomen, and I mean the full spectrum of relationships being friends/family/romance/sexual, was at best case it is like taking care of a child, always having to entertain/stimulate/provide a mask of security/confidence/humor for them, worst case it was perpetual drama, negativity and feeling drained.
Generally women are just not supportive, nurturing nor responsible for themselves or the other in a relationship. As a man you do not even know if you are going to have the security that if you lay it all on the line for your family if you are even going to keep them due to potential divorce when she either remeets an ex on social media or just gets inevitably bored.
And then they wonder why men leave or cheat.
Now I am assuming someone is going to give "hate" for what I said...but the truth is I don't care. Been through the fire and I am not afraid of it...at all.
I council young men all the time to go out and date, with the intention of finding a life long parter/spouse, but to do so with the awareness of how the current chips are stacked and that while it is possible they may find a good women the odds are extremely low and it will probably not happen...but to try anyhow. Worst case scenario they are content with being single because "they put it out there" and know what it is like from experience.
The truth is, as a man, we are always labeled the bad guys unless we please women continually. Any form of masculinity is labeled toxic. So with the continual punishment, over absolutely nothing but ideals, why should we care?