Iwannaplato wrote: ↑Fri Jun 16, 2023 3:03 pm
Well, you are now psychoanalyzing (in the everyday sense) someone you think is attracted to controversy. It seems your moth is drawn also. So, you could just ask yourself - what drew you to poke someone you see as liking conflict?
Psychoanalyzing is I think inevitable. Not only towards our own selves but certainly in relation to the topics we are discussing. The issue revolves around how it is done. Fairly or unfairly are the terms I use.
I feel genuinely and also honestly forced to examine Harbal and his thoughts predicates and conclusions if only because I take the issue of what has happened in our civilization seriously. I try to illustrate a larger issue by reference to a smaller manifestation of it. Can you honestly say that the effort, if carried out carefully and with the caveat I always toss in, is not fair? And is it not useful as well? If we ourselves are not the subject of our inquiries, what really are we doing here?
Having participated in forums like this for many years I am definitely aware of the attraction to controversy. And there is no doubt that I find these conversations extremely useful. But not quite because I need or seek conflict in order to get from it some *energy*. (Like a vampire needs life-blood to stay alive -- or maintain himself in a half-dead state eternally).
Is it an invalid proposition that some people (on these forums) get locked, permanently, into a polemical activity? Is it an invalid observation that people are attracted to the conflict for, perhaps, ulterior reasons? Why would it be wrong to take a stab at saying something about this? Is it
offensive?
My moth is definitely drawn many of the controversies that operate so powerfully in ourselves and in our present. And sure, I use them. But there are different implications in the word *use*. I made a statement in which I question Harbal's
relationship to the controversies we discuss here. He has stated many times he has
no interest at all in the essence of the questions! And yet he chatters on about them. It seems to me that someone with his orientation would move on to issues that actually concern him -- in some genuine sense.
So, why the attraction to these issues? Is the question a bad one?
I do not wish to haggle personally with him or anyone. The topic can be discussed
dispassionately.
what drew you to poke someone you see as liking conflict?
I have explained this many different times. I regard Harbal as 'emblematic' of what has happened to, and been done to, men of our modernity. And I do include myself (as I have also said a dozen times). We confront a significant problem, I think, when we confront
our own ignorance and indifference!