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Alexis Jacobi wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 10:25 pm My point was that they define *individual liberty* and *individual rights* through a different lens.

What I said was: "It is quite possible to define, coherently, quite the opposite as a decent and proper social and political attitude."

And I believe it true.
Yes, sure, you believe that to be true, and you don't introduce 'individual liberty' into that sentence :thumbs up:

Once you introduce individual liberty, it becomes nonsensical. It's nonsensical to believe in individual liberty, and tell grown adults that they can't love other grown adults. If you believe in individual liberty, then people loving who they love should matter as much to you as people liking ice cream flavours you don't like.
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Flannel Jesus wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 10:25 pm
Alexis Jacobi wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 10:19 pm The ethical and moral position that I would favor is that all young people should desire to...
Is that really an ethical and moral position? Should desire? Ethical and moral positions are normally about what people should DO, not what they desire. Who cares what someone desires?

It's immoral to murder for example. It's not my moral position that people shouldn't DESIRE to murder, it's that people shouldn't murder. I don't give a fuck what they desire. If they desire to murder, but don't, they're moral. If they don't desire to murder, but do, that's immoral. Desires are really beside the point.

What kinda ethics is this? Some kind of thought police shit? Telling people not only what to do, but also what to want?
Let's say that for the sake of conversation I am proposing a certain sort of society, with certain values and ideals. Ethics amd morals, and mores, arise out of established social values: what seems right, what feels right.

So no, I am not talking about *coercion* -- obviously that cannot work. But commitment to values can be renewed. How? Well, that is an interesting question and one worthy of examination. Since it did take place in my own life I think I can say something about it.
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Flannel Jesus wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 10:26 pm
Alexis Jacobi wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 10:25 pm My point was that they define *individual liberty* and *individual rights* through a different lens.

What I said was: "It is quite possible to define, coherently, quite the opposite as a decent and proper social and political attitude."

And I believe it true.
Yes, sure, you believe that to be true, and you don't introduce 'individual liberty' into that sentence :thumbs up:

Once you introduce individual liberty, it becomes nonsensical. It's nonsensical to believe in individual liberty, and tell grown adults that they can't love other grown adults. If you believe in individual liberty, then people loving who they love should matter as much to you as people liking ice cream flavours you don't like.
My view is that *individual liberty* is not and cannot really be a value-in-itself. When it becomes detached from social commitment, a sense of duty or obligation, it veers away from what I understand to be *sound bases* and careens into carelessness and irresponsibility.

If I am talking about anything I am talking about a redefinition of values. Similar to what Wizard had said about something needed to *right the boat*.
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Harbal wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 5:58 pmI've never heard of it, but I don't go looking for that sort of thing, like he does.
Flannel Jesus wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 5:59 pmGive him a bit of robitussin and send him off to bed. The ol' cutie's clearly very tired.
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Alexis Jacobi wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 7:12 pmThere are some indications, in some sectors of Europe (and to a lesser degree in America), of grassroots social movements that are more conservatively-geared and with some interest in traditional values. But the opposition has the far greater power and control in these areas.

The religion that you propose -- this is my opinion -- would in the West have to be based in Platonic or Aristotelean ideas. These are quite sufficient to gain what I believe we visualize and idealize as important.

Unfortunately, it is The Drunken Multitude that would have a very hard time submitting to the rigor required. And the present power-structures are, I believe, confident in their ability to coerce and seduce that multitude. In some senses that is the story of Modern Liberalism in the post-war period.

This might interest you.
I'll give this a listen.

The way I see it, we are repeating the decline of the Roman Empire. The same homosexual, transexual, "free sex" liberalism took over the Roman Republic. So consider the rise of Catholicism and Christianity then. Why and how did that happen? Similar to today, there is no outlet for the Conservative-Right. There is no Traditionalism, no protection of European families and kin. So the original 'Church' rose, to meet this need and demand. Catholicism originally gave Romans an outlet for a few things: Marriage, Family, Kinship, and also, Social and Political opportunity. It was a means for the middle class and aristocracy to 'purify' themselves apart from the unclean and unwashed masses, steeped in moral filth, that plagues the West today. The Church was intended to protect their own, and purge its Evil/Sin. This includes, expulsing and shunning homosexuals.

Because the Catholic Church protected its adherents, from social and political, liberal-leftist backlash and attacks, the Church became more powerful, more attractive to the masses. Christianity, likewise, spread. Because the Roman people developed avenues by which they could practice their Conservative and Traditional values, in peace, in relative seclusion, away from these Degenerate masses.

A New Era of Moral Virtue, of Dignity

"A proud Republic of virtuous women and honest men"

Exactly what the West needs... a new Morality.


Mormonism and the Mormons, in the Western US, is the more practical example of this Conservative 'protectionism' in the Americas. Latin Americas are still, somewhat, Catholic, despite the general Liberalization of the Catholic Church in modern times.
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Alexis Jacobi wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 10:28 pm Let's say that for the sake of conversation I am proposing a certain sort of society, with certain values and ideals. Ethics amd morals, and mores, arise out of established social values: what seems right, what feels right.

So no, I am not talking about *coercion* -- obviously that cannot work. But commitment to values can be renewed. How? Well, that is an interesting question and one worthy of examination. Since it did take place in my own life I think I can say something about it.
"I imagine a world where people all desire the things I want them to desire"

Fantastic, you've invented a utopia in your head. That's not philosophy, that's just day dreaming. A world where everyone wants the exact things we want isn't in the realm of possibility.

A world where governments enact laws we like is far more possible, far less of a fantasy.

So tell us less about your imagined impossible fantasies and more about what laws you propose, and why those laws are good.
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Wizard22 wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 10:33 pm
Harbal wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 5:58 pmI've never heard of it, but I don't go looking for that sort of thing, like he does.
Flannel Jesus wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 5:59 pmGive him a bit of robitussin and send him off to bed. The ol' cutie's clearly very tired.
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Cute photo of you and your friends grandpa. Did you have a nice nap?
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Flannel Jesus wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 10:46 pmCute photo of you and your friends grandpa. Did you have a nice nap?
What's 'cute' is how you, Hairball, and other liberals, selectively "forget" and ignore recent history, 10, 20, 30 years ago... or the 1950s.

You do realize, don't you, that they wouldn't tolerate any of this disgusting bullshit floating around today, right???

It was the Boomer generation that "tolerated" all this madness, causing it to spin out of control.


I can't imagine what my grandfather would think today...you know, one of the American soldiers who actually fought the Nazis and won?

Now, the ungrateful Jews, call us the Nazis. History is ironic like that. It doesn't take long for people to forget. Human memory is very short.
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Alexis Jacobi wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 10:14 pm
Alexiev wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 9:29 pmYour conservative values do not seem to favor the right to Freedom of Expression (a freedom that can be expressed in Gay Pride Parades). Anyone who believes in freedom of speech could not hold your position, even if he or she objected to homosexuality.
This is not quite right because I recognize that the values that I am talking about, and recommend, are not desired, not practiced, not taught, and are not part of social and cultural ethics and mores. So, I am speaking in terms of idealism. What I say is simple, and not very controversial: all people should frown upon homosexual unions and certain disfavor public expression of outrageous sexuality. If there are gays and if they do have unions, the social ethics should be that they keep it to themselves.

In some sense you are right: I do not see *freedom of expression* as being a value-in-itself. One has to have some basis and stance to have an idea, and then *freedom of expression* comes in as a value to support being able to express the idea you have. Does this make sense? I do not think that all *expressions*, simply because someone might wish to express them, should be validated by (sound) social mores. So the emphasis is on reinvigoration of the values that I privilege. But I well understand that most, today, have no interest at all in the values I have determined are important and require emphasis.

concerning sexual expression and sexual ethics did indeed take shape. As I said: the closest religious system to what I propose is expressed in Catholicism. Sane rules for the family. But with the family at the social and cultural center.

I well recognize that most do not share my views. However, I think they are coherent.

In my view it all hinges on education, and the articulation of values which are received and absorbed by youth. In our culture there has taken place a concerted *transvaluation of values* and now a great deal is extremely topsy-turvy.
When you recommend "banning" freedom of expression, you appear to lack confidence in your ability to rationally defend your positions. If homosexuality is wicked, make your case (instead of banning Gay Pride, which is simply obnoxious and autocratic).

The Roman Catholic Church (which you admire) has a long history of banning books. The vast majority of banned books are not pornographic. Instead, they are "heretical" or criticized the Church. The illumination of rational discourse should be sufficient to make your case; banning is a form of intellectual cowardice.

Of course since as you state yours are minority positions, if you favor banning some speech, yours will probably be the first to go. Perhaps that would be a good thing, but I will continue to support your right to speak, even when that right allows you to argue against the same right for others.
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Flannel Jesus wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 10:45 pm Fantastic, you've invented a utopia in your head. That's not philosophy, that's just day dreaming.
I’m offering an opinion. Essentially it that *homosexuality should be discouraged, not encouraged*. The ideas that stand behind this statement are indeed philosophical though perhaps you don’t like them. But it has zero to do with invention of utopias.

There exists a possibility to influence people to think differently (for example about questions of sexual morality) and that is done through presenting arguments, encouraging conversation.
A world where everyone wants the exact things we want isn't in the realm of possibility.
Certainly that is true. However there are now movements, however small, in various countries where people advocate for their values. And they present arguments with considerable coherent reasoning.

That is what interests me.
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Alexiev wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 11:01 pmWhen you recommend "banning" freedom of expression, you appear to lack confidence in your ability to rationally defend your positions. If homosexuality is wicked, make your case (instead of banning Gay Pride, which is simply obnoxious and autocratic).
It is certainly not within my power to ban gay pride parades. However, it is within a society's power to determine what sort of public displays they will allow and disallow. What I am talking about is how social mores change, and are changed. They can go in one direction certainly (social condoning) but they can also go in the other. It depends on what people value and what they want to stand for.

I did not make any statement that homosexuality is wicked. What I do say is that it (and other sexual deviancies) should be suppressed. Not condoned. Not advertised. And in our culture today -- definitely in the English speaking world -- they are advocated for.

My view is that all people, whether homosexual or heterosexual, should elevate and value the heterosexual union and the family. That should have the top value-slot. And I assure you that the reason I would advocate for this are sound indeed.
The Roman Catholic Church (which you admire) has a long history of banning books. The vast majority of banned books are not pornographic. Instead, they are "heretical" or criticized the Church. The illumination of rational discourse should be sufficient to make your case; banning is a form of intellectual cowardice.
I admire some aspects and parts of Catholic social doctrine. The Catholic Church does indeed recommend that certain books be read, and it does recommend that other books *dangerous to the faith* be excluded. And though I read all sort of material, and material that is illicit by the Church's standards (which I do not pay attention to), it is the concept behind the admonition that still interests me. And that concept is that *a person must be careful about what they expose themselves to*. It is not a Catholic idea but a Platonic idea -- and it is sound. And they reasons why it is sound can certainly be expressed philosophically and rationally.

Banning gay pride parades could only occur in a society that grows tired, and intolerant of, excessive productions that cross proper bounds. They could only arrive at that decisiveness if they had been moved by ideas.
Of course since as you state yours are minority positions, if you favor banning some speech, yours will probably be the first to go. Perhaps that would be a good thing, but I will continue to support your right to speak, even when that right allows you to argue against the same right for others.
I draw distinctions between upstanding rights to freedom and expression, which are condoned by upright social consensus, and expression which violate reasonable or proper bounds. As an example, a gay pride parade that is explicitly pornographic, in my view, crosses a proper line.

When I say "Gay pride marches should be banned" I use that as a starting point to talk about sexual issues, sexual explicitness, proper limits, improper limits, etc. But to ban gay pride marches, today, could only occur in a society of people, a majority, who felt it best to make that choice.

I am aware that we live now in a culture (at least in America but this is not so in Europe) where one can say anything, express anything, and one is protected in doing so (or so they say). My Liberalism is of a different, and a more restrained sort. I do not think that all speech (expression) is necessarily legitimate. However, I am aware of the *slippery slope*. There are definite problems to prohibiting certain expressions.
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Wizard22 wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 11:00 pm Now, the ungrateful Jews, call us the Nazis.
Wizzo is certainly not frightened of looking and sounding like a Nazi. His main defence against the charge? His grandfather fought against Nazi Germany. Do you think he knows that doesn’t provide him with any cover? Of course he does! Do you think he cares? Of course he doesn’t!

I’m fairly sure Wizzo is a Nazi.
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Alexis Jacobi wrote: Thu Feb 15, 2024 12:20 am
It is certainly not within my power to ban gay pride parades. However, it is within a society's power to determine what sort of public displays they will allow and disallow. What I am talking about is how social mores change, and are changed. They can go in one direction certainly (social condoning) but they can also go in the other. It depends on what people value and what they want to stand for.

I did not make any statement that homosexuality is wicked. What I do say is that it (and other sexual deviancies) should be suppressed. Not condoned. Not advertised. And in our culture today -- definitely in the English speaking world -- they are advocated for.

My view is that all people, whether homosexual or heterosexual, should elevate and value the heterosexual union and the family. That should have the top value-slot. And I assure you that the reason I would advocate for this are sound indeed.

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You are entitled to your opinion, but It is not a charitable one. Does valuing the heterosexual union and the family necessarily involve devaluing homosexual families? My own son was born out of wedlock. Thank goodness that no longer resulted in him being stigmatized or disrespected. What do you propose gay people do? Abstain from sex? Slink back into the closet? Whatever you may think about the value of nuclear families, you should also consider the well-being of individuals who don't fit the mode. Don't you think gay people are happier when they're proud of who they are? Why do they trouble you?


I admire some aspects and parts of Catholic social doctrine. The Catholic Church does indeed recommend that certain books be read, and it does recommend that other books *dangerous to the faith* be excluded. And though I read all sort of material, and material that is illicit by the Church's standards (which I do not pay attention to), it is the concept behind the admonition that still interests me. And that concept is that *a person must be careful about what they expose themselves to*. It is not a Catholic idea but a Platonic idea -- and it is sound. And they reasons why it is sound can certainly be expressed philosophically and rationally.

Banning gay pride parades could only occur in a society that grows tired, and intolerant of, excessive productions that cross proper bounds. They could only arrive at that decisiveness if they had been moved by ideas.
What "proper bounds" do such parades cross? Whom do they hurt? Was society really bettr off sending Alan Turing to prison?

I draw distinctions between upstanding rights to freedom and expression, which are condoned by upright social consensus, and expression which violate reasonable or proper bounds. As an example, a gay pride parade that is explicitly pornographic, in my view, crosses a proper line.

When I say "Gay pride marches should be banned" I use that as a starting point to talk about sexual issues, sexual explicitness, proper limits, improper limits, etc. But to ban gay pride marches, today, could only occur in a society of people, a majority, who felt it best to make that choice.

I am aware that we live now in a culture (at least in America but this is not so in Europe) where one can say anything, express anything, and one is protected in doing so (or so they say). My Liberalism is of a different, and a more restrained sort. I do not think that all speech (expression) is necessarily legitimate. However, I am aware of the *slippery slope*. There are definite problems to prohibiting certain expressions.
I'm sure the gay pride marchers draw a distinction between "upstanding rights to freedom of expression...." The difference is that they think their expression of joy and pride IS upstanding. The notion that you should get to decide for everyone is egomaniacal and obnoxious. So is the notion of banning controversial expressions of joy, pride, and political purpose.
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Alexis Jacobi wrote: Wed Feb 14, 2024 11:56 pm Certainly that is true. However there are now movements, however small, in various countries where people advocate for their values. And they present arguments with considerable coherent reasoning.

That is what interests me.
so instead of fantasizing about impossible things, why dont you do that?
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mickthinks wrote: Thu Feb 15, 2024 1:10 amWizzo is certainly not frightened of looking and sounding like a Nazi. His main defence against the charge? His grandfather fought against Nazi Germany. Do you think he knows that doesn’t provide him with any cover? Of course he does! Do you think he cares? Of course he doesn’t!

I’m fairly sure Wizzo is a Nazi.
No, my grandfather defeated the Nazis and saved the ungrateful Jews, who don't take long to Betray and commit Treason against those who saved them. That's the extent of their, and your, "loyalty". It only lasts a generation or two, before they and you fall back into your nasty habits. Furthermore, I'm sure your coward grandparents were hiding in their basements in WWII, you stupid mick.

Isn't it amazing how short humanity's memory is, concerning history? Only two or three generations, and those who saved the Jews from Auschwitz are "NAZIIIIIIS!!!"

No, fuck you, traitor.
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