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Kayla wrote:it would be the same as having a friend of the same gender

Men rarely seem to be friends with women they don't fancy.They can only be friends if the guy is a faggot like 'ForgedinHell' or he doesn't find the female attractive. Otherwise. He's only your friend in the hopes that it will eventually "pay off."
I don't see the point being friends with a woman if i ain't getting serviced once a while.

johngalthasspoken wrote:

Kayla wrote:it would be the same as having a friend of the same gender

Men rarely seem to be friends with women they don't fancy.They can only be friends if the guy is a faggot like 'ForgedinHell' or he doesn't find the female attractive. Otherwise. He's only your friend in the hopes that it will eventually "pay off."
I don't see the point being friends with a woman if i ain't getting serviced once a while.

I can't imagine anyone wanting to be your friend.

vegetariantaxidermy wrote:I can't imagine anyone wanting to be your friend.

Right, that's why i choose not to have females as friends,i just use them for sex.pump & dump

vegetariantaxidermy wrote:Are you sure it's not the other way around fuckwit?

wow,colorful vocabulary ,do you kiss your mother with that mouth ?

i don't have time to engage in pointless flame wars. ta ta

johngalt is obviously an idiot

nevertheless in his inarticulate beavis and butthead sort of way to does bring up an interesting topic - men and women being friends

obviously men and women can be friends there is no need to debate that

but in what way if any are such friendships different why are they different should they be different

those are interesting topics

i am friends with a man in his 50s and the fact that he is a man has a major effect on this friendship

if it were with a woman there would be no issues some people might think it slightly odd that i choose to sometimes hangout with someone that much out of my peer group but that would be it

he is married his wife told me she is glad he has someone to talk to about philosophy - he studied it in university until life happened and he had to take over the business for his father and so forth

but there is an unspoken understanding that i should never visit him when he is in the house by himself

his wife is very nice but when i am talking to him she will check in on us from time to time when we are talking

why is it like that

is there a rational reason for it to be like that

should it be like that

note he has never done or shown interesting in doing anything even remotely inappropriate

Kayla wrote:i am friends with a man in his 50s

Kayla wrote:his wife is very nice but when i am talking to him she will check in on us from time to time when we are talking
note he has never done or shown interesting in doing anything even remotely inappropriate

how does your Negro lover feel about you having a sugar daddy ?

Seriously, men have more important things to do than befriending a female who's unlikely to put out for him.guys generally only befriend girls they find fuckable..although it's possible to have a non-sexual relationship if the broad is ugly as fuck.

Kayla wrote:johngalt is obviously an idiot

nevertheless in his inarticulate beavis and butthead sort of way to does bring up an interesting topic - men and women being friends

obviously men and women can be friends there is no need to debate that

but in what way if any are such friendships different why are they different should they be different

those are interesting topics

i am friends with a man in his 50s and the fact that he is a man has a major effect on this friendship

if it were with a woman there would be no issues some people might think it slightly odd that i choose to sometimes hangout with someone that much out of my peer group but that would be it

he is married his wife told me she is glad he has someone to talk to about philosophy - he studied it in university until life happened and he had to take over the business for his father and so forth

but there is an unspoken understanding that i should never visit him when he is in the house by himself

his wife is very nice but when i am talking to him she will check in on us from time to time when we are talking

why is it like that

is there a rational reason for it to be like that

should it be like that

note he has never done or shown interesting in doing anything even remotely inappropriate

I also agree that men and women can be friends but perhaps through my naivety and confidence in my own self image I unknowingly fall into the ugly category .

I can understand the wife checking in on 'her man'. She could just feel insecure or have reason to be suspicious because of his, or her, previous known or imagined behaviour. Your acceptance of her behaviour and not visiting him when he is home alone should demonstrate to her that you are not a threat to her marriage so your friendship can happily continue. It is something you don't have to do but it is nice that you are.

I know a husband who was content for many years to allow his male friend to accompany his wife to events he didn't want to go to. The male friend had always held a torch for the wife but enjoyed spending time with her, making her happy by sharing her interests. Then suddenly it all stopped and he was persona non grata. I do not believe that he was guilty of any impropriety, only a victim of issues in their marriage.

To Kayla

May be the woman feels alone and pops in just for an occasional re-socializing. That's typical for old people in my view ("do you want a cup of tea dear?", etc.). They find repeatedly excuses for entering the social sphere and then find excuses to excuse their entering and then leave. Her "checking" might as well be a way of saying "hey, here I am! I also exist!", or something similar.

Or you could of course just be misinterpreting. Why don't you ask the man out straight why it has to be like that? If it's too embarrassing or you "rude" (which it of course is not, it's a perfectly viable question) you might have made your own walk into the mud as apparently the situation cannot be practically solved from such a stance of opinion.

The Voice of Time wrote:To Kayla

May be the woman feels alone and pops in just for an occasional re-socializing. That's typical for old people in my view ("do you want a cup of tea dear?", etc.). They find repeatedly excuses for entering the social sphere and then find excuses to excuse their entering and then leave. Her "checking" might as well be a way of saying "hey, here I am! I also exist!", or something similar.

That's a fair point - but makes me feel so old, cackle cackle .

The Voice of Time wrote:Or you could of course just be misinterpreting. Why don't you ask the man out straight why it has to be like that?

i will pose it as an abstract philosophical question

To any interested, yes, I have begun a friendship with a woman. She's ugly, annoying, uninspiring, horrible personality, and I can hardly tolerate being around her. Did I mention she's ugly? I can foresee a very long, fruitful, and lasting friendship with this woman.

Men and ugly women can be friends. The answer is yes.

Kayla wrote:

The Voice of Time wrote:Or you could of course just be misinterpreting. Why don't you ask the man out straight why it has to be like that?

i will pose it as an abstract philosophical question

it should go something like this : "Mr (insert name),whenever you talk philosophy i become uneasy & get all tingly in my vagina.I always wet myself with the thought of you Sliding your fingers in and smelling my little underage pussy.and then licking all over my little girl body parts, then rubbing your big dick over my slit. I feel a trickle of my pussy sweat into the gusset of my panties. It's like I have peed myself. It's so warm and feels surprisingly comfortable and nice. I want to suck your cock so badly, but I know I need to wait for your orders. You want to make me your little girl slut, don’t you? Call and role-play with me and let me call you daddy, uncle or grandpa.."