Hi AS and duszek,
I think I should try to explain my perception in a nutshell. It is not much difficult to conceive, though it looks a bit like labyrinth in the starting.
Let us forget about the humans for a moment.
There are many spiritual or subtle realms inhabited in this universe. They can be categorized broadly in two groups; subtle and astral. In my opinion there is nothing in the names. We can name them as we want. There are further more stages or subgroups, but, I do not think that there is any need to go in detail of that.
They live their own life there, just as humans live here on the earth. They are not immortal but have a very long life. As I said earlier, they live, think, behave and do all those good and bad things, which we can do or imagine. They own friends, enemies, family, society and even leaders, rulers, kings, queens and all these kinds of stuff. Furthermore, they use to interact with each other and have relations also. They are very big and enumerable. I cannot say about their numbers.
They have a body and a mind as humans though their body is made of those elements or matters, which are present in their realm; and that is different and subtle than ours.
Even being superior to humans in many aspects, they have a drawback. Time runs very slowly there, hence, their life is very long but slow. So, it takes too much time to learn there.
Our inhabitance, the earth and the humans, solves this problem. They use to send their people from there, in the form of soul, to take birth here. The whole existence of them does not come here, but, they keep the main body there in safe and send the ‘mind’ and ‘essence’ here which is embedded with our human existence; since our birth till death. It learns here by living and witnessing human life 24/7 with us, and goes back to its original realm when human body dies. Then it once again enters the main body, which is preserved there and uses to live its regular life there. Now, the job is done; in much less time and more effectively.
Actually, the earth is like a boarding school for them. It is training and testing center for spiritual entities, nothing else. It is done by the circumstances. For this, a huge number of spiritual entities are permanently placed here on earth. This establishment creates circumstances and we call it destiny.
As you saw that little girl in your dream, you may call her your spiritual guide. She will take care of you through your whole life. She will guide you sometimes and misguide you as well. She is able to infuse different thoughts in your mind without your knowledge and you will mistake them as yours and act accordingly. She will do all this to serve the purpose of either training or testing, but, she is not your enemy. You may call her mentor.
Let me tell you that you are not one off case. This happens to almost all of us. Each and every one is taken care of by someone or sometimes by many, in some cases.
By calling soul as ‘she’, I am not mentioning the gender. To avoid confusion, we may call it as ‘it’. It does not make any difference. The soul of a human male will be male and the same is for the female.
When a soul comes here then it leaves behind its family there. In family, there may be wife, children, parents, friends etc. They come to visit souls here, because it belongs to them. It is just like that; parents use to visit sometimes their children, when they use to study in the boarding school away from parents.
It can see when we die, but, it is not a moment of fear for it. For it, it is like going home, but, only in that case, if it’s training and testing would be completed. Otherwise, it would has to incarnate again and this process will go on till, it would be able to learn completely, for what it was sent.
More often than not, the role of mentor is performed by spouses, with the help of already placed establishment here. If it is not a spouse, then it must be very close blood relative like sister, mother, brother or father. In your case, if you are a male, then that girl must be either your wife or going to be one. If you are a female, then she must be very close relative of your soul or, as an exception, may be very close friend.
She is not a soul of any other human, because she has to live with you always and it is not possible for any such soul, which is already attached with a different human body, though the souls of humans also interact with each other in dreams, but, it happens for some time only. She has to come regularly in your dreams for sure, but in disguise or different forms. So, you may not able to recognize her.
If you are a female, then it I possible that your soul may be a wife of male soul and the same is applicable for male soul. The spouse of your soul may be the soul of your human spouse or maybe not. It is possible either way. The marital status of your soul depends on its age, just like humans.
The word ‘eternal’ I used in the sense of having very long life cycle, but still, the souls are mortals like us.
As we all have a human identification like, voter card, pan card, driving license etc and the government keeps accounts of all its citizens. Suppose you want to go another country for some time, then you must have passport and visa for that country and you would have to show these documents there, as they identify you with those. The same is for the soul. It carries a passport and visa to live here on earth, as a human for some time. So, these are its spiritual identification; as they tell the original realm and purpose of the soul. All this ‘sealing’ of identification was shown to you in that particular dream.
When soul comes here and its schooling starts, each and every action of the incarnated soul, which reflects in the form of human deeds, is noted down. During schooling here, there are unit tests, semesters and final exams as well. All this record is maintained and updated regularly, so the status of the progress of the soul can be known at a first glance.
During human life, soul sometimes visits to its native realm and some other realms also during dreams accompanied by its mentor.
Saying beyond belief means that I experienced these things. What I am saying is not a new concept or innovation. I would like to call it some sort of ‘realization’. All this said in many different religious scriptures, but, in a different and complicated way. I am trying to narrate it simply, in the same way I experienced and conceived, thus, to be understood easily.
I am mentioning some of my posts below, if you are interested to read. Especially, look for the underlined ones as they are pertinent with our discussion.
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56-1 post, page 57-1 post
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page 6- 2 posts, page7-1post, page 9- 1post, page10- 1 post, page 11- 1 post, page 12- 3 posts, page 14- 3 posts, page 15- 1 post,
page 16- 5 posts ( especially, the last one)
viewtopic.php?f=11&t=8053
page 1- 2 posts, page 2- 2 posts
with love,
sanjay