Re: Disappointment
Posted: Tue Nov 12, 2024 1:28 am
Re- my jerkiness. I wasn't told specifically what I did to attract their ire - but I suspect it was probably because I can be overbearing and overly critical. If I could do it over, I would be more cautious in my responses. They do all have more experience than I do - and I was there to learn. It's kind of a shame, because they did appear to get along and wanted to help each other in their endeavors - unlike the other group I was also involved in.Age wrote: ↑Sun Nov 10, 2024 10:46 amI also find it very disappointing that the self-claimed "philosophers" cannot 'just argue', and 'logical reason' without debating 'fighting' over and/or for 'a position'.anonymous66 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2024 2:59 pm When I first started getting into philosophy, I had the idea that philosophers, because they focused on rational arguments, were somehow more than human - I thought they would be kind, thoughtful, not swayed by strong emotion.
But, having gotten to know a few philosophy professors, and meeting with professional philosophers (college professors in 2 well known colleges) in small groups (they allow non-professionals to sit in as well) - I saw that they were just as prone to nastiness and pettiness as the rest of us. And it was disappointing to see.
But, considering what they will, literally, lose if and when 'their position/belief' is 'not won' or cannot be 'won', then it is understandable that they resort to nastiness, pettiness, and the attacking of 'the person'. It is NEVER acceptable nor warranted, but it is totally understandable when their position/belief cannot be backed up, supported, verified, nor justified.Why were you a, supposed, "jerk"?anonymous66 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2024 2:59 pm One group was a lot more friendly than the other- so maybe I will keep trying. Unfortunately, in that group, I was the jerk - and they let me know they didn't appreciate my antics.
Because you were actually acting like a so-called "jerk", or, just because you had different views than they did? Or, was it for some other reason?There a plenty, and who are genuine "philosophers" as well.anonymous66 wrote: ↑Sat Nov 09, 2024 2:59 pm I'm making a list of living philosophers who seem to be decent people - who would make good role models. Peter Van Inwagen is one such person. Perhaps Stephen West of Philosophize This! Anyone else want to add to the list?