Dachshund
You are most welcome to take from me whatever, and as much of, what is worthwhile and good within me as you like. THIS is the act of offering love (caritas), it necessitates the annihilation of the ego,- the total surrender of the subjective "Self" and all of it pride, arrogance, vanity, greed, cupidity and will to power.
"Man would like to be an egoist and cannot. This is the most striking characteristic of his wretchedness and the source of his greatness." Simone Weil....Gravity and Grace
Why would you prefer to destroy the ego rather than heal it? The ego is what connects our inner world with the external world. If the human condition has warped it making it unnatural, why throw the baby out with the bath water? Why not heal the ego so it can serve the purpose it was created for?