Hjarloprillar wrote:Greylorn Ell wrote:
I've encountered myriad individuals who claim to have what we would probably both label, "a sense of their spiritual identity." Yet, their lives are typically fruitless, as they indulge the same emotions and focus upon similar personal comforts and easy survival as do "non-spiritual" people.
I propose that there is no point in identifying something, whether it be a spiritual identity or a new physics principle, unless one can put the identified thing into a wider context and actually do something with it.
Gl
Agree
Stand up for what you believe. Argue and argue well.
Act . though this is hardest and i will not say much more.. but act according to your beliefs.
through this regimen confidence is gained... use it.
Prill
Prill,
Thank you.
49 years ago I gave myself the same advice, and proceeded to follow it. Of course this was not easy, so I followed in fits and starts, with numerous behavioral corrections, nonetheless staying the general course of it. You are correct about actions. They are either the impediment or the stop.
The final results of this course of action are not yet in, and won't be until long after the fat lady sings, but you might be interested in the intermediate score. So far it looks like, Greylorn 3, Everyone_Else 7,000,000,000 (approximately). This score is based upon an estimated approval/agreement rating.
Were the score to be based upon a different standard, such as economic advantages, it would be more in my favor, because I live in a country where free enterprise and the ability to solve problems had once been valued, and I had the good sense to keep a day job.
I promise you that spending a half-century butting one's head against brick walls does not build confidence. It builds the callous of indifference, makes life difficult, relationships with women a waste of time, and congenial relationships with the kind of people who make lots of money, impossible. Success, satisfaction, and personal happiness are found only within one of the available mainstreams of human belief. Outside of the popular mainstreams, one best learn Plans B, C, D, etc. I'm personally fond of Plan 9 From Outer Space, a dumb but edgy use of limited resources and dubious talent.
My plans required writing off previous ideas and beliefs, discarding them all in the face of new evidence or better insights, then rebuilding.
None of this builds confidence. It can reinforce properties such as persistence and determination. Are these useful? All my childhood bullies were determined and persistent. So are criminals and thugs, communists and union leaders. All the really shitty presidents of the U.S., Lincoln, Wilson, the Roosevelts, Nixon, Carter, the Bushes, Clinton, and B.O. had or have these properties.
It seems to me that the ability to study a problem in depth and analyze the shit out of it until it is solved is a better ability than the confidence that once the problem has been solved, it can be successfully presented to the myriad of others who imagine, mistakenly, that they've done the same.
Gl