reasonvemotion wrote:VoT wrote:
No. It is not universal, I'm pretty certain without being 100% of course (not like I've studied it, but from what I know of the diversity of the world it seems highly biased to think so). Some people skip first phase and just go straight to the sex. It does, however, very strongly tendencate towards a symbol of love in the developed and civilized world.
I have heard it said, prostitutes will do anything, but not kiss.
Do they consider kissing a symbol of love?
I am asking you VoT as I recall you said you had sex with a prostitue when you were in France.
The prostitute kissed me after she had paralyzed me with the most powerful orgasm I've ever had and the only one involving a physical other person. Please remember that she offered herself free of charge, or rather, she
insisted, which is something of weirdest thing I've ever experienced, and makes you think what lies behind it. But it was awesome.
Did she think it was a symbol of love? Well, some women consider themselves almost a gift to men, throwing love here and there, really inflating it, but still it's a form of love (if you really want to point it out: call it sexual love), though we usually call these women whores if they "gift" people we like ourselves. They are the kind who just knows that you, as man, love her for doing what she is doing, and smiles as she behaves very inappropriate towards you. I think such women are capable of considering their acts not the acts of a whore, but as a gift of kindness coupled with their own personal satisfaction. Even in the light they may receive something out of it, they might not
think about it as a trade, but maybe, and I'm purely guessing, they think about it as making somebody so grateful they are just dying to give her a gift back.
What happened to me was quickly entered and though not too quick it was of course just a blowjob on the side of the road, and that was it, and I never saw the person again. What made the person a prostitute was me asking whether the person was a prostitute, she said yes, I said I had no money (all this happened after she had approached me), and she said "no problem", and then hanky panky started.
