Re: Marriage and Family
Posted: Fri Aug 27, 2021 12:02 am
How surprising. Btw, do you have a basement with hooks and torture devices? Because that's how you come across
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How surprising. Btw, do you have a basement with hooks and torture devices? Because that's how you come across
I'm neither happy nor unhappy, I quickly learnt very early on in my life not to impose such fleeting conditions upon myself. Imagine the burden of having to maintain a man-made condition. I'm much too smart to fall for that trick, it's a stupid game that humans love to play. I'm just so over their dumb mind games.vegetariantaxidermy wrote: ↑Thu Aug 26, 2021 7:21 pmWhy wouldn't she?
I don't think that's a fair assessment of IC. He's a good guy. He believes in Christianity, you believe in whatever you believe in. None of us know for %100 certain the metaphysical underpinnings of this world (if there even are any.)vegetariantaxidermy wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 12:02 amHow surprising. Btw, do you have a basement with hooks and torture devices? Because that's how you come across![]()
I don't believe that we can get love, or give love to and from other humans. Love is just another man-made concept like the word God. It only exists as an idea.Lacewing wrote: ↑Thu Aug 26, 2021 5:42 pmI see the view you are pointing out. That is definitely one way of looking at it. But I'm sure there are more views and realities. Clearly, there is a compelling and rewarding societal convenience thing that's part of the game/package. And, I wonder, do we need to be resistant to the game while we're here, or can we find benefit in playing along? I'm not a big fan of marriage, either (I did it once, long ago) -- it definitely isn't necessary for (nor a symbol of) love and sharing life. But I think I've become more accepting of the conditions of the game we're in... and playing along in the best ways I can. Awareness and love can get stronger from their own foundation of clarity, regardless of any games.
I think love is an attitude we have toward someone else. The same goes for hate. If we behave violently toward someone (for example), then we have "hate" in our hearts. If we help someone overcome something that is difficult for them (for example), then we have "love" in our hearts. Some of us sometimes have hate in our hearts. It could be for justifiable reasons or it could be for unjustifiable reasons. Some of us sometimes have love in our hearts. And it could be general love toward everyone or specific love of a few particular people. I don't think having love in our hearts at a particular time necessarily makes a person "better" than someone who doesn't. As soon as we try to establish a hierarchy of people, then we no longer have love in our hearts. Sometimes, we establish a hierarchy because we want something that is not universally available to all and we want to think that we deserve that something that not everyone can have. I'm guilty of that sometimes and don't realize what I'm doing is not right.Dontaskme wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 10:42 amI don't believe that we can get love, or give love to and from other humans. Love is just another man-made concept like the word God. It only exists as an idea.Lacewing wrote: ↑Thu Aug 26, 2021 5:42 pmI see the view you are pointing out. That is definitely one way of looking at it. But I'm sure there are more views and realities. Clearly, there is a compelling and rewarding societal convenience thing that's part of the game/package. And, I wonder, do we need to be resistant to the game while we're here, or can we find benefit in playing along? I'm not a big fan of marriage, either (I did it once, long ago) -- it definitely isn't necessary for (nor a symbol of) love and sharing life. But I think I've become more accepting of the conditions of the game we're in... and playing along in the best ways I can. Awareness and love can get stronger from their own foundation of clarity, regardless of any games.
I don't care what he believes in. My assessment has nothing to do with that. And you are so annoying!Gary Childress wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 10:30 amI don't think that's a fair assessment of IC. He's a good guy. He believes in Christianity, you believe in whatever you believe in. None of us know for %100 certain the metaphysical underpinnings of this world (if there even are any.)vegetariantaxidermy wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 12:02 amHow surprising. Btw, do you have a basement with hooks and torture devices? Because that's how you come across![]()
Would you stop apologising all the time!Gary Childress wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 10:38 am I'm sorry for bringing up this topic. It's really my fault. I realize now that I probably just fueled flames that weren't necessary to fuel or otherwise best left alone.
I understand why I am annoying to you. I'm sorry for starting this thread. It's my fault. (It really is.)vegetariantaxidermy wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 11:05 amI don't care what he believes in. My assessment has nothing to do with that. And you are so annoying!Gary Childress wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 10:30 amI don't think that's a fair assessment of IC. He's a good guy. He believes in Christianity, you believe in whatever you believe in. None of us know for %100 certain the metaphysical underpinnings of this world (if there even are any.)vegetariantaxidermy wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 12:02 am
How surprising. Btw, do you have a basement with hooks and torture devices? Because that's how you come across![]()
Are you serious? Just stop fucking apologising and butting in. Can's a big boy. I'm sure he can handle himself. I mean, you have to actually type the words 'I'm sorry'. It's not as if you have no control over that.Gary Childress wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 11:08 amI understand why I am annoying to you. I'm sorry for starting this thread. It's my fault. (It really is.)vegetariantaxidermy wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 11:05 amI don't care what he believes in. My assessment has nothing to do with that. And you are so annoying!Gary Childress wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 10:30 am
I don't think that's a fair assessment of IC. He's a good guy. He believes in Christianity, you believe in whatever you believe in. None of us know for %100 certain the metaphysical underpinnings of this world (if there even are any.)
I type those words when I feel responsible for something bad. I don't know of any other way to atone with people for my mistakes.vegetariantaxidermy wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 11:26 amAre you serious? Just stop fucking apologising and butting in. Can's a big boy. I'm sure he can handle himself. I mean, you have to actually type the words 'I'm sorry'. It's not as if you have no control over that.Gary Childress wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 11:08 amI understand why I am annoying to you. I'm sorry for starting this thread. It's my fault. (It really is.)vegetariantaxidermy wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 11:05 am
I don't care what he believes in. My assessment has nothing to do with that. And you are so annoying!
I was gonna say encouragin' things, but after that cheap, unwarranted, shot in another thread: pffftt! You're on your own, guy.Gary Childress wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 10:38 am I'm sorry for bringing up this topic. It's really my fault. I realize now that I probably just fueled flames that weren't necessary to fuel or otherwise best left alone.
Actually you attack me quite often, usually under the 'guise' of being someone else's knight in shining armour. Apologies should only be used under extreme circumstances. The world has gone 'faux apology' madGary Childress wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 11:28 amI type those words when I feel responsible for something bad. I don't know of any other way to atone with people for my mistakes.vegetariantaxidermy wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 11:26 amAre you serious? Just stop fucking apologising and butting in. Can's a big boy. I'm sure he can handle himself. I mean, you have to actually type the words 'I'm sorry'. It's not as if you have no control over that.Gary Childress wrote: ↑Fri Aug 27, 2021 11:08 am
I understand why I am annoying to you. I'm sorry for starting this thread. It's my fault. (It really is.)