Greta wrote:That reminds me of Buddhist thought. Buddhism originated in Asia, which has been crowded, competitive, dangerous and uncomfortable for a long time. In context, the notion of non-existence being preferable is logical.
However, the ancient Asiatics lacked modern means so they did what they could to be happy. Since they couldn't avoid significant problems in the physical world they worked on their mental world. If they could eliminate the ego/self they could at least create the feeling of non existence, free from life's trials.
The ego is deeply involved in two areas of life - safety and pain. Meditation was traditionally a risky pastime because one is obviously less alert to threats while meditating than if fearfully watching and waiting. Being absorbed, "in the zone" or Zen - the temporary disappearance of the self while absorbed in a task - is similarly risky. The sculptor absorbed in creation on a rural property will be less likely to notice a killer creeping up on her from behind than one who is fearfully sitting on her balcony, nervously making sure her loaded gun is nearby.
Who will live longer - the sculptor or the vigilant defender? Who is having the better time? Who is taking the greatest risk? I would say that the sculptor will probably live longer, is having a better time and taking less of a risk (the other risk being wasting your life with pointless hypervigilance).
People have long wondered why a deity would bother making an imperfect creation that had to struggle its way to perfection. Why not do a proper job from the start and save everyone a lot of time and trouble? Nearly every single organism on the planet that's every lived is dead. 93% of humans who have been born are dead. No doubt most suffered in ways we have never known before they died. For what did all these innocents suffer and die?
Wouldn't it be so much easier if none of it happened? It would seem easier. The problem for nihilists is that, irregardless of their druthers, all this does exist. Things don't come into existence for no reason. There is always an underlying pressure that leads to larger events. I expect that before the big bang was some kind of built up pressure in the existent reality beforehand. Likewise, irresistible chemical pressures seemingly preceded abiogenesis....
So, it would have not have been easier if nothing and no one existed. There would have been an unsustainable buildup of pressure of "something" and it had to be released. This is how reality arrives - either gradually or in sudden bursts when progress is stoppered for a while and then explosively released. This natural dynamic is echoed by capacitors in electronics, combustion engines, volcanoes, supernovas, many things.
So, since this life and existence appear to have always been necessary and inevitable....
You assume that the big bang came from nothing. I think it more likely that inflation stemmed from conditions we don't yet understand.alpha wrote:"underlying pressure can only happen to existing things. how can any pressure happen to nothing? basically your argument hinges on the necessity of there existing things that were infinitely old (uncaused), to which underlying pressure can apply.
Greta wrote:... it makes sense to focus mostly on the good rather than the negative.
It makes sense if you want to be happy. We cannot write ourselves out of the equation when considering reality, as though we are standing outside of it. We are part of reality, a local expression of our environment. Our nature a reflection of the big picture in small scale, a part of the universe's imperfect fractals.Alpha wrote:"to focus mostly on the good rather than the negative" might simply be a defense mechanism rather than something that truly makes sense.
Consider the difference between acknowledging the negative and focusing on it.
Besides, we don't know what happens when we die so we don't ultimately know how helpful or harmful death is.
Nope, that's actually what you are doing - assuming rather than leaving your options open. I am still questioning and you are not. You have already convinced yourself that there is nothing after we die and there was nothing before the big bang. People with that view tend to view others as naively avoiding facing the unpleasant truth that there was nothing, that we were nothing and will become nothing, and that it is all entirely meaningless.Alpha wrote:so we should just go with the flow, and not question things?
However, it's hard to imagine a more negative view. When people embrace the negative it always seems to me that that they trying to prevent disappointment. Perhaps they have been disappointed too many times and have come to expect disappointment as standard. So they imagine the crappiest and most uninspiring possible scenario and claim it to be truth - a truth that is more based on Murphy's Law than on realistic observation of reality, which inevitably brings wonder and awe.
If your "depth" is making you miserable then it's not true depth, but illusory. I am old enough to have been there done that. I had plans when I was young and I fancied myself as smarter and deeper than most too. Then I gradually opened my eyes and started to notice the depths and intelligence present in others that I'd been too self absorbed to notice. That's where you appear to be up to, no offence meant. I wasn't a bad person when I thought that way either, but ego was an issue that I needed to resolve to better enjoy life.
Generally speaking, being delusional is far more likely to decrease a person's quality of life and overall satisfaction. The exception comes when social cohesion renders irrational behaviour socially useful, as in religion and common memes deemed "acceptable" by broader society. However, I and others here are secularists.Alpha wrote:... my problem isn't with "plans", nor is my goal "to better enjoy life". one might suggest that being delusional can increase a person's quality of life and overall satisfaction, but that doesn't really solve anything.
Another thought: human creative capacities? We can can transform our views, capacities and performance with creative imagination, as any sports psychologist will tell you. So what was not reality becomes reality. So "delusions" can be incorporated into reality.
Bushwalking with a canine friend is an extremely pleasant and grounding activity. Try it.
I'm curious. What's your objection to it? What do you most like to do with your life? What are your favoured activities (that are not too personal personal to comfortably share, of course)?Alpha wrote:thanks, but i think i'll pass.