henry quirk wrote:"Spot on"
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"Some people are afraid of everything and thus see fear in everyone else, even when there is no fear present. Indifference and dislike are not fear."
Yep.
No, the ones that recognize fear, everywhere it exists, are the only ones honest enough to admit it, and as such they are more capable of controlling it. As psychologists have said, "knowing the problem is half the battle."
The ones that deny it, are far too afraid of admitting it, they think it makes them weak, quite the contrary, it makes them stronger. For instance, one that talks of shooting people all the time, is steeped in fear, up to their eyeballs in it. Often they say such things to ward off imaginary enemy's, that they create by doing something illegal, like not paying their taxes. They create the situation because they fear being penniless, yet then they fear being caught, so they grab something that shall stop those that shall bring them to justice, because they fear not getting away with their crime. They fear the price they'll have to pay. They have to have the upper hand, because they fear loosing. It can get so bad that they can become paranoid.
In picking their weapon to combat their imaginary enemies, they pick the one that is most devastating to them, the one they fear the most, because surely if they fear it, everyone else shall. When you threaten dealing fear, you have to be acquainted with it, know it, had experience with it, by it on occasions consuming you. The more you know fear the better you can deal it. Yet as I said earlier, in all this, one fears acknowledging it most, because once done it's like Pandora's box. And they can implode as with a nervous breakdown, or explode, and go on a killing spree. Especially targeted would be anyone that made them face their fear.
People are sheeple because they fear, because the governments are mighty, paying taxes because they fear for the same reason. Yet they fight the government because they fear they are too strong, and of course I've already mentioned why they don't pay taxes because of fear. They do the speed limit because they fear loosing money to tickets, and speed because they fear loosing their jobs, thus money, because they are running late. In all cases there is dichotomy, opposite reasons to fear depending upon the individual, and their particular season of change. People that want to survive can fear both not going to school, because of potential lower income, and going to school because they doubt their abilities to pass, potentially wasting their money.
All of the above are neither all inclusive nor all exclusive, of the plethora reasons people fear. They are just a few arbitrary examples. They are just the tip of the iceberg. In this fast paced, competitive world, fear runs rampant; that you'll live alone, that you'll get married, that you'll get an STD, that you won't be accepted by a mate, or that you'll get pregnant, that you won't please your superior, that you won't replace your superior, etc, etc, etc! It's the primary reason for stress, some stress is good, but too much can kill.
Fear is one of the innate emotions, and as such, it is with us all the time, as the juxtaposition of what we desire, and that which we do not desire.
Sure it's called many names to avoid admitting what it is, yet at it's core it is fear.
So the question is: "Do you want to be strong in facing your fears, or weak in running from them?"
An award winning 2005
documentary, actually states that fear is the reason humans create culture. Imagine that! Watch it, if you dare to take it seriously, though it might "frighten" you.