sthitapragya wrote:ken wrote:I NEVER said it was 'you'. I will try again, a 'person' is the thoughts and feelings with-in a body. These thoughts (and feelings) get passed on into other bodies that they come in contact with. So, the actual memory with-in one body is the person, itself, from another body now living in this body.
The thoughts that get passed on are only the thoughts that the person is willing to share.
Not necessarily. Some thoughts get passed on that are not necessarily the ones that were only willing to be shared. Remember by 'My' definition of thoughts, 'thoughts', are
you, and 'you', are a
person. A person does NOT have thoughts. A 'person', is
thoughts/thinking. I was the only one willing to attempt to answer the question posed. I was NOT given any clarification on the definition of the words being used, so I gave 'My' definition/s. Either dispute the definitions with a clearer, more acceptable, definition. Or, refute my view/s with a better and clearer view/s of where 'we' go after the body dies.
Thoughts willingly and unwillingly get passed on. For example 'you', the
thoughts, are getting passed on showing how stupid a person can actually be because of how the brain can word. 'You' are not willing to share this but unwillingly this is what happening in these writings. This is happening because this is how 'I' am showing and proving to others how the Mind and the brain actually work. This may sound harsh that 'I' am using 'you' like this but 'you' can feel "good" about this knowing that 'you' are helping in the creation of a truly peaceful existence for EveryOne.
sthitapragya wrote: What about personal thoughts that never get passed on? Even the thoughts that do get passed on are not the exact thoughts a person has.
What about them. It would be impossible for ALL of 'you' to be passed on because 'you' are changing continuously ALL of the time.
sthitapragya wrote:They are simply the interpretation made by the person to whom they are passed on.
This is NOT about the interpretation one person makes of another. Please stop thinking that this is about that. What this is about is where do people go after the body dies.
sthitapragya wrote:If you consider all the thoughts a person has, only a small percentage get passed on.
A person does NOT have thoughts. A 'person', IS
thoughts.
sthitapragya wrote:The ones that get passed on cannot define the person in question because they are the receivers interpretation of the thought.
Again please try to look at this from another perspective, i.e., the perspective that 'I' am coming from.
sthitapragya wrote:A feeling can never get passed on. What I feel, I can never truly describe to anyone. Even if I can, a feeling is a feeling. It has to be felt. They are completely individual.
A 'thought' is completely individual. A 'feeling', however, is shared. There is about 450 or so feeling words, which each and every person can have. Although, admittingly, how one person experiences the exact same one feeling as another person does may be totally different and even opposite in "feeling".
So, feelings may never get passed on but the exact same 450 or so feelings are shared.
ken wrote:One person can NOT even get a memory of what they themselves saw, heard, smelt, felt, and tasted through their own body 100% correct let alone understand all of what another person experienced, i.e., saw, heard, smelt, felt, and tasted.
sthitapragya wrote:But that is exactly the point I am making.
And this is NOT what i have been talking about. I was just pointing out how fallible memory is. This is NOT about the memory X has of Y. This is about what 'Y', the thoughts, that were once in one body, which,
after that body has died, are still HERE residing/existing in another body NOW. For example 'Y', the thoughts, that were once in a body, which was labelled einstein and/or jesus for example, are now still residing/existing with-in bodies of "today". 'X', the thoughts, with-in a body of "today" are co-existing with 'Y', the thoughts, from with-in another body from "yesteryear".
'We',
people, are made up of two things only, i.e., thoughts and emotional feelings. Disregarding emotions for now, for reasons given above, thoughts are transferred between bodies. This is how knowledge gets passed on and human kind can evolve and progress technologically. Thoughts get added onto all the time, which just a person is enlarging by knowing MORE all the time. This just means 'we' are growing as One.
Therefore, 'Y' is still alive HERE in 'X'.
sthitapragya wrote:If a person does tell me his thoughts, I will not understand that person 100%. I will only make my own interpretation of what the other person said.
Showing exactly how a person makes their own mis/interpretation, from and through the beliefs and assumptions that that person is holding onto maintaining, is what I wanted to achieve here in this forum. I have successfully shown, thus proven this.
sthitapragya wrote: I could get it completely wrong as seems to be happening so often between us. So in effect, just a few thoughts of yours, many of them wrongly interpreted by me, get transferred to me.
Showing exactly how when a person is 'looking' from those beliefs and assumptions can trick the brain into 'seeing' things that are not actually true, right, and correct, and then the brain now holding and maintaining newly gained wrong 'views', which are also
thoughts, is now then 'looking' from a more distorted 'view' again, leading that person to 'look' from only the beliefs and assumptions of which they are, i.e., those thoughts that are being held and maintained, is what I have set out to do in order to expose the Truth of what I have been saying.
That is a person can not find thus see Truth whist it is maintaining beliefs and assumptions.
If you, sthitapragya, or most other people can not yet comprehend or understand this fully that is perfectly understandable. This is a fairly deep look and study deep into the psych for the peoples of "today".
sthitapragya wrote: That is not you. It is my interpretation of you.
And, 'your' interpretation of another 'you' is done by 'who', again?
One has to KNOW one's own self before it could even begin to truly KNOW an other.
sthitapragya wrote: No one knows you the way you do.
ken wrote:'I' know 'you' better than you know 'you'.
For example 'you' can not answer the question 'Who am 'I'?, therefore you do not know who 'you', the 'i' in that body is, or even who 'I' am. Whereas 'I' can answer the question who 'i' am as well as who 'you' are?
Of course you are now thinking, "NO you don't".
The Truth is I have actually even wrote who 'you' are down in the quote above. Can you find it?
Even if you could you still want to prove me wrong so here is your chance go ahead write down an answer the question, 'Who am 'I', really?"
That way 'you' can prove to ALL the readers that really 'you' do know who 'you' are better than 'I' know 'you'.
sthitapragya wrote:Okay. I do not know who I am.
Thank you for the honesty. It is refreshing. The first 'I', by the way is sthitapragya, it is NOT the collective 'I' just so others know for sure.
sthitapragya wrote: You claim to know me better than me. So prove it. And no I cannot find the quote where you wrote me down. Show me the quote and prove to me that you know me better than I know me.
I will not look for the exact quote but I will just recall it: 'you', are
the thoughts and feelings with-in a body. Maybe more correctly it should read: 'you', are
those thoughts and feelings with-in a body. I will have to look into this a bit further but that should suffice for now. 'you', like all of 'you' people are made up of two things only, i.e., thoughts and emotional feelings.
sthitapragya wrote:ken wrote:A 'person' is just a set of thoughts and emotional feelings with-in a human body. But this all depends on how much 'person/ality' we want to give to other bodies like dogs and cats for example also. A person therefore can be "with-in" other bodies besides just human bodies.
But that is not the person. It is just the part he wants to share.
sthitapragya quite often says what something is not (a person this time) to refute what is being said. How about instead of just saying what things are not and try explaining what they are in order to actually refute what is being written. Therefore,
What IS a person, exactly?
sthitapragya wrote:A part of a personality is not a whole person.
Again, what IS 'person', exactly?
While you are at it, what is 'personality', exactly?
sthitapragya wrote: And you cannot transfer a part of your personality to anyone.
That all depends on what definition you are going to give to the word 'personality'?
sthitapragya wrote: You can only share thoughts.
Exactly. 'You', are thoughts, which means you/thoughts get 'shared' passed on through bodies.
sthitapragya wrote:And those too can wrongly be interpreted.
Agreed. But this is not what this is about.
sthitapragya wrote:All that gets transfered are a few thoughts.
Agreed. ALL of 'einstein', all those thoughts that existed with-in that body, which is generally known as einstein or einstein's body for as long as that body, obviously could not ALL be transferred. I have NEVER said that they ALL could.
sthitapragya wrote:The feelings cannot be transferred.
Agreed. But ALL (internal) feelings are already shared equally among every body.
sthitapragya wrote:The personality cannot be transferred.
Depends, on how 'you' are going to define 'personality'.
sthitapragya wrote:ken wrote:OK what is a 'person' if they are far far far more than memories or achievements?
A person is ALL the thoughts and ALL the feelings he ever has.
How and when did thoughts ever become a male or female thing?
The only thing I think it will be found that is gender related is the physical body. But this another deeper look into the psyche of human beings which would on distract from the issue at hand now.
The use of the three words 'he', 'ever', and 'has' here implies that a 'person'
has thoughts and feelings. I thought i had made it quite clear that this is NOT the case.
sthitapragya wrote:A person is every accomplishment and every failure from which he learns or does not learn. Past, present and future.
Obviously 'we' have two very different views of what 'we', people' are exactly.
I have already made my definitions clear. I await your defining words.
sthitapragya wrote:A person is a being under construction. Someone that changes everyday.
Agreed, but i would reiterate that a person changes continually throughout the day and not just once every day as it appears that is what you meant here.
sthitapragya wrote: The only time he is complete is at the end of his life, whenever that is.
I am not sure why a 'gender' keeps slipping into your version of a person, but anyway and when is the end of a person's life, again?
sthitapragya wrote:ken wrote:
In the scheme of changing this "world" and creating a truly peaceful "world" so that everyone can live in harmony, what a past 'person' has done or has not done, who really cares? Does it really matter how good a person can play an instrument or not or ANYTHING else for that matter?
This is not about what you care. No one cares.
As I was implying by my question this is NOT about what any one of us cares, as you also answered with the same response. "No one cares".
Thus, the reason 'we' are ALL not yet living in a truly peaceful world yet, but that is another issue. I was just wanting to make it clear that no one cares and that is the reason why we still are living in this war-torn, pollution-riddled abusive "world".
What 'this' OP is about is things that 'I' accept and what 'this' question is about is where do 'we' go after the body dies?
sthitapragya wrote:But the discussion was about a person existing NOW even after his death.
I am not sure if you noticed the contradiction in your statement or not, I thought it was plainly obvious, but this discussion is NOT about where does a 'person' go after 'his' death. I will disregard the issue of gender altogether and just replace the word 'he' for 'a person'. So now your statements reads: "But the discussion was about a person existing NOW even after a person's death." To correct you this is about a person existing NOW (even) after
a body dies. Can you notice the difference?
The contradiction is in how could something that died still be existing NOW?
sthitapragya wrote:That was one of your basic premises.
No it was not for reasons just given.
sthitapragya wrote: And a person is every thought and feeling, achievement and failure.
You added on 'achievement' and 'failure' NOT Me.
You might not care what he did or what he did not do. He did. And if he was to exist now, all of it must survive today. If it does not, he does not exist today. [/quote]
So on sthitapragya logic if only part of person exists then the "whole" person does not exist, is this right?
sthitapragya wrote:ken wrote:And, if any person existing in a living body now or in the past wants or wanted to be known for what they have achieved or have not done, then they should think about letting go of that "egotistical" self.
That is not what I meant. What a person should let go off and hang on to are not the issue. What a person actually is is the issue. A person should let go of his ego. I agree totally. But for a person to exist now after his death, he should exist in totality because that is what a person is. That is all I am talking about.
From what i can gather now what you are talking about here is the issue here is "What a person actually is" and "A person is totality".
Therefore, our views on what a person actually is totally different. This is does not matter at because it is only how views.
I have attempted to answer the question where do 'we', a person, go after the body dies? Now it is your turn to attempt to answer that question now that you have defined 'person'.
sthitapragya wrote:ken wrote: 'You', any person, are not going to live forever anyway, so WHY be so concerned about how you are perceived and what you can 'take' from life? Is 'your', any person's, whole existence taken up by trying to be better than another and get as much recognition as you can? If so, WHY?
I am not at all concerned about how I am perceived. But for the purpose of existing after I die, all my thoughts and feelings must survive in totality after I die. Otherwise I die. I don't exist after that. Just a few memories of me created by other people survive.
So I cannot exist after I die. That is the point I am trying to make. There is no existence in the NOW after people die.
Okay that is the point you are trying to make, although that point completely rejects what the question is actually asking for. The point I have already made and will make again is in the question, "So, who or what is the 'I' that you say does not exist after it dies?" How does it die and where does it go after it dies?"
One point I am making is you do not know who 'I' am therefore you have no idea how I actually exist and for how long.
The other point is this whole issue revolves around where a person goes
after the body dies NOT after a person dies. Again you have turned around what is actually written and changed that to what you "think" you see.
sthitapragya wrote:ken wrote:sthitapragya wrote:So when one dies, one dies. Memories are just memories.
When 'one' "what" exactly dies? What are you talking about now? What is the 'one' now?
When a person dies, that person dies. He does not exist after his death as you claim. That is the point I am making.
sthitapragya wrote:ken wrote:You really take what I am doing here way too personally. This is NOT about people and their achievements at all.
I think you misunderstand me as much as I misunderstand you. Let me explain which quote of yours I am talking about.
You said: "
The person who thought up and invented the wheel for example is in a way still existing or living with us today through that creation. If and when thinking about a wheel or any thing that is in relation to a wheel, then that is "them", the prior thinking, still alive today in "us", the current thinking. "
The wheel was the person's achievement. The achievement is alive today. The thinking is not.
The thought that actually created is still HERE with us,
within the creation itself, i.e., the wheel.
We do not know by what thought process he invented the wheel. What he thought of first and how it led to the wheel. We just know he achieved the invention of the wheel. His thinking is not alive. His achievement is alive. If we know the exact thought process that led him to the invention, we would know his thinking. But we don't have that. So his thinking is not alive today.
Again you have taken 'My' definition and replaced it with what you think.
ken's definition: A person does NOT have thoughts. A 'person' IS
thoughts.
sth's deinition: No idea, not sure.
You have stated: "His thinking..." Who/what exactly is the 'one' that
has thinking?" And then, "How exactly does this 'one'
have thinking?"
sthitapragya wrote:ken wrote:This was NEVER about the memories of another person, but rather about how a person continues to live on, after the body decays, with-in the the 'thoughts', the person, of another living body. Can you spot the difference?
You said:"
For example if the body walker's grandparents were in have both 'died', i.e., stopped breathing and pumping blood,then all those memories 'you' have (and are) which they instilled in you are actually keeping them alive and living with you. "
I am simply challenging your statement by saying memories of A created by B cannot keep A alive and living with B.
I NEVER said the memories
of (A) "created"
by (B).
I said ..., "then all those memories
'you' have (and are)...."
Remember 'you' IS thoughts and remember a memory is just a thought also. So, 'you', the thought' (your B) "have" and are...which was instilled by (your A) in 'you', those thoughts existing now (A) are actually keeping them alive and living. So, B is NOT creating A, B is partly a result of A. By the way i put double quotation marks around the word "have" because I noticed that this could quite easily confuse what I wrote. This 'have' and the 'and' directly afterwards needs to be disregarded all together.
A is not just the memories in B's mind. There is no B's mind, unless of course you can give clarity to what the mind exactly is and how that mind relates to B exactly.
sthitapragya wrote: A is ALL A's own thoughts and feelings till the time of A's death.
But A does not have
its own thoughts and feelings. A is thoughts and feelings.
The preconceived ideas sitting in that body reading this now is what causes my words and definitions to be changed all the time to what "it" wants them to be.
Also A does not die, at all, the more I think about this. I had previously thought that A finally passes on completely but now the more i look it it could be argued that A has had an influence and therefore lasts forever (in the) HERE and NOW
sthitapragya wrote: B's memories of A are hardly a fragment of what A truly was. A is dead. What B carries with B are just memories of A. Not A.
Are you absolutely positively sure of this?
Could you at least try to explain this a bit better with clarity for all of us to see?