The Male and Female Relationship.

[BuzzCap7]

I like how you think. It’s mature, intelligent and enlightening.

Some people are just not as far along the path as others, so to work, most relationships need to be in sync spiritually, and part of my failure to meet the right person has been because each of us have been at very different stages of spiritual evolution. Ive done my homework, I’ve worked hard to get to the stage where I am at now. I’ve always been further along the path than most people, not meaning to be blowing my own trumpet but it’s just a fact. I can’t seem to relate to unenlightened people anymore. I am a nondualist and it’s not an easy message to hear, so I have problems finding people who can meet me at that level of understanding the nondual spirit.

There are loads of enlightened people making YouTube videos. I am aware that all these people are willing to be contactable. In fact I can make contact with people like this anytime I want. That’s ideal for me anyway, to make connections with like minded people.

Thanks for your comments, I enjoy reading comments from people like you. People who are awakened to the dream of separation.

Thanks

Thank you........that was greatly appreciated.

To your post above, there are no questions. Which of course is fine. To the statement...........I understand.

When I was single looking for my wife to-be, I recall getting very upset. But these things you can't push. Sometimes, one needs to let go to get.

Stay well my friend,

Mark

[accelafine]

I just think given the nature of reality and the suffering that's gone on for so long and the gap between men and women, there's gonna be some struggle.

I agree, but only in the sense of not knowing thy true self, does conflict arise between the two complimentary opposites that must exist for life to be in complete and total balance. The self is just not about the sense of I am-ness, it's everything else too. Like it's how the whole mechanism of life is working harmoniously and efficiently and effortlessly right now, and no human being is part of that invisible process. The grass is growing all by itself and so is the human being, all effortless carried by love.

Getting back to the dream of separation, within the dream, I do believe men today in modern society are having a difficult time with women.

The modern woman has evolved to such a degree, that presently today, she has no requirement for a man anymore. She is financially independent, she can make her own money, be her own CEO, can raise children on her own, and can go to a sperm bank and even have the opportunity to select the perfect male sperm, one that has come from good breeding stock, that's if she chooses to want a baby. She doesn't need to be in a stereo typical relationship with a man anymore, not in this modern day times. She can develop a good happy life for herself and her children, and no man never has to be involved in any of that life style choice.

Men today, are being made redundant by women. It's sad, but true, and the men I think are blaming the women for treating them with disrespect, when all the women are doing is just realising they don't actually need a man in their life anymore, to be happy, and successful in life.

Stats, have also proven that women are the smarter of the species, they are more mature, both emotionally and academically. In fact only women bleed, and that's what has made them strong, they've had to be strong, because it takes a very strong person to raise a child alone. And most women do raise their children alone today, it's easier.

I'm not excluding men here, they too sometimes have to take on the sole role of parenthood. And as a person myself who has raised 4 children alone, I know what I am talking about when I say you need to be a strong person to do it, I did it, so I know what I am talking about.

Right. And do her own plumbing, building, fixing, heavy lifting, house moving, car fixing, internet connections, computer fixups, rescue.......

There's nothing worse than a faux feminist. You know, the ones who hate women, but make a big show of saying how 'useless' men are and that women are great 'multi-taskers' (actually men are better at that too) blah blah blah. Shallow corny garbage.

And where is this 'statistic' that says 'women are smarter'??? Based on what exactly? 'Smarter' than Einstein? Where are all these female geniuses?
Yeah, men are certainly 'dumb' when it comes to being manipulated and flattered by a manipulative person. Perhaps that's the 'stat' you are referring to

[Fairy]

I like how you think. It’s mature, intelligent and enlightening.

Some people are just not as far along the path as others, so to work, most relationships need to be in sync spiritually, and part of my failure to meet the right person has been because each of us have been at very different stages of spiritual evolution. Ive done my homework, I’ve worked hard to get to the stage where I am at now. I’ve always been further along the path than most people, not meaning to be blowing my own trumpet but it’s just a fact. I can’t seem to relate to unenlightened people anymore. I am a nondualist and it’s not an easy message to hear, so I have problems finding people who can meet me at that level of understanding the nondual spirit.

There are loads of enlightened people making YouTube videos. I am aware that all these people are willing to be contactable. In fact I can make contact with people like this anytime I want. That’s ideal for me anyway, to make connections with like minded people.

Thanks for your comments, I enjoy reading comments from people like you. People who are awakened to the dream of separation.

Thanks

Thank you........that was greatly appreciated.

To your post above, there are no questions. Which of course is fine. To the statement...........I understand.

When I was single looking for my wife to-be, I recall getting very upset. But these things you can't push. Sometimes, one needs to let go to get.

Stay well my friend,

Mark

Thank you too.

I personally believe in serendipity, it’s been my experience a few times, when good people have just showed up in my life, completely out of the blue. I’ve not searched for anyone. I’ve always been happy in my own company, and enjoy the surprises along the way. These people that have periodically showed up, have been valuable in the sense of learning more about myself. They stay awhile, and then leave. And I’m fine with that, as I said earlier: relationships never end, they just complete.

All the best to you and yours.

[Fairy]

Come now, Atla. Now's no time to shrug. Remember what Fritz taught us: when talking about women, speak only to men.

Yes and men as much as women do, talk about others behind their backs. We all talk about people behind their backs.

Are we now ashamed at what we’ve said about people behind theirs backs?

And yet face to face with them we are all smiles and nicey nicey… if only they could read our minds, what webs we all weave.