Lacewing wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 9:57 pm
The non-theist doesn't believe in a god that he needs to hide or be shielded from!
That's the point! "Don't believe" doesn't change his real situation. He's then nothing more than a man in denial.
Lacewing wrote:It is possible to be open-minded about "reality"... to accept that it varies for everyone...
I.C. wrote:No, that's not possible.
Lacewing wrote:For you. I just told you it's possible for me.
I.C. wrote:You can believe it, sure; that won't ever make it true.
It's true for me...it works for me...so that means it's possible for me. I don't know why it's not possible for you.
It's not possible for either of us to go beyond, or differently, than reality actually allows. Belief is nothing, if the belief is not true.
Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 2:20 pmLacewing wrote:There ARE other beliefs about reality. How could there not be?
Sure there are. There are all sorts of beliefs. But some of them are just not true.
Who decides which beliefs about reality are true?
Reality decides. You may believe in gravity, and if I chose not to, and jump off a roof; but gravity will prove which one is right.
Is it possible for everyone to agree on that?
a) People hardly agree on anything, but b) It's of absolutely no consequence that they do, in matters of reality. Reality will be reality anyway.
Is their spirituality wrong?
Am I "wrong" to think so?
See, you are the same: you believe some beliefs are wrong.
Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 2:20 pm
if such proof were available, would you be willing to believe it?
Yes!
Would you? No matter what it might be?
It would help if it were relevant. What proof do you have in mind?
Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 2:20 pmLacewing wrote:You don't think two people can both be right while disagreeing?
It's a basic law of logic:
"two genuinely equal and opposite arguments cannot be true at the same time and in the same way."
They don't have to be "opposite". They can just be different.
Not the point.
Of course people can have "different" non-conflicting beliefs. My belief that it will rain does not conflict with your belief that Manchester United will win the cup. But genuinely contradictory beliefs, like "There is one God," "There are no gods," and "There are many gods," are absolute contradictions. There is absolutely no way that more than one of these claims can even possibly be true, because the truth of any one of them negates the other two.
There are countless perspectives about gods and reality and truth.
Irrelevant. If there are ten different perspectives about who you might be in real life (as there no doubt are) that doesn't make any of them...far less ALL of them...right.
Immanuel Can wrote: ↑Sat Oct 05, 2019 2:20 pmLacewing wrote:And you still didn't answer that question posed to you, by the way.
Which was?
"If someone believes something that you don't, does that mean your mind is closed to it...or does it simply mean that you don't believe as the other person does?"
I did answer that one. I guess you didn't like the answer?
I.C., you've had certain things "proven" to you in your life, and I've had certain things "proven" to me in my life. Would you say that something is proven when it is consistently reliable, accessible, and verifiable through results? That is my experience. The "realities" and "truths" and "perspectives" that I see -- which you say are impossible -- have consistently worked and delivered for me. They may not work or resonate for you, but they have for me, and continue to do so. So why would your idea of "reality" and "truth" cause me to reject what has been proven to me over and over?
If that is your real situation, then my expectation is that a good person would live and die with that truth. I never expect anyone to believe anything different than what they actually believe to be true on the best evidence they have.
But you raise the fundamental problem yourself: what happens when someone, who has been hitherto convinced of one view, runs into new information that contradicts that view? Does she think about it honestly? Does she reconsider? And does she ever change her view, now that she's set it in place?
Someone who never modifies her worldview is obdurate and unlearning. But someone who changes her worldview too quickly probably never had a worldview worth believing in the first place. So a firmness plus a flexibility is what is called for -- a commitment to truth as it is already known, but with an openness to change, if the demonstration or evidence becomes really compelling.
That's all I expect. Anything else would be unreasonable, I would say.