Questions to Christians

[Fairy]

Calling people "stupid" as I have here is not particularly sage like, but we do have a short fuse at times with faithless idiots that bitch and moan about THEIR reality when it is all because of THEIR shortcomings.

Bitching and moaning about “faithless idiots” is more about your shortcomings than anyone else’s. People especially women can think for themselves thanks very much. They don’t need sagely advice from drunken men.

Pot/ kettle

I’m eternally thankful for the H experience and is why I’m turning it into a philosophy so that others can be made aware of how easily people can hurt each other when they project their ideal of what they want others to be in their eyes onto that person, that person being the object of their desire, and they do this for their own selfish reasons. But as soon as their illusions are shattered they blame the other person for their own shortcomings.The point is, if we desire to form relationships with unique partners then we should be willing to work at them unconditionally and not just throw them in the trash can just because they failed to match up with the projected ideal that was expected of them.

You might not be emotionally mature enough to grasp that truth, so I’m not even going to argue with you about it.

The valuable lesson I’ve taken away from all this was to realise that modern men and women of today don’t actually have any need to form marriages anymore. Humans have evolved past such outdated antiquated systems that were organised originally by the men in religious cloth. Marriage and monogamy was set up as a control mechanism.

When men and women come to terms with the fact that they do not need each other anymore in this day and age, is when everyone will be a lot more happier and healthier and mentally stable.

That’s the mistake people today are making, thinking they need to form monogamous forever binding relationships with others in order to feel whole. Without realising thy are just setting themselves up for nothing more than legalised slavery and a lifetime of suppressed misery.

[Fairy]

You are wasting your energy. Men are always going to side with men. It wouldn't matter if he was a serial killer. Women need to wake up and realise that.

I understand thanks.

H even said to me that he’s terrified of his own mind that there could potentially in his psyche be hiding a serial killer just waiting to be unleashed.

Now why on earth would he think that was ok to disclose something like that to the woman he loves, is beyond comprehension.

It’s totally unhinged in my opinion.

I just kept on ignoring all the red flags.

[Atla]

H even said to me that he’s terrified of his own mind that there could potentially in his psyche be hiding a serial killer just waiting to be unleashed.

This was always obvious about Harbal, you aren't revealing big secrets here.

Of course it matters if a guy has some serial killer mentality deep down. Women are instictively more attracted to such guys, which explains half of human history. This is probably some old evolutionary thing, it signals that the man is better at fighting off wild animals and better at wiping floor with other men, which means more security for the woman and child, and better genes for the child.

[accelafine]

Definitely didn't get serial killer vibes from him. I just thought he was a bit clueless and 'detached'. Besides, America is the place for 'serial killing'. They love their serial killers.

[Walker]

He does consistently cause a pause to consider, whether with observations or gender hijinks.

We'll just have to agree to disagree. As I say: I'm not impressed by him.

We only disagree if you think a good heart and smarmy are mutually exclusive, even though impressiveness is but one cause to pause that need not apply.

[Belinda]

Calling people "stupid" as I have here is not particularly sage like, but we do have a short fuse at times with faithless idiots that bitch and moan about THEIR reality when it is all because of THEIR shortcomings.

Bitching and moaning about “faithless idiots” is more about your shortcomings than anyone else’s. People especially women can think for themselves thanks very much. They don’t need sagely advice from drunken men.

Pot/ kettle

I’m eternally thankful for the H experience and is why I’m turning it into a philosophy so that others can be made aware of how easily people can hurt each other when they project their ideal of what they want others to be in their eyes onto that person, that person being the object of their desire, and they do this for their own selfish reasons. But as soon as their illusions are shattered they blame the other person for their own shortcomings.The point is, if we desire to form relationships with unique partners then we should be willing to work at them unconditionally and not just throw them in the trash can just because they failed to match up with the projected ideal that was expected of them.

You might not be emotionally mature enough to grasp that truth, so I’m not even going to argue with you about it.

The valuable lesson I’ve taken away from all this was to realise that modern men and women of today don’t actually have any need to form marriages anymore. Humans have evolved past such outdated antiquated systems that were organised originally by the men in religious cloth. Marriage and monogamy was set up as a control mechanism.

When men and women come to terms with the fact that they do not need each other anymore in this day and age, is when everyone will be a lot more happier and healthier and mentally stable.

That’s the mistake people today are making, thinking they need to form monogamous forever binding relationships with others in order to feel whole. Without realising thy are just setting themselves up for nothing more than legalised slavery and a lifetime of suppressed misery.

It's true that marriage is psychologically uncomfortable at times, and sometimes a partner turns out to be an abuser. The psychological advantage of marriage is that the married pair make promises and trust each other. I think that in any relationship from marriage to casual acquaintance what matters is that people don't exploit one another. Thanks, Fairy for the warning but I still say that a forum like this can't function if pen -name personas are abused for their private lives and personal characters. You could have warned women on the forum in a general way , without naming anyone in particular.

[accelafine]

Calling people "stupid" as I have here is not particularly sage like, but we do have a short fuse at times with faithless idiots that bitch and moan about THEIR reality when it is all because of THEIR shortcomings.

Bitching and moaning about “faithless idiots” is more about your shortcomings than anyone else’s. People especially women can think for themselves thanks very much. They don’t need sagely advice from drunken men.

Pot/ kettle

I’m eternally thankful for the H experience and is why I’m turning it into a philosophy so that others can be made aware of how easily people can hurt each other when they project their ideal of what they want others to be in their eyes onto that person, that person being the object of their desire, and they do this for their own selfish reasons. But as soon as their illusions are shattered they blame the other person for their own shortcomings.The point is, if we desire to form relationships with unique partners then we should be willing to work at them unconditionally and not just throw them in the trash can just because they failed to match up with the projected ideal that was expected of them.

You might not be emotionally mature enough to grasp that truth, so I’m not even going to argue with you about it.

The valuable lesson I’ve taken away from all this was to realise that modern men and women of today don’t actually have any need to form marriages anymore. Humans have evolved past such outdated antiquated systems that were organised originally by the men in religious cloth. Marriage and monogamy was set up as a control mechanism.

When men and women come to terms with the fact that they do not need each other anymore in this day and age, is when everyone will be a lot more happier and healthier and mentally stable.

That’s the mistake people today are making, thinking they need to form monogamous forever binding relationships with others in order to feel whole. Without realising thy are just setting themselves up for nothing more than legalised slavery and a lifetime of suppressed misery.

It's true that marriage is psychologically uncomfortable at times, and sometimes a partner turns out to be an abuser. The psychological advantage of marriage is that the married pair make promises and trust each other. I think that in any relationship from marriage to casual acquaintance what matters is that people don't exploit one another. Thanks, Fairy for the warning but I still say that a forum like this can't function if pen -name personas are abused for their private lives and personal characters. You could have warned women on the forum in a general way , without naming anyone in particular.

From the man who's trying to pass himself off as a woman

[Belinda]

Bitching and moaning about “faithless idiots” is more about your shortcomings than anyone else’s. People especially women can think for themselves thanks very much. They don’t need sagely advice from drunken men.

Pot/ kettle

I’m eternally thankful for the H experience and is why I’m turning it into a philosophy so that others can be made aware of how easily people can hurt each other when they project their ideal of what they want others to be in their eyes onto that person, that person being the object of their desire, and they do this for their own selfish reasons. But as soon as their illusions are shattered they blame the other person for their own shortcomings.The point is, if we desire to form relationships with unique partners then we should be willing to work at them unconditionally and not just throw them in the trash can just because they failed to match up with the projected ideal that was expected of them.

You might not be emotionally mature enough to grasp that truth, so I’m not even going to argue with you about it.

The valuable lesson I’ve taken away from all this was to realise that modern men and women of today don’t actually have any need to form marriages anymore. Humans have evolved past such outdated antiquated systems that were organised originally by the men in religious cloth. Marriage and monogamy was set up as a control mechanism.

When men and women come to terms with the fact that they do not need each other anymore in this day and age, is when everyone will be a lot more happier and healthier and mentally stable.

That’s the mistake people today are making, thinking they need to form monogamous forever binding relationships with others in order to feel whole. Without realising thy are just setting themselves up for nothing more than legalised slavery and a lifetime of suppressed misery.

It's true that marriage is psychologically uncomfortable at times, and sometimes a partner turns out to be an abuser. The psychological advantage of marriage is that the married pair make promises and trust each other. I think that in any relationship from marriage to casual acquaintance what matters is that people don't exploit one another. Thanks, Fairy for the warning but I still say that a forum like this can't function if pen -name personas are abused for their private lives and personal characters. You could have warned women on the forum in a general way , without naming anyone in particular.

From the man who's trying to pass himself off as a woman

Are you accusing me of lying? If not please explain your cryptic comment.

[Fairy]

H even said to me that he’s terrified of his own mind that there could potentially in his psyche be hiding a serial killer just waiting to be unleashed.

This was always obvious about Harbal, you aren't revealing big secrets here.

Of course it matters if a guy has some serial killer mentality deep down. Women are instictively more attracted to such guys, which explains half of human history. This is probably some old evolutionary thing, it signals that the man is better at fighting off wild animals and better at wiping floor with other men, which means more security for the woman and child, and better genes for the child.

Evolution cares only about the continuation / reproduction of a species. If it didn't, there would be no life anywhere, but there is life.

Of course it's always going to be about the child, the offspring of any animal is solely for the continuation of the species.

The point is, we've been indoctrinated and conditioned to believe that having children is just a basic human desire. But no human being needs to bring more people into the world. Human animals have evolved an awareness that can make choices, that other animals don't seem to have the capacity to do.

So the question is, why do humans desire to bring more people into the world. Especially a world that is ruled by raw indifferent,
cannibalistic, beastly natural forces. But I guess that's just the nature of the breast. No Disney world of happy ever after there, it's rather the opposite. Kind of like dog eat dog reality.

To think Disney love is real is the delusion humans fall for hook line and sinker, they are basically sold a delusion. What with valentines day and all that shite, but LOVE is the biggest money maker in town, and that's all that's behind the illusion of human love, is how much MONEY can be made of this ridiculous man made concept known as LOVE
And Yes, I too have participated in this silly delusion, I've been a victim of my own personal beliefs as well. I've been sold the love dream too.

Not fogetting to mention the idea we are sold, that is God's Love.

What a cosmic Joke we are all fooled by.

[Atla]

H even said to me that he’s terrified of his own mind that there could potentially in his psyche be hiding a serial killer just waiting to be unleashed.

This was always obvious about Harbal, you aren't revealing big secrets here.

Of course it matters if a guy has some serial killer mentality deep down. Women are instictively more attracted to such guys, which explains half of human history. This is probably some old evolutionary thing, it signals that the man is better at fighting off wild animals and better at wiping floor with other men, which means more security for the woman and child, and better genes for the child.

Evolution cares only about the continuation / reproduction of a species. If it didn't, there would be no life anywhere, but there is life.

Of course it's always going to be about the child, the offspring of any animal is solely for the continuation of the species.

The point is, we've been indoctrinated and conditioned to believe that having children is just a basic human desire. But no human being needs to bring more people into the world. Human animals have evolved an awareness that can make choices, that other animals don't seem to have the capacity to do.

So the question is, why do humans desire to bring more people into the world. Especially a world that is ruled by raw indifferent,
cannibalistic, beastly natural forces. But I guess that's just the nature of the breast. No Disney world of happy ever after there, it's rather the opposite. Kind of like dog eat dog reality.

To think Disney love is real is the delusion humans fall for hook line and sinker, they are basically sold a delusion. What with valentines day and all that shite, but LOVE is the biggest money maker in town, and that's all that's behind the illusion of human love, is how much MONEY can be made of this ridiculous man made concept known as LOVE
And Yes, I too have participated in this silly delusion, I've been a victim of my own personal beliefs as well. I've been sold the love dream too.

Not fogetting to mention the idea we are sold, that is God's Love.

What a cosmic Joke we are all fooled by.

Having children IS just a basic human desire, especially for women. That's not an indoctrination and conditioning. You just explained why: evolution is about the continuation/reproduction of a species, so we evolved this desire.

Now in modern times we can try to counteract/get rid of this desire, but most people don't want to or are unable to.

Imo a sustainable humanity would have stopped growing at around 2 billion people, with a siginificant portion of humanity working on maintaining the environment. That ship has sailed long ago.

[accelafine]

It's true that marriage is psychologically uncomfortable at times, and sometimes a partner turns out to be an abuser. The psychological advantage of marriage is that the married pair make promises and trust each other. I think that in any relationship from marriage to casual acquaintance what matters is that people don't exploit one another. Thanks, Fairy for the warning but I still say that a forum like this can't function if pen -name personas are abused for their private lives and personal characters. You could have warned women on the forum in a general way , without naming anyone in particular.

From the man who's trying to pass himself off as a woman

Are you accusing me of lying? If not please explain your cryptic comment.

Is that not true?

[Fairy]

Thanks, Fairy for the warning but I still say that a forum like this can't function if pen -name personas are abused for their private lives and personal characters. You could have warned women on the forum in a general way , without naming anyone in particular.

You still don't get it do you.

Look around on Youtube, millions of people are abusing each other all the time. Calling out other peoples BS, character shaming and blaming, and naming names even. Is Youtube doing anything to stop this abuse? NO it isn't. It's all about ''money'' how much can be made out of other peoples misery of being exposed for their personal characters on the internet. Children are being filmed left right and centre by their own parents without their consent, these children are just being promised lots of money, and they are too inexperienced to know what is actually happening to them. They just love the idea of no school, loads of luxury holidays, and tons and tons of presents every christmas and birthday. Of course the children are not going to question their parents motive for filming them on the internet for any predator to drool over.

Children are just seen as ways of making money for their parents. Why isn't anything being done to protect these vulnerable children that are being sold by their parents love of money. Look at how much money Youtube content creators are making these days, especially the one that involve children.

Same with all social media platforms, including facebook, and the dark web. Abuse is a normal human activity, please stop with your paragon of virtue attitude.


If H did not want his personal true characteristics plastered all over his beloved forum, so that other people would be made aware of them, then why did he think it was ok to tell me about his true personal characteristics?

So it was ok for me to know, who in case he hadn't noticed is a forum member aswell. But it wasn't ok for other forum members to know his true personal characteristics, but he thought it was ok for me to know...What now, are you saying that he thought he could trust me to not reveal to anyone else his true nature? Why would he care unless he had something to hide, and yet was quite happy to share his mental content with me?

What if I had told everybody on this forum that he was an amazing loving, caring compassionate, considerate intelligent generous cannot do enough to help other people out of their desperate lives. What if I'd disclosed all those characteristics about him to everyone on this forum, would that have made everyone happy? Seems like we only want people to know we are good people, even though that's just one side of the human psyche right?

Do good hearted people leave the people they confess to love? See how the word LOVE just turns out to be an abusive and meaningless stupid word?

It's like I love my children but I am going to expose them in every human situation to the entire world via the internet because I cannot be bothered to get a proper 9 to 5 job like everyone else, no, I can just make easy money at the expense of my children's no right to privacy, it's an abusive violation of their natural privacy. For even a child is intelligent enough to know when they are being manipulated by their own parents.

In what world was it ok to tell me about his personal life story, but then ghost the other forum members as if he didn't want any of them to know, and yet he had no problem in thinking it was ok to tell me things, that he didn't want other forum users to know......So why do you think he is now not posting anymore Belinda?

[Fairy]

From the man who's trying to pass himself off as a woman

Are you accusing me of lying? If not please explain your cryptic comment.

Is that not true?

Seems the internet was just the perfect storm for human deceptive and manipulative interaction. A place they could vent freely without ever reaping the consequences of their negative words. Forum users are the biggest abusers of other people on the internet. Why do you think H was banned from so many other forums. And why is forum banning of certain characters such a common consequence for some posters. The rest of social media platforms comes a close second to be the perfect storm for human abuse.

The internet is a place where people can be their true selves, both negative and positive, under the guise of anonymity, mostly. Although some people use their correct names that are the same name as the name recorded on their birth certificates.

Keyboard warriors so to speak. Where one could play any character they so choose to play. And no one would ever know the actual truth of their real intention or real character, because they would obviously hide what they didn't want other people to know about them. Humans are deluded thinking they know other people especially people posting on the internet.

The only real and genuine people are the ones who you physically make contact with, one on one, face to face. And even those people only ever show the side of themselves, they want other people to see, always taking care not to show their other side, the side they'd rather keep hidden..

So who are we to trust, the idea people are trust worthy, is the play we all play. Who to trust, we cannot trust, we can only hope that people are trustworthy, HOPE is all humans can rely on.

[Fairy]

Definitely didn't get serial killer vibes from him. I just thought he was a bit clueless and 'detached'. Besides, America is the place for 'serial killing'. They love their serial killers.

It's obvious he was looking for a handmaiden.

It takes extremely strong, emotionally intelligent people to live perfectly happy alone, to live and die all alone. People like that are rare today, most people are weak, and have never grown out of the warm security blanket that was their childhood. Instead, they simply move from their child days to playing the role of Adultchild / Manchild. They move from their mothers to their wives. They just want to be loved and hugged and cared for.

Women carry men from womb to cradle to grave. And that's why women are the smarter and stronger of the species mentally and emotionally, although not quite physically. But that doesn't matter anymore because A.I. will make most men redundant and void anyway.

I guess nature had the last laugh, humans just didn't deserve to be a part of this planet.

[Atla]

It takes extremely strong, emotionally intelligent people to live perfectly happy alone

Well if you call that living..