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Thanks for all the responses. They have really helped me in deciding what I should do. It all comes down to trusting him enough to know he would never ask me to do anything that would seriously hurt me or anything illegal. I have given him my total submission. Wish me luck!

My boyfriend and I have been discussing trying BDSM, but we have come to a point where we cannot agree on something. I say I can submit to him and still have limits that I do not want to go past, but he says that if I truly submit that I give up all power to him and will do everything he asks of me,...