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by carlafeit
Sat Apr 05, 2025 2:58 am
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

Alexis Jacobi wrote: Sat Apr 05, 2025 1:52 am
carlafeit wrote: Sat Apr 05, 2025 1:15 am Guys who get hard from wearing girly clothes are super-creepy.
Wait. Why creepy?

On what is your sense of the “creepy” based?
I suppose - and I am oversimplyfing - they are creepy in a sense similar to creepy guys in general.
by carlafeit
Sat Apr 05, 2025 1:15 am
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

She is suggesting that she does not know about gender ideology, and thus presumably has not heard of autogynephelia, gender, fluidity, non-binarism, transitioning and other such aberrations, so is not defending them. I was expecting she would be, since they are routinely implicated in the defending...
by carlafeit
Fri Apr 04, 2025 6:57 pm
Forum: Political Philosophy
Topic: Donald Trump
Replies: 299
Views: 1928

Re: Donald Trump

accelafine wrote: Fri Apr 04, 2025 6:37 pm You are truly a disgusting littly nonentity.
I think "Have you been snorting the maple-flavored Canadian fentanyl again?" is a much better comeback.
by carlafeit
Fri Apr 04, 2025 6:56 pm
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

Just wait for the carefully constructed and rational counterargument which will consist of 'how much glue have you been sniffing?' :roll: Seems like a pretty simple question. Have you been partaking of the famous Canadian fentanyl? Have you been partaking of all-American glue? These are not counter...
by carlafeit
Fri Apr 04, 2025 6:55 pm
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

Just wait for the carefully constructed and rational counterargument which will consist of 'how much glue have you been sniffing?' :roll: Seems like a pretty simple question. Have you been partaking of the famous Canadian fentanyl? Have you been partaking of all-American glue? These are not counter...
by carlafeit
Fri Apr 04, 2025 6:53 pm
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

I can see exactly what's going on. But gender ideology can't allow us to see it. It insists both that gender is a real thing (i.e. that it's necessary for Bob to become, that his desire is legitimate and has as its object "being like a girl"), and also that "girl" is an infinite...
by carlafeit
Thu Apr 03, 2025 9:55 pm
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

Gender ideologists all make it. They can't help it, because they want people to "transition," which means "stop being one thing, and become another." I was hoping for something a little more specific. I am not sure who the "gender ideologists" are - but I know that in ...
by carlafeit
Thu Apr 03, 2025 4:59 am
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

It is interesting how a number of posters casually assumed my ideological beliefs based on my original post. Even the most hard-core TERFs would agree that men have the right to wear dresses if they want - they would dispute any claim that someone can change their gender identity, or that gender ide...
by carlafeit
Thu Apr 03, 2025 4:48 am
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

Girly clothes - dresses, clothing with lots of pink in it, frilly stuff, that sort of thing. This is stereotyping, of course. But then, people turn around and say, "It's wrong to stereotype." It's also essentialism, and people will say, "Essentialism is wrong." In these discussi...
by carlafeit
Thu Apr 03, 2025 4:40 am
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

That's not stereotyping at all :lol: So I assume that your definition of a girl is anyone who wants to be a 'pretty princess' in pink I have no idea where you are getting that from. I do not wear, and do not like wearing, "girly clothes". This has no bearing on whether or not I am a girl.
by carlafeit
Thu Apr 03, 2025 4:37 am
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

Now, would ANY one, here, be brave enough to go to say the islands in the south pacific ocean and tell 'those men' there, who wear 'dresses', 'you are wearing girly clothes'? Different style of dress. If you read Plato, you probably know that any attempt to precisely define anything us futile. But ...
by carlafeit
Thu Apr 03, 2025 4:29 am
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

What I am essentially getting at, here, is that NONE of 'us' KNOW when is the 'right time' to 'offer' or 'provide' so-called 'feedback' nor even what is the 'appropriate feedback' to give or offer. It is possible to make a pretty good guess, and personally I err on the side of not offering feedback...
by carlafeit
Thu Apr 03, 2025 4:22 am
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

Strange men telling me that if dressed more feminine and grew out my hair I would look very pretty — not really open to that very much. If I am work I will maintain a professional demeanor and try to redirect the conversation towards them buying a circular saw or something. And there are some good ...
by carlafeit
Wed Apr 02, 2025 4:31 pm
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

What are 'girly clothes'? You mean you don't know? It was JUST A CLARIFYING QUESTION posed, and JUST ASKED TO you. you are IN a 'philosophy forum' and made A CLAIM. So, what are 'girly' clothes, EXACTLY? Why exactly do you overuse the word 'exactly' and capitalize it so much? Girly clothes - dresse...
by carlafeit
Wed Apr 02, 2025 4:29 pm
Forum: Gender Philosophy
Topic: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?
Replies: 328
Views: 5165

Re: Why do guys who dress as girls get so much hate but not the other way around?

Age wrote: Sun Mar 30, 2025 2:10 pm
Have you EVER OFFERED so-called 'friendly feedback'?
A couple of times, when I saw an obvious way to make the dress look better of the guy wearing it - and I did not offer it to complete strangers out of the blue.

Normally, I will only offer provide feedback when asked.